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Aug 15, 2013
 

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edogxxx wrote:
Lw will lose her granddaughter's trust if she goes to the parents. The best way she can help Grace is to keep the parents out of it.
arents have bsolute say in who their minor kid sees. If parents find out they would be within their rights to forbid grandma from seeing granddaughter.

There are ways to finesse this. Grandma needs to help kid on a tangible program of change and then when positive things are happening, she should encourage kid to share with parents.

Meanwhile, since Grandma knows who is supplying weed, Grandma can address that making sure supplier won't plant some stuff metaphorically at Grandma's house.

Grandma can spend a lot more time with kid. Tutor or help with homework, hang out at Grandma's, go to movies, go to mall,offer to drive the kid somewhere and then hang around, anything that distracts the kid and provides a viable alternative to booze and dope.

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L1: If the person doing the facial is the one that gave the gift, I wouldn't tip. I would definitely show a lot of gratitude on the spot and follow it up with a card. If it's not the person who gave the gift, then tip.

L2: The 'rents probably aren't going to like it either way, whether it's partying or to make herself feel better. If the grandma could look up programs and activities for her granddaughter, speak with the granddaughter about the seriousness of it and alternatives and then go with the granddaughter to talk to the 'rents, I think that might work.

L3: I like LC's idea of speech classes or maybe even improv classes (more fun and does the same thing -- get used to public speaking). A career coach might help him.
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RACE wrote:
How dare you go against me and side with the dog!
Then riddle me this catwoman:
If the daughter is going to grandma, dont you think she is hoping grandma will stand in her corner and help mediate with her parents?
Grandma never said (I dont think) that the kid made her promise not to tell her parents, just that they would yell.
Sounds like the kid wants the parents to know, but does not want all the yelling, so she is turning to grandma for help with that.
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I like to stir things up now and then! <mimi shrug>

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RACE wrote:
reason 1001 why you are not parent material.
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And it's reason 2908 why your daughter didn't want to live with you.

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I will agree that perhaps the grandmother and kid could talk to the parents together. But from what Sub was suggesting, sounded like he thinks the grandma should go behind the kid's back and talk to the parents herself. THAT is what will ruin the trust the kid has with the grandma.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

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Aug 15, 2013
 
Right! You tell me big guy! Hey, had your bud stolen yet? Kids crapping on your lawn, drinking your hooch, hell prolly screwing on your bed (and you thought all those Jizz stains were yours...)

Hey, Ever think that maybe you were a dad for a few weeks, then she found out she was preggers with you kid, so she flushed it?

Cmone big guy, show me your nutz!
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And it's reason 2908 why your daughter didn't want to live with you.

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Aug 15, 2013
 
RACE wrote:
Right! You tell me big guy! Hey, had your bud stolen yet?
Don't have any bud to steal. Gave it up. Trying to find a new job and wanna stay clean.
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Kids crapping on your lawn
No but her dogs are, but that's a non issue.
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drinking your hooch
Hasn't happened yet. They know better this time.
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hell prolly screwing on your bed
I doubt it, but frankly, I don't even care.
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Hey, Ever think that maybe you were a dad for a few weeks, then she found out she was preggers with you kid, so she flushed it?
No.
RACE wrote:
Cmone big guy, show me your nutz!
Probably not something one man should say to another. But if you want a pzzing match, bring it on.

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#28
Aug 15, 2013
 
I just did moron. Your oneliners are a pathetic comeback.
Try again.
Oh, and if I were saying it to another "MAN", you might have an argument.
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Probably not something one man should say to another. But if you want a pzzing match, bring it on.

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#29
Aug 15, 2013
 
1 Wont help, bipolar morons are not employable.
2 She is only telling you its dog crap. It aint.
3 Yeah, keep telling yourself that.
4 Of course not, it gives you something to jerkoff about.
5 Well, think about it cause its prolly true.
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Don't have any bud to steal. Gave it up. Trying to find a new job and wanna stay clean.
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No but her dogs are, but that's a non issue.
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Hasn't happened yet. They know better this time.
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I doubt it, but frankly, I don't even care.
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No.
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Probably not something one man should say to another. But if you want a pzzing match, bring it on.

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Aug 15, 2013
 
RACE wrote:
Your oneliners are a pathetic comeback.
Ooooo, what an insult. Especially considering I wasn't trying to be funny. Sorry, but I'm not here to amuse you.

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Aug 15, 2013
 
RACE wrote:
1 Wont help, bipolar morons are not employable.
2 She is only telling you its dog crap. It aint.
3 Yeah, keep telling yourself that.
4 Of course not, it gives you something to jerkoff about.
5 Well, think about it cause its prolly true.
Talk about pathetic comebacks....

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#32
Aug 15, 2013
 
Really? I think your hilarious! Maybe you should post pissedoff more often, peeps will start liking you.
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Ooooo, what an insult. Especially considering I wasn't trying to be funny. Sorry, but I'm not here to amuse you.

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Hey mutt, stay mad my friend, I got all weekend to bash you.

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Aug 15, 2013
 
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Hey mutt, stay mad my friend, I got all weekend to bash you.
Kinda sad. I somewhat feel sorry for you. Having no life outside of Topix and all....

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Silly rabbit, teasing you is just for fun!
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Kinda sad. I somewhat feel sorry for you. Having no life outside of Topix and all....

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#36
Aug 16, 2013
 
On LW1: I think the best tip this teacher could give the mom/facilist is to give her a great review on yelp or whatever, and also email the spa with a glowing report.

“It made sense at the time....”

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Aug 16, 2013
 
loose cannon wrote:
That ticks me off when people are eager to prescribe and swallow little pills to solve simple problems such as stage fright, which is a very natural phenomena and many people experience when they are put in the spotlight.
Stage fright is not necessarily a simple litte problem and pills are not necesarily the first step a shrink takes. I was in therapy for 6 months before we started talking medications. i was dreading certain situations and would freeze up and start panicking in a crowd when i never used to before. if handled correctly and conservatively, medication can be good.

i've also see others who we don't know rremendously well react wonderfully to medication for psycho-neurological conditions. all of a sudden, behaviours improved dramatically, and we found out later that they had started meds.

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Aug 16, 2013
 
ChicagolandChica wrote:
re:#3, Abby said MAYBE medication. Therapy is a great place to start. However most therapists can't prescribe medication.
mine is a PsyD, but has MDs in teh practice that they work with. they start out with low doses for a couple weeks and frequent touch-bases with teh MD for efficetiveness adn side effects, and work up to longer Rx that teh insruance companies prefer.

i went on meds after working through stuff in talk therapy. but i knew it wasn't enough when i would wake up no teh day of certain events with such a feeling of dread about the event. after startign the meds, that feelign of dread diminished tremendously.

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Aisle Sitter wrote:
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mine is a PsyD, but has MDs in teh practice that they work with. they start out with low doses for a couple weeks and frequent touch-bases with teh MD for efficetiveness adn side effects, and work up to longer Rx that teh insruance companies prefer.
i went on meds after working through stuff in talk therapy. but i knew it wasn't enough when i would wake up no teh day of certain events with such a feeling of dread about the event. after startign the meds, that feelign of dread diminished tremendously.
Medications are a tool, just like surgery is a tool to fix things. It's not for everyone but is a tremendous help for many, many people.

I think it gets a bad wrap b/c there are a lot of doctors that write the script within 5 minutes of meeting the person.

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