The NY reference makes no sense. Plenty of people here give money so I'm not sure that perception.<quoted text>
I agree. I like the gift giving because I like to give someone things they like. But I am pretty standard on giving money for weddings. I guess it's a NY thing <Mimishrug>
I find cards and money....easy but without thought. Plus, like I said, you see how poor I am, lol.
Shopping for a gift gives me anxiety. And I don't know what she loves for her home. They both are in mid-late 30's with plenty of stuff. They don't need it, but it's convention, no?