Whether Martin should toughen up is one question. Whether team management should tell Incognito to do so is another.I agree with the guys on the football thing. I would think it would be similar to the military: Toughen the hell up already.
Whether financial hazing is okay does not sound like it has anything to do with getting tough but everything to do with tolerating an unrestrained petty tyrant/ 300lb spoiled brat.
Unlike the military there is no code of conduct, no behavior discipline enforced and no separate court system to punish infractions peculiar to this trade guild.