cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#91372 Sep 14, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
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Hey fuckyou!!!!!!!!!! Yes I need it. If I didn't need it my doctors, who are ETHICAL (look it up) would never have signed the paper.
You sound like you need it, but let's be honest...getting a doctor to sign that single little paper is no great feat.

And I'm NOT saying you are this (just keeping this thought on this same reponse), but so many people with handicapped decals get so angry when no handicapped spot is available.
I've parked cars for events and they yell at you if there is no spot. "But I have a handicapped decal!" as if we can create a spot that doesn't exist.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#91373 Sep 14, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
If a dude has sex with a prostitute without her consent, is that rape or shoplifting?
As wrong as that sentence is, it's hilarious!

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#91374 Sep 14, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
Tonka! Regarding using a handicapped placard and people making assumptions...must have been kismet or something.
So today while I was out doing stuff someone (at Walmart!!!) decided to question my use of my handicapped placard. I told her to mind her own business and kept walking. She told me she was calling the police. I kept walking. She's yelling at me "you have to stay here until the police come! Come back, you can't go anywhere. This is a citizen's arrest!" I stopped, but only because I started laughing.
I went in to the store and about the time I came out lo and behold, there was a police officer talking to her. She waited a whole half an hour just to harass me. So the cop asked me if it was my car/placard and I said yeah and he asked for the wallet card that matched the placard. I gave it to him along with my ID registration and insurance stuff. I am so legal it's not even funny.
You could see the expression on his face change in about a second. He went OFF on Nosey Rosie about wasting his time, taking him away from real crime, etc. She is to assume that anyone with a placard has a right to use it unless she knows that person personally and knows it's not theirs, and THEN she should report it to the DMV and not waste time of the police.
So there were people watching this right? And after he gives me my stuff back and thanks me for cooperating (as if there was a choice) he told me if I was interested in calling a lawyer there might be a civil action I could take against the dumbbitch (he didn't call her that). I wouldn't waste my time, but nice to know that popo was on my side.
Awesome that the police told you about a civil suit. Dumbbitch! There are certain things that are private, yanno? Dumbbitch.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#91375 Sep 14, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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Many a year back, an investigative reporter on at a local station around here did a report about how easy it was to attain a handicap placard, even though you may not be "truly" handicapped.
Maybe someone with flat feet can get one. Maybe you can get one if you have a "heart defect." Hey, I have an irregular heartbeat. Could I qualify?
My point is, any yahoo can go to his doctor and say he has a sore knee. Then with a Dr's note, apply for, and get, a handicap sticker. Maybe people are abusing the system from within? Taking advantage of something that wasn't really meant for them.
Not to accuse you of anything or ask you to share your medical condition, but do you REALLY need that sticker? Or do you just have some excuse that allows you to get the best parking spots?
Nunya.

“Not a real reg”

Since: Jan 13

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#91376 Sep 14, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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No, and I said as much. If you really need it, fine. I was just asking. No need to be a btch about it. But I guess that's something you just can't help. Might want to add "bitchfornoreason" to your list. But I doubt you can get a handicap sticker for that.
how about you add assfornoreason to your list.
not all doctors give those things out for minor ills.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#91377 Sep 14, 2013
dahgts wrote:
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how about you add assfornoreason to your list.
not all doctors give those things out for minor ills.
and if they do, dog has no way of knowing and can do nothing about it either way. except be dick and accuse them of not REALLY being handicapped.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#91378 Sep 14, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
Well what WAS your point? Or was this just rambling just to ramble?
I was not offering opinion on what to "do" about people gaming the system. My point was the system can be abused.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#91379 Sep 14, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
and if they do, dog has no way of knowing and can do nothing about it either way.
And this is not my argument! So ramble on, I will not engage in an argument that only exists in your head. You're just mad because I pointed out your inconsistency.

Toj

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Since: Jul 12

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#91380 Sep 14, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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I was not offering opinion on what to "do" about people gaming the system. My point was the system can be abused.
Big news. Not!

Every friggin system can be abused. Name one that can't.

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#91381 Sep 14, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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No, and I said as much. If you really need it, fine. I was just asking. No need to be a btch about it. But I guess that's something you just can't help. Might want to add "bitchfornoreason" to your list. But I doubt you can get a handicap sticker for that.
>>but do you REALLY need that sticker?<<

Yeah, bitchfornoreason? WhattheFUCK is this then? Casting aspersions on my character much?

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#91382 Sep 14, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
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You sound like you need it, but let's be honest...getting a doctor to sign that single little paper is no great feat.
And I'm NOT saying you are this (just keeping this thought on this same reponse), but so many people with handicapped decals get so angry when no handicapped spot is available.
I've parked cars for events and they yell at you if there is no spot. "But I have a handicapped decal!" as if we can create a spot that doesn't exist.
True. Edog was being a doosh and it pissedmeoff. There are only *so many* handicapped spots so if people get all butt hurt because one isn't available, they need help. I mean I don't get all pushed out of shape when I go to the grocery store and they are all taken, I just find the next closest spot.

FWIW when there are spots close enough, and it doesn't impose a severe problem for me...that is if it doesn't take 30 minutes to walk 20 feet, I will park in other than disabled because I figure there might be someone who needs it more than I do; wheelchair, van with a lift for a wheelchair, someone with crutches or a cane (I don't need a cane right now, though it is in my car just in case). Actually this is the case probably 9/10 times because I try to patronize places that aren't crazy packed with people. Not for parking reasons more for I don't like people reasons. <shrug>

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#91383 Sep 14, 2013
Toj wrote:
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Awesome that the police told you about a civil suit. Dumbbitch! There are certain things that are private, yanno? Dumbbitch.
Right? I wouldn't spend the time doing it. First I'm better than her, second, what would I get anyway a hundred bucks punitive money and court costs? Not even worth the time to file it. But yeah cool cop.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#91384 Sep 14, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
Casting aspersions on my character much?
Given the way you act on here, yes.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#91385 Sep 14, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
Edog was being a doosh and it pissedmeoff.
I asked a question. If that pissedyouoff and makes me a doosh, that's on you.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#91386 Sep 14, 2013
Toj wrote:
Every friggin system can be abused.
Exactly my point. Thanks for understanding.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#91387 Sep 14, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
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>>but do you REALLY need that sticker?<<
Yeah, bitchfornoreason? WhattheFUCK is this then? Casting aspersions on my character much?
I am not defending eDog here.

I think the question is whether the parking placards should be confined to people who have mobility limitations or whether they should also be available to people with exertional limitations.

The Chicago area has had some pretty big abuses. There are on-street parking spaces which are free for people with handicap stickers. Meter parking for the rest of us is astronomical. People use relatives stickers. People without stickers at all park there.

A few years back there was an expose abut doctors who would write the note for a placard for anyone who asked. I knew, first hand, one guy who got one because he carried a diagnosis of paranoia- nothing else. Personally, I don't think the system was meant for that sort of thing. The question is where do you draw a line?

I applaud your initiative and tenacity to travel the places you have been. I wish I could go some of those places. I am truly envious. Others I have been to.

I am also familiar with the diseases on your list. You have been dealt a rotten hand, no doubt about it.How do you cope when you have a flare up someplace like Nepal or Morocco?

“On Deck”

Since: Aug 08

French Polynesia

#91388 Sep 14, 2013
I don't pay much attention to handicap parking scofflaws.
Tonka, I have a computer guru coming over tomorrow morning to try and fire up my computer.
Went to Fry's today and kinda chewed the guy out when he started laughing about my problem. I had to remind him that I did buy it off them originally. It's only a few years old and has always worked fine for me.
It's just really disappointing that I may have to shell out a few hundred dollars because someone hacked my system.
I'll let you know what happens.

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#91389 Sep 14, 2013
PEllen wrote:
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I am also familiar with the diseases on your list. You have been dealt a rotten hand, no doubt about it.How do you cope when you have a flare up someplace like Nepal or Morocco?
I've been really lucky for the most part. I did get really sick in Morocco, and I still maintain that if everyone had just let me ALONE and NOT insisted I go to the ER I wouldn't have gotten as sick as I did, but, whatever yanno? The hospital, and I use that word loosely, in that neighborhood left a lot to be desired. Fortunately the consulate took pity on me and got me seen by the same doctors the (American) embassy workers use so I lived.

Also a lot of it was when I was younger and dealt with/bounced back easier, before the COPD and CHF...

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#91390 Sep 14, 2013
PEllen wrote:
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I am not defending eDog here.
I think the question is whether the parking placards should be confined to people who have mobility limitations or whether they should also be available to people with exertional limitations.
I'm sure Chicago has abuses. It's Chicago. If there wasn't corruption it just wouldn't be Chicago.:) There are abuses to all systems everywhere in all cities. That's life. I do not think though that the vast majority of people are abusing the system, the rare doctor that will sign it for any reason (and $$$ I imagine) not withstanding.

I get the whole mobility limitations thing, but really, someone in a wheelchair actually could possibly have an easier (nor easy, just easiER) time getting from A to B than I do, especially if it's motorized. There is not a need to stop in order to breathe every few feet, there is not the non-cooperation of their muscles and joints when trying to walk, there is not a loss of balance threatening to topple them on to the asphalt in front of the entire world.

Unless you (the general you) need to stop every 15 feet because it's too far to walk for all of the reasons I listed (medically) independently and in any configuration as well as a whole bunch of other stuff I didn't mention then you (again the general you) have no idea how important it is to be able to park as close as possible.

And no matter what anyone thinks about what Edog was trying to say, the fact that he not only questioned my need, but the manner in which he did it cast doubt on my veracity. It was offensive and insulting. It is a perfect example of the DB woman today who thinks that they know better than ALL of my doctors whether or not I have mobility issues.

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Des Plaines, IL

#91391 Sep 14, 2013
so close yet so far for me on some of the stuff from germany.... haven't been to oktoberfest (too many people for my liking) and we haven't made it to the big castle. while we haven't made it to frankfurt for the christmas market, we have been to nurnburg (sp?) which was the first, adn the one in hte big square in munich, which is very large.

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