Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#91043 Sep 10, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
Ermahgerrrrd, guess who is crashing and burning at her new school already? Whuuuuut? Itotallydidnotseethatcoming.
Hmmm. For some reason I thought she'd last a week or two more.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#91044 Sep 10, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
And I've known more than one person who's attempted to become a US citizen, waded through all the paperwork and thousands of dollars, and were either denied or gave up. It's not as easy as Mimi is trying to make it sound. In other words, I think she's full of it.
It depends how you're going about it, why you're going about it and who is helping you. Also depends on how you're here in the country. I imagine if you don't have the proper visa to be here in the first place, things could get dicey. Also depends on what nationality and how many of those nationalities are trying to get in. Quotas aren't just for police.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#91045 Sep 10, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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WHat I see coming: This is everybody else's fault.
Ding ding ding! I only got bits and pieces of it, but--it's not her fault she has no money and her bank is charging her for...not depositing regularly...or something.

Her roommate sucks because she has early classes and wakes SIL up, who has no classes before 11.

She blamed a prof for something and *that*, shockingly, didn't go over so hot. In reference to that situation, somebody, not sure who, might have been the prof--told her to seek counseling (spot on).

It's not her fault the food sucks on campus, even though nearly every review of the school we read ahead of time said it did. She picked the 21 meal a week plan--she can eat the crap food or go hungry.

On the plus side, J and I started counseling yesterday. Gettin' our sh1t back together even if nobody else wants to.:-D

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#91046 Sep 10, 2013
Oh, and, AND, she claims she's having panic attacks daily now. I realize those are real, yadda yadda, but given the source, I think she's full of shyte.

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#91047 Sep 10, 2013
So I helped my mom unpack her 3 Pods worth of stuff into her new townhome. It's very lovely, but there are lots of stairs...Then got held up leaving and got stuck in at least 3 traffic jams on my 1 and 40 minute drive home (should only take an hour) so by the time I got home I was done. Had enough energy to bathe and pass out.

So this morning, I didn't really have a lot of energy for lunch-making and getting ready so I happily threw on a very cute green dress I wear on very hot days (we're supposed to break records here today). I was locking the door with Lulu holding the screen door when she says "um mom, there's a teeny tiny hole in your dress right by your underwear." Well, it wasn't tiny and there was no way I could wear it to work, so I had to run back in the house and find something else I could wear on a record-breaking hot day. <sigh> I found something, but I do not look nearly as cute and now I have to find something to replace this dress because this will not be the last time hot and lazy will coincide.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#91049 Sep 10, 2013
squishymama wrote:
So I helped my mom unpack her 3 Pods worth of stuff into her new townhome. It's very lovely, but there are lots of stairs...Then got held up leaving and got stuck in at least 3 traffic jams on my 1 and 40 minute drive home (should only take an hour) so by the time I got home I was done. Had enough energy to bathe and pass out.
So this morning, I didn't really have a lot of energy for lunch-making and getting ready so I happily threw on a very cute green dress I wear on very hot days (we're supposed to break records here today). I was locking the door with Lulu holding the screen door when she says "um mom, there's a teeny tiny hole in your dress right by your underwear." Well, it wasn't tiny and there was no way I could wear it to work, so I had to run back in the house and find something else I could wear on a record-breaking hot day. <sigh> I found something, but I do not look nearly as cute and now I have to find something to replace this dress because this will not be the last time hot and lazy will coincide.
Here I thought we lived in Chicago and it's feeling more and more like inland Florida. They say 98 today. Eek!

Since: Oct 12

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#91050 Sep 10, 2013
I see Townhouses down here.....i wish i had the energy to sell our too big house and have a nice townhouse....I'd have to sell my toys, that's a problem...lol...

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#91051 Sep 10, 2013
squishymama wrote:
So I helped my mom unpack her 3 Pods worth of stuff into her new townhome. It's very lovely, but there are lots of stairs...Then got held up leaving and got stuck in at least 3 traffic jams on my 1 and 40 minute drive home (should only take an hour) so by the time I got home I was done. Had enough energy to bathe and pass out.
So this morning, I didn't really have a lot of energy for lunch-making and getting ready so I happily threw on a very cute green dress I wear on very hot days (we're supposed to break records here today). I was locking the door with Lulu holding the screen door when she says "um mom, there's a teeny tiny hole in your dress right by your underwear." Well, it wasn't tiny and there was no way I could wear it to work, so I had to run back in the house and find something else I could wear on a record-breaking hot day. <sigh> I found something, but I do not look nearly as cute and now I have to find something to replace this dress because this will not be the last time hot and lazy will coincide.
Ha, kids come in handy like that sometimes.

Since: Oct 12

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#91052 Sep 10, 2013
Toj wrote:
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Here I thought we lived in Chicago and it's feeling more and more like inland Florida. They say 98 today. Eek!
I was just telling somebody, some people up north have had hotter days than us.....and it almost never gets above 92, down here....it's alot about the humidity....

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Chicago, IL

#91053 Sep 10, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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My two coworkers (one is Hmong, the other is Russian) had an easy, fast time of becoming citizens. Just a few months. Not a big deal.
I'd say MImi has 10 times the credibility you do, but you have zero credibility and 0 x 10 = zero. So she has lots of credibility, and you have none.
How many times have I proven you wrong?

Nuff said.

Since: Jun 09

Saint Petersburg, FL

#91054 Sep 10, 2013
Go Blue Forever wrote:
I see Townhouses down here.....i wish i had the energy to sell our too big house and have a nice townhouse....I'd have to sell my toys, that's a problem...lol...
I had a townhome till about 2 years ago and my parents live in one. My dad got it in his head last year to sell the townhouse (because of the stairs) and by a fixer-upper house to gut. Mind you, he just turned 86 last week. Luckily, the realtor talked him out of it (my mom was against it). But they really hate those stairs. I did, too. Especially when I fell down them! They looped around and the right side was only a couple inches wide coming down. Bit it a couple times!

Since: Jan 10

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#91055 Sep 10, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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How many times have I proven you wrong?
Nuff said.
Too few to even remember.

Since: Jan 10

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#91056 Sep 10, 2013
squishymama wrote:
So I helped my mom unpack her 3 Pods worth of stuff into her new townhome. It's very lovely, but there are lots of stairs...Then got held up leaving and got stuck in at least 3 traffic jams on my 1 and 40 minute drive home (should only take an hour) so by the time I got home I was done. Had enough energy to bathe and pass out.
So this morning, I didn't really have a lot of energy for lunch-making and getting ready so I happily threw on a very cute green dress I wear on very hot days (we're supposed to break records here today). I was locking the door with Lulu holding the screen door when she says "um mom, there's a teeny tiny hole in your dress right by your underwear." Well, it wasn't tiny and there was no way I could wear it to work, so I had to run back in the house and find something else I could wear on a record-breaking hot day. <sigh> I found something, but I do not look nearly as cute and now I have to find something to replace this dress because this will not be the last time hot and lazy will coincide.
Or buy cute green undies to match and no one will notice!:)

Since: Oct 12

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#91057 Sep 10, 2013
Stina2 wrote:
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I had a townhome till about 2 years ago and my parents live in one. My dad got it in his head last year to sell the townhouse (because of the stairs) and by a fixer-upper house to gut. Mind you, he just turned 86 last week. Luckily, the realtor talked him out of it (my mom was against it). But they really hate those stairs. I did, too. Especially when I fell down them! They looped around and the right side was only a couple inches wide coming down. Bit it a couple times!
We have a development, down here of one story, 3/2's...kinda California-style, with these huge enclosed patios, in groupings of four, all facing a different direction....i cruise thru there, everytime i go to that Home Depot by there....lol...tough for us, cause we have two dogs, but i love orchids and gardening, so the patio is a huge bonus.....

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#91058 Sep 10, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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Or buy cute green undies to match and no one will notice!:)
Oh, I will look for some, but I don't think I'm going to find any.

I've found a few acceptable substitutes on clearance at Old Navy (where the original dress was from, also on clearance), but none this really pretty green.
:(

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#91059 Sep 10, 2013
Stina2 wrote:
<quoted text>
I had a townhome till about 2 years ago and my parents live in one. My dad got it in his head last year to sell the townhouse (because of the stairs) and by a fixer-upper house to gut. Mind you, he just turned 86 last week. Luckily, the realtor talked him out of it (my mom was against it). But they really hate those stairs. I did, too. Especially when I fell down them! They looped around and the right side was only a couple inches wide coming down. Bit it a couple times!
My folks were in a ranch, so they are really going to have a hard time with the stairs. We already joked that they are going to have awesome butts.

But they're are only there about half the year anyway (they winter in AZ) so the trade-off for the stairs is not having a lawn to deal with. I think they're going to like it.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#91060 Sep 10, 2013
Lemme guess...
Mail Order Brides?

Or were you just hanging around the immigration office hoping to score?
edogxxx wrote:
And I've known more than one person who's attempted to become a US citizen, waded through all the paperwork and thousands of dollars, and were either denied or gave up. It's not as easy as Mimi is trying to make it sound. In other words, I think she's full of it.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#91061 Sep 10, 2013
Running out of peeps to blame is very stressful.
Matilda77 wrote:
Oh, and, AND, she claims she's having panic attacks daily now. I realize those are real, yadda yadda, but given the source, I think she's full of shyte.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#91062 Sep 10, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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My two coworkers (one is Hmong, the other is Russian) had an easy, fast time of becoming citizens. Just a few months. Not a big deal.
I'd say MImi has 10 times the credibility you do, but you have zero credibility and 0 x 10 = zero. So she has lots of credibility, and you have none.
If they were your co workers they are probably skilled had jobs and spoke enough English and were here on the visa for targeted skill workers. The same process may not hold true for everyone

This is the USCIS link. It does not look like you can do it in under 5 years unless you were a permanent (immigration resident) first. I strongly suspect that you and the dog and Mimi may be talking about different aspects of the process.

http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuit...

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#91063 Sep 10, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
Oh, and, AND, she claims she's having panic attacks daily now. I realize those are real, yadda yadda, but given the source, I think she's full of shyte.
Where is the fiance in all this?
Mama Pelly here:don't rescue her. Let her figure out how to do that for herself. Hard advice.

I am glad you've gone back to therapy.The advice you get here is worth just a tad more than the paper it is written on.

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