Probably not but judging from her original letter he did not communicate it very well.<quoted text>
Thanks for the follow-up! I read a lot of comments but didn't get down that far. Most were in her favor, but a few guys were on the boyfriend's side.
I wonder if she'd have been so hyped up about moving in and having a future if he wasn't so well off.
Money issues need to be addressed before marriage . Its easier with a roommate without romance or expectations to muddy the waters..