Something happened between Tuesday evening and Saturday. My first guess is that he is also seeing someone else but that is only a guess.So...some deconstruction help?
Last Sat had a date with the guy and he was all into it and didn't want to leave my car, even in the rain.
Called Tue. to check on me and how work started. I couldn't chat long but he was nice about it.
We already had a date last night and I never heard from him between Tue and last night, but he arrived and all seemed 'normal' and fine. We chatted like always and he was putting his arm around my chair and I was leaning into him and things were as usual, but about 3/4 into it he got really quiet and standoffish.
I asked if he was okay and he said yes, but he was quiet and his leg was tapping furiously under the table. At my car he didn't open the door like always and he didn't linger.
Can't think of anything to prompt that in the last week....any thoughts??
Have you checked his profile on the site where you met? On Facebook or similar public sites?
Are you comfortable enough to call him up and ask what was going on? The worst is that he will say its not working out.
However, I have been out of the dating pool since 1981 so conventions may have changed and at a minimum you and I have different dating personalities.