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“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Braidwood, IL

#90185 Aug 25, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
So...some deconstruction help?
Last Sat had a date with the guy and he was all into it and didn't want to leave my car, even in the rain.
Called Tue. to check on me and how work started. I couldn't chat long but he was nice about it.
We already had a date last night and I never heard from him between Tue and last night, but he arrived and all seemed 'normal' and fine. We chatted like always and he was putting his arm around my chair and I was leaning into him and things were as usual, but about 3/4 into it he got really quiet and standoffish.
I asked if he was okay and he said yes, but he was quiet and his leg was tapping furiously under the table. At my car he didn't open the door like always and he didn't linger.
Can't think of anything to prompt that in the last week....any thoughts??
Who knows? We're not mind readers. Maybe you said something that threw him? But I agree with Pelly, you're probably not the only woman he's seeing at the moment.

See, in retrospect I'm not looking so bad now, am I?
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#90186 Aug 25, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
Who knows? We're not mind readers. Maybe you said something that threw him? But I agree with Pelly, you're probably not the only woman he's seeing at the moment.
See, in retrospect I'm not looking so bad now, am I?
Pfftt....
It's just annoying, ya know?
6 weeks and he's all into and then poof-weird. But weird near the end of a date?? Why be all nice and cozy and normal for most of it?
But I really expected a call on Fri. so I was already wondering then....I hate the not knowing the most.
I'm a big girl. Hopfully, I get some reason and not just the fade away, not after 6 weeks. That wou;d be rude.
But I don't deserve someone who is willing to throw me aside.
:)

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#90187 Aug 25, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
So...some deconstruction help?
Last Sat had a date with the guy and he was all into it and didn't want to leave my car, even in the rain.
Called Tue. to check on me and how work started. I couldn't chat long but he was nice about it.
We already had a date last night and I never heard from him between Tue and last night, but he arrived and all seemed 'normal' and fine. We chatted like always and he was putting his arm around my chair and I was leaning into him and things were as usual, but about 3/4 into it he got really quiet and standoffish.
I asked if he was okay and he said yes, but he was quiet and his leg was tapping furiously under the table. At my car he didn't open the door like always and he didn't linger.
Can't think of anything to prompt that in the last week....any thoughts??
Maybe it was something physical, like bad gas or even a panic attack. That he hasn't called yet could mean embarrassment on his part.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Braidwood, IL

#90188 Aug 25, 2013
squishymama wrote:
Maybe it was something physical, like bad gas or even a panic attack. That he hasn't called yet could mean embarrassment on his part.
That's it! He has ulcerative colitis! Wanna marry THAT?

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#90189 Aug 25, 2013
First in country to wear pasta strainer in government ID photo by claiming it is part of his 'religion' in the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-24018...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-24018...
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#90190 Aug 25, 2013
squishymama wrote:
<quoted text>
Maybe it was something physical, like bad gas or even a panic attack. That he hasn't called yet could mean embarrassment on his part.
LOL, I thought of that!

Well, he called at 9 and we're going dancing Friday AND he locked in Labor Day for a picnic, lol.
I maintain: guys.are.freaking.weird.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#90191 Aug 25, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
<quoted text>
LOL, I thought of that!
Well, he called at 9 and we're going dancing Friday AND he locked in Labor Day for a picnic, lol.
I maintain: guys.are.freaking.weird.
You women think things are so complicated. Its obvious. He laid money on the Dodgers to take out the Sox and cut into their lead over the Marlins, and instead, the Sox won and stayed out in front with the Marlins choking on fumes.
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#90192 Aug 25, 2013
Oh, I have not overthought anything these 6 weeks.
His behavior the last 1/3 of our date was drastically different than any other interaction I've known from him. It was very obvious.

Maybe he was in pain...weird...hope it doesn't happen again.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Braidwood, IL

#90193 Aug 26, 2013

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#90195 Aug 26, 2013
Thanks Dog

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#90196 Aug 26, 2013
We did it! My SIL is gone until at *least* Thanksgiving, probably Christmas. At which point, we may be chucking her out of our house. Long, long story short, she's gone from needy and annoying to just insufferable and impossible to be around. Move-in day, she threw a temper tantrum in front of us, her fiance, his dad, about 6 RAs from her dorm, her new roommate, her roommate's mom, and a few lucky strangers. Because the fiance was bringing in bags from her car that "she didn't want yet". After she stormed off, I was just like "Good f'n luck with that one." We almost left without saying goodbye, we were that pissed.

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#90197 Aug 26, 2013
UGH! I look terrible with egg on my face!
Can I have ketchup on my humble pie?
Mimi Seattle wrote:
<quoted text>
Ummmm DPRK is N. Korea... j/s
Otherwise, yeah.

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#90198 Aug 26, 2013
HA HA HA HA HAAAAAAA!
(GASP!)

Served his country.....
NO, HE served himself and himself only!
Toj wrote:
<quoted text>
He served his country in a different way. With no draft, he decided to serve the country by going into public service. And he did it willingly.

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#90199 Aug 26, 2013
He wants to get laid.
cheluzal wrote:
So...some deconstruction help?
Last Sat had a date with the guy and he was all into it and didn't want to leave my car, even in the rain.
Called Tue. to check on me and how work started. I couldn't chat long but he was nice about it.
We already had a date last night and I never heard from him between Tue and last night, but he arrived and all seemed 'normal' and fine. We chatted like always and he was putting his arm around my chair and I was leaning into him and things were as usual, but about 3/4 into it he got really quiet and standoffish.
I asked if he was okay and he said yes, but he was quiet and his leg was tapping furiously under the table. At my car he didn't open the door like always and he didn't linger.
Can't think of anything to prompt that in the last week....any thoughts??

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Melrose Park, IL

#90200 Aug 26, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
We did it! My SIL is gone until at *least* Thanksgiving, probably Christmas. At which point, we may be chucking her out of our house. Long, long story short, she's gone from needy and annoying to just insufferable and impossible to be around. Move-in day, she threw a temper tantrum in front of us, her fiance, his dad, about 6 RAs from her dorm, her new roommate, her roommate's mom, and a few lucky strangers. Because the fiance was bringing in bags from her car that "she didn't want yet". After she stormed off, I was just like "Good f'n luck with that one." We almost left without saying goodbye, we were that pissed.
Eh, she'll be back before weeks end

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Melrose Park, IL

#90201 Aug 26, 2013
RACE wrote:
HA HA HA HA HAAAAAAA!
(GASP!)
Served his country.....
NO, HE served himself and himself only!
<quoted text>
Toj's comment could be said of ALL politicians.

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#90202 Aug 26, 2013

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#90203 Aug 26, 2013
Thats like dead animal cruelty dude!
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>It IS steak night. Just went to Logans.
Just for you,Race. Wife ordered medium well. I ordered well done. She had to send hers back cause it was medium. I didn't want to deal with sending mine back, but showed the waitress how terrible my steak was prepared with so much red.
Gave us $5 off. Probably some snobby new cook back there trying to push his taste on the customers.

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#90204 Aug 26, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
We did it! My SIL is gone until at *least* Thanksgiving, probably Christmas. At which point, we may be chucking her out of our house. Long, long story short, she's gone from needy and annoying to just insufferable and impossible to be around. Move-in day, she threw a temper tantrum in front of us, her fiance, his dad, about 6 RAs from her dorm, her new roommate, her roommate's mom, and a few lucky strangers. Because the fiance was bringing in bags from her car that "she didn't want yet". After she stormed off, I was just like "Good f'n luck with that one." We almost left without saying goodbye, we were that pissed.
Wow. And...I want the long version with all of the sordid details. Make sure to use all the dirty words!:D

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#90205 Aug 26, 2013
RACE wrote:
Thats like dead animal cruelty dude!
<quoted text>
Right? Why even order the steak? I've got a few spare hockey pucks they can chew on...

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