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cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#89156 Aug 6, 2013
2nd date with a guy. He's 18 minutes late and I see him running down the road towards Starbucks. He drives a big rig (owns the company but apparently won't hire someone), and parked it under an overpass!
Odd.
At the end of the date he asks me if I need money. WTF He asks me if I need food. I ask why and he says because I'm so thin!*jaw drop*

Dog's met me--I am naturally thin but healthy. The kicker is this guy is thin too! Like the male equivalent of me: tall and rail thin but we eat with a high metabolism.

GAH!

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#89157 Aug 6, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
2nd date with a guy. He's 18 minutes late and I see him running down the road towards Starbucks. He drives a big rig (owns the company but apparently won't hire someone), and parked it under an overpass!
Odd.
At the end of the date he asks me if I need money. WTF He asks me if I need food. I ask why and he says because I'm so thin!*jaw drop*
Dog's met me--I am naturally thin but healthy. The kicker is this guy is thin too! Like the male equivalent of me: tall and rail thin but we eat with a high metabolism.
GAH!
Well at least he is solicitous of your well being. Could have been a lot worse.

My ex husband was skinny and wiry as long as I knew him from roughly age 18-29. Older relatives used to force milkshakes and food on him and her would never put on an ounce. Jack Sprat.

“Not a real reg”

Since: Jan 13

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#89159 Aug 7, 2013

Since: Jan 10

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#89160 Aug 7, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
2nd date with a guy. He's 18 minutes late and I see him running down the road towards Starbucks. He drives a big rig (owns the company but apparently won't hire someone), and parked it under an overpass!
Odd.
At the end of the date he asks me if I need money. WTF He asks me if I need food. I ask why and he says because I'm so thin!*jaw drop*
Dog's met me--I am naturally thin but healthy. The kicker is this guy is thin too! Like the male equivalent of me: tall and rail thin but we eat with a high metabolism.
GAH!
I think he sounds like a clueless tool! Asks you if you need money? DId he assume you're dirt poor? WTH?
edogxxx

Chicago, IL

#89161 Aug 7, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
2nd date with a guy. He's 18 minutes late and I see him running down the road towards Starbucks. He drives a big rig (owns the company but apparently won't hire someone), and parked it under an overpass!
Odd.
At the end of the date he asks me if I need money. WTF He asks me if I need food. I ask why and he says because I'm so thin!*jaw drop*
Dog's met me--I am naturally thin but healthy. The kicker is this guy is thin too! Like the male equivalent of me: tall and rail thin but we eat with a high metabolism.
GAH!
Just tell people you're not thin, you're small boned.

And see? I keep telling you that you won't find anyone better than me. Just accept it. I've never commented on your physique. And I like my women thin anyway.
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#89162 Aug 7, 2013
Yeah, what's the opposite equivalent to "curvy"? LOL
We can't say a word about larger folk, but people have no trouble pointing out us skinny ones. It's so rude.
But HE is skinn! So weird. He is the most socially unaware person I've ever met. He has definitely been too sheltered in life...

It's good comedy, if I almost didn't feel so sorry for him.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#89163 Aug 7, 2013
Uggghhh...my sister called me last night to tell me that she's quitting her job and going back to her mall job. You know, the job she got two Master's degrees for and that pays a lot better than the mall job and that has insurance?

I guess it was pretty intense (geriatric psych ward at a hospital), but...that's what drinking after work is for.

Does *anyone* I'm related to believe in working? I guess it's *kind of* cool that she's apparently going to live with my dad long term. He doesn't seem to mind the company, and I worry less about him that way. But still...da fuuuk?

Since: Jan 10

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#89164 Aug 7, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
Uggghhh...my sister called me last night to tell me that she's quitting her job and going back to her mall job. You know, the job she got two Master's degrees for and that pays a lot better than the mall job and that has insurance?
I guess it was pretty intense (geriatric psych ward at a hospital), but...that's what drinking after work is for.
Does *anyone* I'm related to believe in working? I guess it's *kind of* cool that she's apparently going to live with my dad long term. He doesn't seem to mind the company, and I worry less about him that way. But still...da fuuuk?
Just... wow. What if your dad had made it clear to her that she isn't allowed to move back in? She'd be forced to keep the job she doesn't like. Wah effing wah. That's most of us. It's called "paying for your life."

Since: Jan 10

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#89165 Aug 7, 2013
I'm not saying your dad would do that or that he should -- it's his call. But man, my parents would just tell me "no" if it wasn't related to an emergency of some kind.

Since: Mar 09

Miami, FL

#89166 Aug 7, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
Uggghhh...my sister called me last night to tell me that she's quitting her job and going back to her mall job. You know, the job she got two Master's degrees for and that pays a lot better than the mall job and that has insurance?
I guess it was pretty intense (geriatric psych ward at a hospital), but...that's what drinking after work is for.
Does *anyone* I'm related to believe in working? I guess it's *kind of* cool that she's apparently going to live with my dad long term. He doesn't seem to mind the company, and I worry less about him that way. But still...da fuuuk?
Oh boy, did you catch me at a bad moment with this. Right now I'm super jealous and wish I had a stress-free mall job and a rent-free place to live. But I'm just frustrated right now....

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#89167 Aug 7, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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Just... wow. What if your dad had made it clear to her that she isn't allowed to move back in? She'd be forced to keep the job she doesn't like. Wah effing wah. That's most of us. It's called "paying for your life."
He wouldn't do that, unless she was smoking crack in the house or something. My mom probably would have, but that's catch-22, because she was annoying to live with and the reason one would want to move out. My dad is just kind of quiet, clean, and minds his own business.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#89168 Aug 7, 2013
j_m_w wrote:
<quoted text>
Oh boy, did you catch me at a bad moment with this. Right now I'm super jealous and wish I had a stress-free mall job and a rent-free place to live. But I'm just frustrated right now....
Internet hug for whatever you're going through.

I gotta say, though, it's usually much better to be an independant adult with all the crap that goes with it than a perpetual teenager. And not in a charming, Dick Clark kind of way.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#89169 Aug 7, 2013
*independEnt, rather

Since: Mar 09

Miami, FL

#89170 Aug 7, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
<quoted text>
Internet hug for whatever you're going through.
I gotta say, though, it's usually much better to be an independant adult with all the crap that goes with it than a perpetual teenager. And not in a charming, Dick Clark kind of way.
Thanks.

I'm overwhelmed and keep getting more and more projects and stuff. I'm about to lose a vacation day (use or lose policy) and then I'll get a new set of three weeks, but no time to use them, at least not until mid-January at the earliest. I want to be an independently *wealthy* adult.... I promise I'd still be a productive member of society and volunteer and give back and stuff.

Since: Feb 10

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#89171 Aug 7, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
Yeah, what's the opposite equivalent to "curvy"? LOL
We can't say a word about larger folk, but people have no trouble pointing out us skinny ones. It's so rude.
But HE is skinn! So weird. He is the most socially unaware person I've ever met. He has definitely been too sheltered in life...
It's good comedy, if I almost didn't feel so sorry for him.
svelte...sounds so much better than skinny

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#89172 Aug 7, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
Uggghhh...my sister called me last night to tell me that she's quitting her job and going back to her mall job. You know, the job she got two Master's degrees for and that pays a lot better than the mall job and that has insurance?
I guess it was pretty intense (geriatric psych ward at a hospital), but...that's what drinking after work is for.
Does *anyone* I'm related to believe in working? I guess it's *kind of* cool that she's apparently going to live with my dad long term. He doesn't seem to mind the company, and I worry less about him that way. But still...da fuuuk?
Wow. That being said a geriatric psych ward sounds rough. We had an incident in the south suburbs last week where a 95 year old guy in a nursing home went combatative, threatening people with a 12 inch knife. EMT's couldn't handle him. Cops were called. Taser didn't work. They bean bagged him. Only he died that afternoon. I would not have wanted to be a small female nurse in that situation. I suspect this is not uncommon and the only reason it made the papers was that the guy was 95 and he died.

Since: Jan 10

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#89173 Aug 7, 2013
FB post on Lamebook:

Thought for the day: My ex-wife used to call me gullible and financially irresponsible. I can't wait to see her face when I tell her I just won the NIgerian lottery!!!!!

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#89174 Aug 7, 2013
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>Wow. That being said a geriatric psych ward sounds rough. We had an incident in the south suburbs last week where a 95 year old guy in a nursing home went combatative, threatening people with a 12 inch knife. EMT's couldn't handle him. Cops were called. Taser didn't work. They bean bagged him. Only he died that afternoon. I would not have wanted to be a small female nurse in that situation. I suspect this is not uncommon and the only reason it made the papers was that the guy was 95 and he died.
I actually read about that story and thought of my sister.

I do actually understand her plight. I would *not* last long in a similar job, either. Buuuuuut...that's why I went with computers over crazy people when picking a major in college.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#89175 Aug 7, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
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I actually read about that story and thought of my sister.
I do actually understand her plight. I would *not* last long in a similar job, either. Buuuuuut...that's why I went with computers over crazy people when picking a major in college.
Anything geriatric should be marketable these days, especially health care administration.. If she could master Japanese, even more so, since the press has lots of stories about their aging population problems. I wonder if her college placement office can help...if she wants help, which is not clear.

Since: Jan 10

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#89176 Aug 7, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
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I actually read about that story and thought of my sister.
I do actually understand her plight. I would *not* last long in a similar job, either. Buuuuuut...that's why I went with computers over crazy people when picking a major in college.
Well, that's what I was thinking... that job apparently was in her field of study, how was she not prepared for what she'd be dealing with? I think she should join the Peace Corps. Get some real world experience and some appreciation for all the opportunities she's had that others don't get.

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