“...,to wit”

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#86035 May 23, 2013
Whoever's invitation was accepted first gets priority.

If it was with BF, tell him plans for the evening have changed- would he like to see Gatsby instead?

Say A isn't up to a group, just teh girls but he has first dibs. Then if he says go with your gf's, I'm good, honor has been satisfied

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#86036 May 23, 2013
My coworker's 27yo nephew committed suicide yesterday in a psych ward.:(

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Since: Feb 09

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#86037 May 23, 2013
Out of politeness, I did not mention this alternative.
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Eh give him a BJ and then leave him alone for the night.

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#86038 May 23, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
My coworker's 27yo nephew committed suicide yesterday in a psych ward.:(
:(

“Checks and Balances”

Since: Apr 13

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#86039 May 23, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
My coworker's 27yo nephew committed suicide yesterday in a psych ward.:(
Keeping coworker and family in my thoughts and prayers.

I hope he is now at peace and I hope that brings some comfort to those who loved him.

Since: Oct 12

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#86040 May 23, 2013
PEllen wrote:
Whoever's invitation was accepted first gets priority.
If it was with BF, tell him plans for the evening have changed- would he like to see Gatsby instead?
Say A isn't up to a group, just teh girls but he has first dibs. Then if he says go with your gf's, I'm good, honor has been satisfied
I heard Gatsby sucked? Did you like it?
Stina

Saint Petersburg, FL

#86041 May 23, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
My coworker's 27yo nephew committed suicide yesterday in a psych ward.:(
Very sad. I am surprised he did it in a psycho ward, though.

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#86042 May 23, 2013
ScarletandOlive wrote:
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Keeping coworker and family in my thoughts and prayers.
I hope he is now at peace and I hope that brings some comfort to those who loved him.
Apparently the shrinks there said he wasn't behaving/talking in a way that had them thinking he needed to be on a suicide watch, but people -- especially guys -- in their 20s with mental health issues can do impulsive things, just going moment to moment.

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#86043 May 23, 2013
Go Blue Forever wrote:
<quoted text>I heard Gatsby sucked? Did you like it?
I also have heard that it sucked.

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#86044 May 23, 2013
Stina wrote:
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Very sad. I am surprised he did it in a psycho ward, though.
Usually they have the correct fail-safes in force, to make suicide very difficult.....

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#86045 May 23, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
<quoted text>Apparently the shrinks there said he wasn't behaving/talking in a way that had them thinking he needed to be on a suicide watch, but people -- especially guys -- in their 20s with mental health issues can do impulsive things, just going moment to moment.
You can't force help on those who aren't able or willing to accept it.

That is still heartbreaking, though.

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Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#86046 May 23, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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Apparently the shrinks there said he wasn't behaving/talking in a way that had them thinking he needed to be on a suicide watch, but people -- especially guys -- in their 20s with mental health issues can do impulsive things, just going moment to moment.
My sister works in a psych ward as of a couple months ago. Unless they indicate they are suicidal, patients aren't watched 24/7 nor are things like shoelaces and blankets taken away. She said suicides are rare, because people feel like there's hope when you're finally getting help.

Sad, though, for all involved.

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Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#86047 May 23, 2013
Go Blue Forever wrote:
<quoted text>Usually they have the correct fail-safes in force, to make suicide very difficult.....
In college, I checked myself into the psych ward for depression. There was *nothing* done to prevent me from hanging myself with my bedsheets.

Granted, that was 20 years ago, but I can't see the psych ward atmosphere changing that much.

“...,to wit”

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#86048 May 23, 2013
Go Blue Forever wrote:
<quoted text>I heard Gatsby sucked? Did you like it?
Haven't seen it. But it looks like a chick film not a date film which is why I used the example.
Stina

Saint Petersburg, FL

#86049 May 23, 2013
Go Blue Forever wrote:
<quoted text>Usually they have the correct fail-safes in force, to make suicide very difficult.....
THat's what I said, but Red siad above that they said he wasn't acting in a way that made them think he was suicidal. Maybe it was an impulsive thing. I thought they took away shoelaces and anything dangerous. Nut maybe it just depends what section you're in. I am proud to say I've never stayed in a place like that. Yet.

It's very sad.

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#86050 May 23, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
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My sister works in a psych ward as of a couple months ago. Unless they indicate they are suicidal, patients aren't watched 24/7 nor are things like shoelaces and blankets taken away. She said suicides are rare, because people feel like there's hope when you're finally getting help.
Sad, though, for all involved.
Yeah, it does seem like the experts involved were surprised by this. Plus, if you're not really on the brink of killing yourself, being treated like you ARE might be enough to push you over the edge.

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#86051 May 23, 2013
And yesterday we had two kids die (fourth graders) on a field trip when there was a freak mud/rock/sand slide. One kid still hasn't been found.

It's been a very sad day around here.

“...,to wit”

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#86052 May 23, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
My coworker's 27yo nephew committed suicide yesterday in a psych ward.:(
That's awful. It is hard to imagine teh despair that leads to that act.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#86053 May 23, 2013
squishymama wrote:
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In college, I checked myself into the psych ward for depression. There was *nothing* done to prevent me from hanging myself with my bedsheets.
Granted, that was 20 years ago, but I can't see the psych ward atmosphere changing that much.
That's also something my sister said: people in psych wards are juuuuust a little bit worse off than the average shmoe on the street. They're not raving lunatics smearing their own sh1t on the walls, they're just people at the end of their rope. Pun...not originally intended, but I'll leave it in there.:-/

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#86054 May 23, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
And yesterday we had two kids die (fourth graders) on a field trip when there was a freak mud/rock/sand slide. One kid still hasn't been found.

It's been a very sad day around here.
That just made me choke up. We are in the middle of the field trips at our school (each grade goes somewhere different, on a different day).

I don't think twice about signing the permission slips, but I still have friends who won't let their child go unless they are allowed to chaperone.

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