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“Grrrrr”

Since: Jan 12

Barbi & Baron

#85533 May 11, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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As of now, only two of them have crossed the felony line. Ferrerman for sure and possibly Hegel. I know those two are in IL from things they have said.
Additionally if it comes to that, I'm also going to be filing an civil action in NC. Via that I will subpoena both their topix records, his blog's records, and their ISP records to find out exactly who these two people are that think it is so cute and funny to commit a felony.
The beauty of that is until they appear in court, there is no one to even contest me! There is no one to argue that my subpoenas should not be granted. So, by the time they can even show up and stop me, I will already know exactly who they are and where they live. His own words also speak for them self ... in terms of his intent to harass and cause emotional distress on folks. So what's a judge going to do, say no you can't subpoena this guys records who has so adequately demonstrated with his own words that he is harassing and causing folks emotional distress, especially when I mention in my complaint that upon information and belief they have committed a cyber stalking felony in the state of their residence?
A civil action is the least of their concerns, tho. It will not be cheap, however.
Once I have that and I confirm they are residents of IL, I will contact some "acquaintances" of mine at the SAO, explain that these two knuckle heads are committing a cyberstalking felony, not only against me, but against about a dozen of other people and let them handle the criminal side of it. It really should be an easy case, because like I said, the guy was dumb enough to admit he was harassing folks.
Alternatively, I know Ferrerman's first and last name. I also know what he does for a living. It shouldn't be too hard for Private Eye to track him down. I've had to work with some before, because people try hiding from you for process of service (I used to be more of a general counsel my first 4 years out). It's actually not as easy to hid from someone as folks would think. I've never had a problem finding someone who needed to be found.
As I said, by hook or by crook.
My wife has basically demanded that I stop posting on topix, because she is terrified of these two people. She is highly upset. Why some creepy guy and some vile woman, who I rarely even talk to on here and mostly go out of my way to avoid, are so interested in my life so as to stalk me, acquire personal information that I did not even share with them, is creepy to say the least. I couldn't care less who they are.
It takes a special kind of moron to f' with a lawyer and commit a felony in the process. I do not expect they will heed my warning because of this, but I did want to give them one warning to back off before things move from the realm of topix into the real world.
He's had it coming for so long, I almost hope he continues. So many folks want that dirt bag to go down. It would be a shame to f' up someone's personal life over this nonsense, even his, but he's gone way too far.
Sublime, STFU. You've been going on like this for two days.

1) You no case. Not even under tort law. Nobody was injured.

2) The fact that you say you practice law gives you no more power than anyone else. If you utilize certain privileges and affiliations associated with your license simply to harass Ferr and Hegel, like you're doing, you could be disbarred or at the least, disciplined.

3) Even if you did have a case, it would be considered frivolous, dismissed, and they could sue you for dragging them through such nonsense.

4) I don't believe you about our wife. If she's upset about anyone, it's the way you behave on Topix. You have a history of abusing and bullying women and acting out like this. Do you think that the deleted posts showing what you're really like cannot be recovered?

5)These posts alone might get you into trouble. Ever heard of a little thing like a code of ethics?

Now, grow up.

“Grrrrr”

Since: Jan 12

Barbi & Baron

#85534 May 11, 2013
^^you have no case.

Since: Oct 12

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#85535 May 11, 2013
PEllen wrote:
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This may be a dumb question, but how do you know any of those people are in Illinois? You aren't.
Thanks for the invite, but...see ya.....

Since: Aug 08

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#85536 May 11, 2013
Barbi A wrote:
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Sublime, STFU. You've been going on like this for two days.
1) You no case. Not even under tort law. Nobody was injured.
2) The fact that you say you practice law gives you no more power than anyone else. If you utilize certain privileges and affiliations associated with your license simply to harass Ferr and Hegel, like you're doing, you could be disbarred or at the least, disciplined.
3) Even if you did have a case, it would be considered frivolous, dismissed, and they could sue you for dragging them through such nonsense.
4) I don't believe you about our wife. If she's upset about anyone, it's the way you behave on Topix. You have a history of abusing and bullying women and acting out like this. Do you think that the deleted posts showing what you're really like cannot be recovered?
5)These posts alone might get you into trouble. Ever heard of a little thing like a code of ethics?
Now, grow up.
I guess me and the other lawyer who PM'd me offering to assist me are wrong and you, the know it all legal scholar that you are, are right.

This person also informed me that, and I quote, "There was a case in Cook County against Topix to get information about anonymous posters. I know one of the firms involved if you need a resource."

So, apparently neither me, nor this other lawyer think my case is nearly as frivolous as you assume. I'll go with what two attorneys think verses what you think any day...

If he or she or anyone on his blog mentions my real name again or where I work, he's going to be in for a rude awakening. I already have all the screen shots saved.

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And of course, you, know it all Barbi, would think you know how my wife is feeling better than I. Do you know how ridiculous you sound. You don't even know my wife, you loon.

Not that they would give a f', cause that is how they are, but they ARE causing her emotional distress. That's not right. They can think what they want of me, but my wife is not me and she doesn't deserve that. If they continue I will seek legal redress. I already have a nut case for a neighbor. The last thing my wife needs to worry about are how far a couple of nut jobs on the internet are going to take things give that they have already gone through the trouble of trying to figure out who I am and where I work. I did not share this information with either of them.

He should also be aware that impersonating someone on the internet as that person did with Jay Lee is a CRIME in a number of states, including I think Florida (Jay Lee you can also file a complaint with the website that runs his blog)

Code of ethics. Please. It's not against the code of ethics to be nice and give them a warning. I could already file a lawsuit. I really don't want to have to do that and hope that they stop. If they do not and they want to take your terrible advice, I think they would be very, very foolish and we'll find out what happens to both of them.

I have nothing more to say. If they continue, the courts will sort it out. Leave me alone. That's all I want. I don't want anything to do with any of you. You guys are too mentally unstable. This place is big enough for all of us, if we just give each other space.

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#85537 May 11, 2013
I've also been doing legal research all day, but I'm not going to share anything further with you or they. If they have even half a brain, they will stop harassing me and all will be fine. As I told you the other day, I don't want any problems.

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#85538 May 11, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
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I just want to ask a couple things (just for my own info 'cause I'm nosey like that)...did you already warn him that if he doesn't cease and desist (her too) that you are going to file civil and/or criminal charges? Do you have to, from a legal standpoint, I mean? Is it required by law that you tell them "back off or else...?"
Mimi, they read every post of mine, anyway. They read my posts even on threads they don't ever post on. There is clearly some unhealthy obsession going on.

As an example, I post on this lady's thread, by the name of Junket (she's a sweetie)... it's even ghosted and not listed as one of the forum threads, and Ferrerman still reads my posts. In fact, he posted a copy of a link to one of my posts on it the other day. He's not even welcome on it. I recently stopped posting on it, cause Barbi does sometimes and I don't want anything to do with anyone from their group.

They, on the other hand,. have a thread that they all like to post on and I respect their space and I rarely even go on it. I've had people PM me and tell me they are talking about me and I told them ... I don't care ... I don't want to even get involved ... they can go nuts. Like I'm going to show up and say ... stop talking about me!!!!

About the only time I'd ever want to read that thread is if I was having trouble sleeping and needed assistance in that department, anyway.

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#85539 May 11, 2013
Barbi A wrote:
^^you have no case.
2 out of 2 lawyers disagree...

“Grrrrr”

Since: Jan 12

Barbi & Baron

#85540 May 11, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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I guess me and the other lawyer who PM'd me offering to assist me are wrong and you, the know it all legal scholar that you are, are right.
This person also informed me that, and I quote, "There was a case in Cook County against Topix to get information about anonymous posters. I know one of the firms involved if you need a resource."
So, apparently neither me, nor this other lawyer think my case is nearly as frivolous as you assume. I'll go with what two attorneys think verses what you think any day...
If he or she or anyone on his blog mentions my real name again or where I work, he's going to be in for a rude awakening. I already have all the screen shots saved.
********
And of course, you, know it all Barbi, would think you know how my wife is feeling better than I. Do you know how ridiculous you sound. You don't even know my wife, you loon.
Not that they would give a f', cause that is how they are, but they ARE causing her emotional distress. That's not right. They can think what they want of me, but my wife is not me and she doesn't deserve that. If they continue I will seek legal redress. I already have a nut case for a neighbor. The last thing my wife needs to worry about are how far a couple of nut jobs on the internet are going to take things give that they have already gone through the trouble of trying to figure out who I am and where I work. I did not share this information with either of them.
He should also be aware that impersonating someone on the internet as that person did with Jay Lee is a CRIME in a number of states, including I think Florida (Jay Lee you can also file a complaint with the website that runs his blog)
Code of ethics. Please. It's not against the code of ethics to be nice and give them a warning. I could already file a lawsuit. I really don't want to have to do that and hope that they stop. If they do not and they want to take your terrible advice, I think they would be very, very foolish and we'll find out what happens to both of them.
I have nothing more to say. If they continue, the courts will sort it out. Leave me alone. That's all I want. I don't want anything to do with any of you. You guys are too mentally unstable. This place is big enough for all of us, if we just give each other space.
Sublime, nobody has done anything wrong. You have no case. You know this; I'm sure of it.

But you've created a Topix fantasy. Then you claim the other party to your make-believe lawsuit is unstable?

Why, you've openly threatened these people and admitted to planning to dig for their PI and punish them for...for, um, making you mad?

OK, so let's finish this precedent setting case, which you've already explained to the courtroom and jury:

The dreaded papers have been served, the jury and eager spectators are assembled. Your evil defendant blog writer and his co-blog writer have been drug, kicking and screaming, into the courtroom, and let's have them shackled, just for fun.

The judge looks down, bangs his gavel, and admonishes: "Leave Sublime alone!"

There, you won. Feel better? Now, you can move on with your life.

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#85541 May 11, 2013
Oh and if my case is so frivolous, maybe Hegel should consider how frivolous she'd consider it if someone found out her real name, in some manner, i dunno, posted it on the Internet along with maybe where she worked or lived and mentioned something about her affinity to get on planes and fly to other cities...

Think really, really hard...

“Grrrrr”

Since: Jan 12

Barbi & Baron

#85542 May 11, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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2 out of 2 lawyers disagree...
That's like telling me two out of two Figgys disagree with me.
No self respecting lawyer posts on Topix and admits to being a lawyer.

“Grrrrr”

Since: Jan 12

Barbi & Baron

#85543 May 11, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
Oh and if my case is so frivolous, maybe Hegel should consider how frivolous she'd consider it if someone found out her real name, in some manner, i dunno, posted it on the Internet along with maybe where she worked or lived and mentioned something about her affinity to get on planes and fly to other cities...
Think really, really hard...
I don't have to think to see that you're disturbed. Now, you're threatening Hegel. Because she dared to laugh at you. What about me? C'mon, tough guy. Take me on.
Meanwhile, shame on you. Move on, like you keep saying you're going to do. Stop threatening people. For crying out loud, get over yourself.
Homeland Insecurity

Arlington Heights, IL

#85544 May 11, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
Oh and if my case is so frivolous, maybe Hegel should consider how frivolous she'd consider it if someone found out her real name, in some manner, i dunno, posted it on the Internet along with maybe where she worked or lived and mentioned something about her affinity to get on planes and fly to other cities...
Think really, really hard...
What are you- Al Queda? You retarded freak! Are you seriously threatening an entire plane load of passengers because someone hurt your feelings on a message board?! You sick bastard!

Since: Aug 08

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#85545 May 11, 2013
Barbi A wrote:
<quoted text>I don't have to think to see that you're disturbed. Now, you're threatening Hegel. Because she dared to laugh at you. What about me? C'mon, tough guy. Take me on.
Meanwhile, shame on you. Move on, like you keep saying you're going to do. Stop threatening people. For crying out loud, get over yourself.
I didn't threaten anyone. I asked how frivolous she would consider that. Are you taking the position that what they are doing to me is "frivolous", but if someone were to do that to her, it would be "threatening"? If you feel that way, that should tell you what they are doing to me is not as frivolous as you seem to think.

It's not cool. I didn't do that to him. It's going to stop one way or other. I will move on if they do. I trust we have an understanding. Therefore, I'm done. I'm going to go outside and play catch with my boys and enjoy the rest of my weekend. You all do the same.

Happy Mother's Day tomorrow to all the moms out there.

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#85546 May 11, 2013
Homeland Insecurity wrote:
<quoted text>What are you- Al Queda? You retarded freak! Are you seriously threatening an entire plane load of passengers because someone hurt your feelings on a message board?! You sick bastard!
Nice cover...

Now knock your shit off...

:)

Since: Mar 09

Minneapolis, MN

#85548 May 11, 2013
Let's get back to what's really important: me and Ang crossing the 4th wall and loving every second.
;P

“Checks and Balances”

Since: Apr 13

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#85549 May 12, 2013
Good morning all! Now that yesterday's session is over (I'm not minimizing, Sub, I just really didn't want to get involved), I'm going to post my thoughts here since I still consider you guys my safe place.

Today is Mother's Day and I am very grateful for my boys and that my Mom is coming to visit on Wednesday. I really have nothin to complain about. One of my good friends lost her mom on Friday. Her mom has had Alzheimer's for several years and lived in England, so it has been very difficult on her. My heart goes out to her that she is going through this and being bombarded with the Mother's Day blitz at the same time.

For some reason this year I am also very aware of the mothers who have lost their children too soon. Last week another good friend's sister confided to us that she was pregnant while we were at Ry's soccer game (same circle of friends). On Tuesday she miscarried.

I am really dreading seeing my MIL today. She is still very much grieving (understandably) and is probably depressed and should see a therapist, but she would never consider that. She didn't even want us over today, so we are gathering at my SIL's for dinner. I would be ok with staying home, but then we would be accused of ignoring her (no win situation).

Anyway, didn't mean to start the day off on such a down note, but you can see why I can't post something like this on my public page. Thank you for letting me get this out.

For those of you celebrating today - Happy Mother's Day! For those who are child free by choice - enjoy! For those who can't be with the ones you love - you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Since: Mar 09

Minneapolis, MN

#85550 May 12, 2013
Jess, I hope your time with your MIL goes better than you imagine today.

On Friday night when Angela and I were having dinner, we were talking about all the Regs (of course) and about you she said that your husband hit the wife lottery. That's a quote.:)

Enjoy your boys today and your own mom's visit this week. Happy Mother's Day!

“Checks and Balances”

Since: Apr 13

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#85551 May 12, 2013
j_m_w wrote:
Jess, I hope your time with your MIL goes better than you imagine today.

On Friday night when Angela and I were having dinner, we were talking about all the Regs (of course) and about you she said that your husband hit the wife lottery. That's a quote.:)

Enjoy your boys today and your own mom's visit this week. Happy Mother's Day!
Thank you! You guys just made my day :)

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#85552 May 12, 2013

“...,to wit”

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