Yes, yes, and I don't know. She's his first girlfriend, I think.<quoted text>
"What can I say? I am a dick?" That was her response? The funny thing is how that contradicts all her other statements about how everyone else is doing things wrong. You have got yourself one heaping handful there. And he is going to be a pastor? So what about her does he find endearing? Her attitude does not seem to be very pastor wife-ish.
FWIW, I didn't use the angry judging things on your post. You've essentially said what I think.