Damn, I'm sorry.I just saw on Facebook that Jasper's girlfriend went to Colorado with him this weekend. This was a trip for school that has been booked since last fall. I'm sitting at the airport waiting to leave for Vegas and am trying not to cry. And failing. Damnit I was doing better! But was afraid of getting blindsided by something like this.
My only other long term relationship--we broke up like 8 years ago (holy crap...) after 7 years together--had a pic of a woman on his profile recently and I gotta say, I still was taken aback a little. Even though I'm freaking married.
We're not fb friends. He tried to add me in '08 when I joined. Nope. Nope. Nope.