“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81825 Mar 6, 2013
http://www.pantagraph.com/news/local/hudson-f...

Khrap. I only know a first name right now and that he was a hockey player. Not sure if I know him personally, but this is quite a blow for our community.

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#81826 Mar 6, 2013
j_m_w wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm jealous; I'd look like a lesbian with that haircut. Not a lipstick one, either.
My friend K had a super short pixie-ish cut for awhile and I loved it. She has dark hair like Anne too.
I've been toying with the idea of going back to a pixie cut, but I always come back to the fact that my mom has a short cut and Dickie thinks I look too much like her when my hair is short. Not good. And she believes that "women of a certain age" (read over 25) should not have long hair. It's too sexy or something, so having long hair is sort of an eff you from me to her.

Lulu was telling me about a boy in her class yesterday who has long hair (her's is short), and that some 2nd grader in the hall called him a girl. She got a big kick out of that, since a substitute teacher called her a boy once.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#81827 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
<quoted text>
Many of my guy friends are fans of the "girls should never have short hair" school of thought. I think some girl look better with shorter hair. Emma Watson is super cute with short hair.
Halle Berry is the only woman I've ever seen that I think looks better with short hair. She is the exception to the rule. Emma Watson? Short hair? Not attractive at all.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81828 Mar 6, 2013
squishymama wrote:
<quoted text>
I've been toying with the idea of going back to a pixie cut, but I always come back to the fact that my mom has a short cut and Dickie thinks I look too much like her when my hair is short. Not good. And she believes that "women of a certain age" (read over 25) should not have long hair. It's too sexy or something, so having long hair is sort of an eff you from me to her.
Lulu was telling me about a boy in her class yesterday who has long hair (her's is short), and that some 2nd grader in the hall called him a girl. She got a big kick out of that, since a substitute teacher called her a boy once.
That was so much more offensive for my mom, when I was a kid and got called a boy, than it was for me. I was a beanpole tomboy with a pixie cut, I'd get called "young man" or something and my mom would be all "Can't they see you have earrings in?!"

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81829 Mar 6, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text> Halle Berry is the only woman I've ever seen that I think looks better with short hair. She is the exception to the rule. Emma Watson? Short hair? Not attractive at all.
Really? If everything I read on the internet is true, and I believe it is, 20-something-year-old dudes LOVE her.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

United States

#81830 Mar 6, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
<quoted text>
Really? If everything I read on the internet is true, and I believe it is, 20-something-year-old dudes LOVE her.
Oh, I'd still do her, but generally I prefer longer hair. I think Meg Ryan rocks a short haircut too.

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#81831 Mar 6, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
<quoted text>
That was so much more offensive for my mom, when I was a kid and got called a boy, than it was for me. I was a beanpole tomboy with a pixie cut, I'd get called "young man" or something and my mom would be all "Can't they see you have earrings in?!"
We've tried to persuade Lulu to get her ears pierced for that very reason, but she's not interested.

Now I had short hair as a child, but it was not my choice but my punishment for not letting my mom wash my hair. I hated it and hated being called a boy. I don't think I've ever really forgiven her, even though as a mom I understand how she could justify doing it. Not enough to forgive her, though.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81832 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
So this is facsinating to me. Working from home, I have had CNN on in the background, and they have been talking about the Jody Arias trial (the woman who shot and stabbed her bf 27 times). The trial testimony has been very salacious, but the really interesting part is that in Arizona (where the trial is) the jury gets to ask the witness questions. That would be awesome.
Juries actually have a LOT more leeway -- including overriding a judge -- than the Official Court SYstem would want people to believe. FIJA (Fully Informed Jury something or other) does a good job at informing people, but then they do weird shit that muddies the waters and makes them look bad.

But as a former jury researcher, I was 100% on board with informing jurors of their rights as jurors. Most judges and attorneys are against it and won't allow it.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81833 Mar 6, 2013
I got 2-3 inches cut off last fall, hair was past my chin, and for NIck, it was too short. It's still too short now for him. He rarely expresses any preferences about my appearance, but since he cares about the hair, I'll grow it out again.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81834 Mar 6, 2013
my friend got her hair cut super short (pixie style) and her husband said "so long as there's enough in the back for me to hold on to, cut whatever you want." (She likes having her hair pulled during sex. I do NOT.)

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81835 Mar 6, 2013
squishymama wrote:
<quoted text>
We've tried to persuade Lulu to get her ears pierced for that very reason, but she's not interested.
Now I had short hair as a child, but it was not my choice but my punishment for not letting my mom wash my hair. I hated it and hated being called a boy. I don't think I've ever really forgiven her, even though as a mom I understand how she could justify doing it. Not enough to forgive her, though.
That was why my sister and I both had short hair--we didn't like our mom brushing it. I don't think it was ever past my shoulders until I was old enough to care for it myself. I was fine with it mostly. It wasn't like I didn't have fair warning. Even in high school and college when it was super long, my mom would ask to play around with my hair and I wouldn't let her.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#81836 Mar 6, 2013
They cant ask a question directly can they? I thought they could only ask that he answer (as in presenting a list of questions read by someone other than the jury)
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
<quoted text>
Juries actually have a LOT more leeway -- including overriding a judge -- than the Official Court SYstem would want people to believe. FIJA (Fully Informed Jury something or other) does a good job at informing people, but then they do weird shit that muddies the waters and makes them look bad.
But as a former jury researcher, I was 100% on board with informing jurors of their rights as jurors. Most judges and attorneys are against it and won't allow it.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#81837 Mar 6, 2013
squishymama wrote:
<quoted text>
Ha! Dickie played that video for the girls and every once and awhile, I'll hear one of them singing "ain't nobody got time fo dat" over and over and over. It's really cute.
<quoted text>
Just pretend you're really cold and keep your hat on. Or you could go out and get some of our magic hair potion: club soda in a spray bottle. I don't know how it works, but my hair always looks better after using it.
Or, you could take a beauty and hair care hint from There's Something About Mary.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#81838 Mar 6, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
You're the ONLY girl? Think maybe they just hired you for office eye candy?
You need to do a better job of looking good for everyone, girl.
Yeah, I heard tell, they yell Hey Tilly, get me a cup of coffee, er, Java.

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#81839 Mar 6, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
<quoted text>
That was why my sister and I both had short hair--we didn't like our mom brushing it. I don't think it was ever past my shoulders until I was old enough to care for it myself. I was fine with it mostly. It wasn't like I didn't have fair warning. Even in high school and college when it was super long, my mom would ask to play around with my hair and I wouldn't let her.
My mom *says* she gave me fair warning, but I don't remember that at all.

She's always trying to get me to cut Nunu's hair, but Nunu wants it long, no matter how out of control it is at most times. So I let her keep it long <mimishrug>. I certainly don't want her to have the same feelings about me/my hair/my mother that I do!

I recently realized that Lulu has Beyonce hair and Nunu has Solange hair.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81840 Mar 6, 2013
Lunchtime and I need to get out of the office, I think. Can't decide if I want Indian or Mexican...

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#81841 Mar 6, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
Lunchtime and I need to get out of the office, I think. Can't decide if I want Indian or Mexican...
Indian!

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

United States

#81842 Mar 6, 2013
Jess in NJ wrote:
<quoted text>
Indian!
Sure! I'm craving nachos and she'd rather have curry!

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81843 Mar 6, 2013
RACE wrote:
They cant ask a question directly can they? I thought they could only ask that he answer (as in presenting a list of questions read by someone other than the jury)
<quoted text>
I think it depends very much on the judge and the jurisdiction. Judges have some leeway. But generally, questions were written down and went through the judge to make sure they were legitimate questions.

But there was other stuff FIJA was about, like telling jurors they have the legal right to use a different sentence than what was outlined by the judge, etc. It varies so much from state to state, but generally, I got the sense that judges like to keep a tight control on their courtrooms, and letting jurors act all rogue makes 'em nervous.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81844 Mar 6, 2013
I remember reading that in many native american cultures, a "Jury of one's peers" Meant true peers: COusins, neighbors, people who grew up with you. Because who better than they know the kind of person you are, the temper you may have, the fights you get into?

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Chicago Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
News Once slow-moving threat, global warming speeds ... (Dec '08) 17 min Mothra 52,385
News Barack Obama, our next President (Nov '08) 49 min Holy Jumpin Jesus 1,207,275
Amy 3-30-15 1 hr Kuuipo 35
Abby 3-30-15 1 hr RACE 11
News BARACK OBAMA BIRTH CERTIFICATE: Suit contesting... (Jan '09) 1 hr Jacques Ottawa 185,930
News Messianic Jews say they are persecuted in Israel (Jun '08) 3 hr x-ray 71,702
News Israeli troops begin Gaza pullout as Hamas decl... (Jan '09) 5 hr taroB 69,316
Chicago Dating
Find my Match
More from around the web

Chicago People Search

Addresses and phone numbers for FREE

Personal Finance

Mortgages [ See current mortgage rates ]