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“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81815 Mar 6, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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You're the ONLY girl? Think maybe they just hired you for office eye candy?
You need to do a better job of looking good for everyone, girl.
In my little area of like 15 people, yes. On the floor, hell naw.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81816 Mar 6, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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I love a good pixie cut! I even went through jmw's friends on FB to try to find you in case you posted a new pic, but no dice. ;)
No, I haven't really crossed the fourth wall. Jam knows my real first name, but I think that's it.

The pixie has forced me to be more girly. I went nuts on etsy buying cute headbands. Today, I've got on this bronze-y one with a steampunk octopus on it. Tried to put in earrings this weekend, but one hole is completely shut.:-/ But so far, nobody has called me 'sir', so that's a plus. Might be the boobs.

Since: Mar 09

Miami, FL

#81817 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
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Sorry, I lost my chart of who has secret, special relationships with each other. Someone shared a distressing situation, to those not in the know his post came off as dismissive. Please send me a guidebook so I don't make the same mistake again.
It's not a secret; Toj can probably google in 2 seconds and find the "history" of Jess & Edog's friendship.

You're always looking for a fight with him and it gets old. And yes, I know he likes to yank everyone's chains but you guys play right into it. I laugh it off instead of let everything get to me.

If a stranger had come in here and made light of Jess's news, it would be a whole different story. But we KNOW edog, whether or not each person likes him.

“FD&S is no way to be.”

Since: Feb 13

Chicago, IL

#81818 Mar 6, 2013
So this is facsinating to me. Working from home, I have had CNN on in the background, and they have been talking about the Jody Arias trial (the woman who shot and stabbed her bf 27 times). The trial testimony has been very salacious, but the really interesting part is that in Arizona (where the trial is) the jury gets to ask the witness questions. That would be awesome.

Since: Mar 09

Miami, FL

#81819 Mar 6, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
You'd think short hair would be easier. I'm kind of rocking what Anne Hathaway has right now. But my flat iron and hairspray have become necessities instead of optional.
I'm jealous; I'd look like a lesbian with that haircut. Not a lipstick one, either.

My friend K had a super short pixie-ish cut for awhile and I loved it. She has dark hair like Anne too.

Since: Mar 09

Miami, FL

#81820 Mar 6, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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I love a good pixie cut! I even went through jmw's friends on FB to try to find you in case you posted a new pic, but no dice. ;)
Haha! She and I haven't taken our relationship to the Facebook level. Yet. I'm still wooing....
;)

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81821 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
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Many of my guy friends are fans of the "girls should never have short hair" school of thought. I think some girl look better with shorter hair. Emma Watson is super cute with short hair.
I'm sure I won't keep it like this forever. It grows soooo fast (I know, again, such an awful problem). But this is definitely the shortest it's been since I was like 8. I think J prefers it longer, but he won't say so.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#81822 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
<quoted text>Sorry, I lost my chart of who has secret, special relationships with each other. Someone shared a distressing situation, to those not in the know his post came off as dismissive. Please send me a guidebook so I don't make the same mistake again.
The problem with reading posts online is that you can't hear tone.

I read his original post as offensive because I read it with a light tone, which apparently was the manner it was intended. Because you couldn't hear it, it came across heavier and ruder to you. I don't think that this is about secret friendships, though the fact that we know each other well may help with understanding the intentions.

It also may be that I generally assume that everyone writes with the best of intentions, unless I am in a particularly bad mood (which I am not today).

I don't want to be the cause of arguments, when my friends are just trying to be supportive - all of you. Thank you for your kind words today.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#81823 Mar 6, 2013
Jess in NJ wrote:
<quoted text>The problem with reading posts online is that you can't hear tone.

I read his original post as offensive because I read it with a light tone, which apparently was the manner it was intended. Because you couldn't hear it, it came across heavier and ruder to you. I don't think that this is about secret friendships, though the fact that we know each other well may help with understanding the intentions.

It also may be that I generally assume that everyone writes with the best of intentions, unless I am in a particularly bad mood (which I am not today).

I don't want to be the cause of arguments, when my friends are just trying to be supportive - all of you. Thank you for your kind words today.
*didn't read his original post as offensive... Oops!

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81824 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
So this is facsinating to me. Working from home, I have had CNN on in the background, and they have been talking about the Jody Arias trial (the woman who shot and stabbed her bf 27 times). The trial testimony has been very salacious, but the really interesting part is that in Arizona (where the trial is) the jury gets to ask the witness questions. That would be awesome.
First question "Are you nucking futs?" Wait...that's rhetorical.

It's been an interesting trial. She remembers the most minute details about everything except, you know, stabbing the guy 27 times with no provocation and shooting him in the face and leaving him there to rot.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81825 Mar 6, 2013
http://www.pantagraph.com/news/local/hudson-f...

Khrap. I only know a first name right now and that he was a hockey player. Not sure if I know him personally, but this is quite a blow for our community.

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#81826 Mar 6, 2013
j_m_w wrote:
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I'm jealous; I'd look like a lesbian with that haircut. Not a lipstick one, either.
My friend K had a super short pixie-ish cut for awhile and I loved it. She has dark hair like Anne too.
I've been toying with the idea of going back to a pixie cut, but I always come back to the fact that my mom has a short cut and Dickie thinks I look too much like her when my hair is short. Not good. And she believes that "women of a certain age" (read over 25) should not have long hair. It's too sexy or something, so having long hair is sort of an eff you from me to her.

Lulu was telling me about a boy in her class yesterday who has long hair (her's is short), and that some 2nd grader in the hall called him a girl. She got a big kick out of that, since a substitute teacher called her a boy once.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#81827 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
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Many of my guy friends are fans of the "girls should never have short hair" school of thought. I think some girl look better with shorter hair. Emma Watson is super cute with short hair.
Halle Berry is the only woman I've ever seen that I think looks better with short hair. She is the exception to the rule. Emma Watson? Short hair? Not attractive at all.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81828 Mar 6, 2013
squishymama wrote:
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I've been toying with the idea of going back to a pixie cut, but I always come back to the fact that my mom has a short cut and Dickie thinks I look too much like her when my hair is short. Not good. And she believes that "women of a certain age" (read over 25) should not have long hair. It's too sexy or something, so having long hair is sort of an eff you from me to her.
Lulu was telling me about a boy in her class yesterday who has long hair (her's is short), and that some 2nd grader in the hall called him a girl. She got a big kick out of that, since a substitute teacher called her a boy once.
That was so much more offensive for my mom, when I was a kid and got called a boy, than it was for me. I was a beanpole tomboy with a pixie cut, I'd get called "young man" or something and my mom would be all "Can't they see you have earrings in?!"

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#81829 Mar 6, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text> Halle Berry is the only woman I've ever seen that I think looks better with short hair. She is the exception to the rule. Emma Watson? Short hair? Not attractive at all.
Really? If everything I read on the internet is true, and I believe it is, 20-something-year-old dudes LOVE her.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

United States

#81830 Mar 6, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
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Really? If everything I read on the internet is true, and I believe it is, 20-something-year-old dudes LOVE her.
Oh, I'd still do her, but generally I prefer longer hair. I think Meg Ryan rocks a short haircut too.

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#81831 Mar 6, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
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That was so much more offensive for my mom, when I was a kid and got called a boy, than it was for me. I was a beanpole tomboy with a pixie cut, I'd get called "young man" or something and my mom would be all "Can't they see you have earrings in?!"
We've tried to persuade Lulu to get her ears pierced for that very reason, but she's not interested.

Now I had short hair as a child, but it was not my choice but my punishment for not letting my mom wash my hair. I hated it and hated being called a boy. I don't think I've ever really forgiven her, even though as a mom I understand how she could justify doing it. Not enough to forgive her, though.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81832 Mar 6, 2013
Sam I Am GEAM wrote:
So this is facsinating to me. Working from home, I have had CNN on in the background, and they have been talking about the Jody Arias trial (the woman who shot and stabbed her bf 27 times). The trial testimony has been very salacious, but the really interesting part is that in Arizona (where the trial is) the jury gets to ask the witness questions. That would be awesome.
Juries actually have a LOT more leeway -- including overriding a judge -- than the Official Court SYstem would want people to believe. FIJA (Fully Informed Jury something or other) does a good job at informing people, but then they do weird shit that muddies the waters and makes them look bad.

But as a former jury researcher, I was 100% on board with informing jurors of their rights as jurors. Most judges and attorneys are against it and won't allow it.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81833 Mar 6, 2013
I got 2-3 inches cut off last fall, hair was past my chin, and for NIck, it was too short. It's still too short now for him. He rarely expresses any preferences about my appearance, but since he cares about the hair, I'll grow it out again.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#81834 Mar 6, 2013
my friend got her hair cut super short (pixie style) and her husband said "so long as there's enough in the back for me to hold on to, cut whatever you want." (She likes having her hair pulled during sex. I do NOT.)

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