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“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

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#81699
Mar 4, 2013
 
j_m_w wrote:
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Don't beat yourself up about comments made in jest before you knew what was up. I'm guessing she waited until the end of the trip because she didn't want the weekend to be ABOUT her situation...? Which is in a way good and in a way not good. Friends can't be there for you if you don't let them in. I hope she feels better now that she HAS told you guys, and I'm sure once she gets used to the idea, she'll be fine. And I'm sure she'll fall in love with the baby once she sees him or her. It's a huge adjustment, but she has her husband by her side and obviously since she has other kids, she's not opposed to being a mom.
That's what she said...she didn't want the weekend to be about her, she just kind of wanted to push it aside for a bit. And she's a fantastic mom. Cheerful, energetic, not helicopter-y. I sat and just listened to her kids play together for about an hour--there was VERY little bickering among them. She's just a type A personality and thought she had all her ducks in a row, so to speak.

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Mar 4, 2013
 
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I guess they have 2 follow up visits after the procedure. If you don't get the green light on the first visit, you will at the second. So, after the first visit, the doc told him he was shooting blanks--good to go. Then the second visit, he wasn't. So they have NO idea what went wrong.
The swimmers must have found a break in the dam.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

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#81701
Mar 4, 2013
 
All my products came with manuals, their all in the same drawer
recipes, ok
angry birds, have that on the phone, just cant get into it, but ok
paper, most wont let you read more than 2 articles
books, I like hard copies.
email, ok
FB? WTF FB?
Camera, Nikon d7000 300mm lens
Calendar? Why?
Alarm clock? Why?
Magazines, nope, dont get any.
weather app, ok.
Music? I rarely listen, but around the house I use my stereo
ESBN, I might.
Since I put all my pics on an external hard drive, I really cant store my pics on the tablet, but I was hoping to use picasa to edit them on the memory card them move them onto the external drive later. thats why I wanted to know about external inputs.

so were up to
email
recipies
topix
angry birds
weather
picasa
crapper games

Hard to justify the purchase for just these, but I guess I only wanted it for inet access anyway, which is even less justification.
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>Download product manuals. Have them on the tablet instead of spread out all over the house.
Recipes. Use as digital cook book.
Angry Birds.
Read the paper.
Check out books from the library that expire when they are due and you don't ever have to actually go to the library
email
Facebook
Camera - take pictures/ videos
Calendar
alarm clock
Digital magazine subscriptions
Built in music player to play while you do other stuff on it
ESPN app - watch game while on the crapper
Weather channel app - get forecasts

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Since: Jun 09

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#81702
Mar 4, 2013
 
RACE wrote:
All my products came with manuals, their all in the same drawer
recipes, ok
angry birds, have that on the phone, just cant get into it, but ok
paper, most wont let you read more than 2 articles
books, I like hard copies.
email, ok
FB? WTF FB?
Camera, Nikon d7000 300mm lens
Calendar? Why?
Alarm clock? Why?
Magazines, nope, dont get any.
weather app, ok.
Music? I rarely listen, but around the house I use my stereo
ESBN, I might.
Since I put all my pics on an external hard drive, I really cant store my pics on the tablet, but I was hoping to use picasa to edit them on the memory card them move them onto the external drive later. thats why I wanted to know about external inputs.
so were up to
email
recipies
topix
angry birds
weather
picasa
crapper games
Hard to justify the purchase for just these, but I guess I only wanted it for inet access anyway, which is even less justification.
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The news papers block you after 2 articles ( or 5 articles) because tehy track your device. My brother suggested running CCCleaner dot com which removes the tracking counters, so that the paper thinks you are new again. I haven't tried it. I pay for NYTimes. I get enough of Tribune and WaPo doesn'y have a wall yet. WSJ doesn't give you freebies as far as I know..

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Since: Jun 09

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#81703
Mar 4, 2013
 
Matilda77 wrote:
<quoted text>She had been having all kinds of health problems related to diet, so she's essentially doing paleo (meat and veggies, no sugar, no carbs, no dairy) and doesn't drink anymore (it was awesome to have a permanent DD the whole weekend). I *thought* she was drinking coffee in the mornings, but I guess it was decaf tea. Plus, since being on that diet, she's probably down 15 lbs since I saw her last, and she was already thin.

I said so many stupid things in retrospect, before I knew "Oh, are you going back to work after #3 starts kindergarten?" I even joked about a fourth kid with a similar name because all three existing kids have matchy-matchy names. Ugh, foot in mouth. She was just bawling when she told us.:(
That's rough - both the pregnancy and the restricted diet. Pregnancy would not have prevented her from drinking a cup of coffee in the morning, though the smell does get to many pregnant women.

It was probably a little more overwhelming for her at the end of the trip because she had such a fun adult only weekend and she now had to go back to reality.

How is her husband handling the news?

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Since: Jun 09

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Mar 4, 2013
 
Jess in NJ wrote:
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That's rough - both the pregnancy and the restricted diet. Pregnancy would not have prevented her from drinking a cup of coffee in the morning, though the smell does get to many pregnant women.
It was probably a little more overwhelming for her at the end of the trip because she had such a fun adult only weekend and she now had to go back to reality.
How is her husband handling the news?
Slight ddeflection. The diet is similar to the one I have been on since the first of the year. It is not that hard and not that ascetic.

Back on point- unexpected pregnancies are rough. I hope teh existing kids don't get wind of it-they will make teh future sibling's life very unhappy with a couple ill placed comments.Grownups can be trusted to at least call it an oops baby

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Since: Mar 09

Tacoma, WA

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#81705
Mar 4, 2013
 
RACE wrote:
Thats the thing, I dont want an expensive toy I wont use enough. So I am trying to think of what else (besides topix) I will use it for.
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My nephew(s) really like the Kindle Fire. I've never tried it, so I can't recommend it, but they are very happy with them. <shrug>
dahgts

Chicago, IL

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Mar 4, 2013
 
PEllen wrote:
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The news papers block you after 2 articles ( or 5 articles) because tehy track your device. My brother suggested running CCCleaner dot com which removes the tracking counters, so that the paper thinks you are new again. I haven't tried it. I pay for NYTimes. I get enough of Tribune and WaPo doesn'y have a wall yet. WSJ doesn't give you freebies as far as I know..
CCcleaner doesn't work for the Trib. I have a yahoo address for shopping and I had to start a gmail one for the tablet. So I used the gmail on the tablet and will try the yahoo one sometime. I do know that the cleaner won't remove the tracker. Won't work on the Sun Times either.

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#81707
Mar 4, 2013
 
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>Slight ddeflection. The diet is similar to the one I have been on since the first of the year. It is not that hard and not that ascetic.

Back on point- unexpected pregnancies are rough. I hope teh existing kids don't get wind of it-they will make teh future sibling's life very unhappy with a couple ill placed comments.Grownups can be trusted to at least call it an oops baby
I tried a similar diet once, not as a "diet", but as part of a healthy lifestyle change. It made me miserable, but I comfort eat and having to think that much of what I should and shouldn't eat was the problem.

I'm glad it's working for you :)

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Mar 4, 2013
 
Jess in NJ wrote:
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I tried a similar diet once, not as a "diet", but as part of a healthy lifestyle change. It made me miserable, but I comfort eat and having to think that much of what I should and shouldn't eat was the problem.
I'm glad it's working for you :)
I nibble. I have spent teh last two months eating a lot of sugar snap pease, grape tomatoes, blueberries, sliced red peppers etc

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Since: Aug 08

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#81709
Mar 4, 2013
 
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Des Plaines, IL

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Mar 4, 2013
 
Sublime1 wrote:
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...
oh, sub.... so sorry to hear that! i missed some of your story about it over the weekend, but i know that you are fond of her... having just walked down a path like this, let me know if there is anything i can do to help or insights to share.

i missed it, where does she live?
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and yes, i just gacked a little, myself, at how i phrased taht, but, hey, it works.

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Mar 4, 2013
 
Sublime1 wrote:
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...
(((Sub)))

That sucks and I know that being far away makes it even harder :( Are you planning a trip to see her anytime soon?
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Since: Mar 09

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#81713
Mar 5, 2013
 
Sublime1 wrote:
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...
Aw, Sub....
:(

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Mar 5, 2013
 
Sublime1 wrote:
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...
I am so sorry. Treasure your memories.

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Since: Feb 09

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#81715
Mar 5, 2013
 
Sorry to hear that Sub. I hope it's not too difficult for her not to deal with. Aw crap, even saying that sounds corny.
yeah, it sucks.
Sublime1 wrote:
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

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#81716
Mar 5, 2013
 
Sublime1 wrote:
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...
Sorry to hear that, man.

Just support her in her decision; my gram did something similar and it was liberating to her that no one fought it. It allowed her to go in *her* way.

<hug>

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

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#81717
Mar 5, 2013
 
Sublime1 wrote:
My grandma has stomach cancer.:(:(:(.
She doesn't want to treat it. I don't blame her. It's just sad...
Oh, man, I'm so sorry. I don't blame her either.

I went to the eye doctor yesterday for my final Lasik follow up, and the room was FULL of people age 70+. It made me miss all my grandparents so much, I actually teared up.

We are lucky people, those of us who got to enjoy them in to our adulthoods.

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

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Mar 5, 2013
 
Jess in NJ wrote:
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That's rough - both the pregnancy and the restricted diet. Pregnancy would not have prevented her from drinking a cup of coffee in the morning, though the smell does get to many pregnant women.
It was probably a little more overwhelming for her at the end of the trip because she had such a fun adult only weekend and she now had to go back to reality.
How is her husband handling the news?
He's apparently not freaking out on the level she is. He was busy crunching numbers "We can afford it!" and all this and she's like "It's not really about the money..." But considering he was fine with just the first two, and she had to argue for the third, I'm sure he's not doing backflips or anything.

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