“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#80261 Feb 14, 2013
No, not how society sees it, but how a few whiners see it. Squeeky wheel getting the grease is all. The rest of society does not care what anybody says about anyone else, they just want to put in their 40hrs and collect their pay.

Hey, maybe they will have a double wide trough for you and your boyfriend to share.
Sam I Am wrote:
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Thanks for your input, but that's not how it works. How Race sees it really isn't material, it's how society sees it. If you want to try to change society's mind, have at it.
And now I am off to a lovely dinner. Have fun polishing your gun. Hey, that could be literal AND a euphemism!
PEllen

Chicago, IL

#80262 Feb 14, 2013
RACE wrote:
Your right, no one can tell me whether or not I have the right to use the word. Yes it is freedom of speech. My right is unquestioned (except by people like yourself).
You tart, you think I will go out and start screaming the word, just because YOU challenge me to? Like if maybe I got my head punched in, I would see why only black people can use the word? You are a moron, worse, your a retarded moron.
I have no craving to use any word, except in discussions with you where I crave to call you every mean spirited thing I can think of. And even here, where I am safe from your physical attack, I still do not indulge myself this pleasure.
What is this significant portion you speak of? Who are they and what are they doing about it? More mindless lip speak from someone who knows nothing, but wants to make a point.
Bleh!
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Are saying that even though you can say something doesn't mean you should say it?

Since: Jan 10

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#80263 Feb 14, 2013
RACE wrote:
Because I'm not black...
Because I'm not black, I have no right to say this word?
Because I'm not black I am forbidden from uttering this word?
Who is the person who gets to decide what words I can or cannot say simply because of my skin pigment?
Why am I denied the right to say a word that, by your own observation is used with impunity by others?
What exactly is the evidence between me saying a word and another saying the exact same word that makes it wrong for me to say it but not them?
If your going to read meanings into my use of words, am I allowed to do the same to you and others?
"Cracker", "White Bread". Can we put these on the list of Banned words that only a single group of people can use?
I think you all promote a myth that encourages segregation of society instead of inclusiveness.
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You have every right to use the word.

Go for it. But at least have ballsa nd use it around black people, then state your case to THEM.

Since: Jan 10

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#80264 Feb 14, 2013
Jess in NJ wrote:
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Which, the racial stuff or the tattoo law enforcement stuff?
My FIL has been in the hospital since Tuesday. He'll be in there at least another day because they are still running tests on him. I'm just catching up on today's posts now.
The tattoo/cop stuff.

Since: Mar 09

United States

#80265 Feb 14, 2013
Wow, today is supposed to be about love!

My counseling session went really well. I'm at A's watching "Here comes the boom"

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#80266 Feb 14, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
<quoted text>The tattoo/cop stuff.
Ok :) I wasn't gonna touch that other topic.

I think that as long as tattoos can be covered up by long sleeve shirts, there is no reason they should automatically exclude someone from joining the police force. Depending on the tattoos, that officer may not be right for a particular assignment, but that should be decided on a case by case basis.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#80267 Feb 14, 2013
j_m_w wrote:
Wow, today is supposed to be about love!

My counseling session went really well. I'm at A's watching "Here comes the boom"
We are not feeding into the commercialism of this day.

Let me know what you think of that movie. It looks like it could be really funny (my husband likes Jim Carrey and Will Ferrell movies) or a horrible waste of time that you will never get back.
PEllen

Chicago, IL

#80268 Feb 14, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
Soooooo don't want to get drug into this, buuutttt...
To a greater or lesser degree depending on the individual, we all look like monkeys (and apes...since we are apes) because we're all primates just as they are. We also look like lemurs, bush babies, etc., just more remotely, because they are also primates.
Being told that I look like a monkey would not be an insult. Monkeys are VERY intelligent creatures who are capable of pretty much all of the same thoughts and emotions of higher primates (apes...I reiterate: humans are apes) as well as learning new ways to do things because of their cognitive thinking ability.
Side bar: Edog, just in case you are gonna start some BS about humans not being apes or some anti-evolution crap...don't. Until you have some empirical proof of...anything...just don't even start with me.
The New York Times has an article on the genetic bases for some of the East Asian physical traits.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/15/science/stu...
PEllen

Chicago, IL

#80269 Feb 14, 2013
j_m_w wrote:
Wow, today is supposed to be about love!
My counseling session went really well. I'm at A's watching "Here comes the boom"
Good. I am glad you followed through. I think you will find it very helpful to get over this hump. I did the same when my marriage broke up and even though my family was skeptical and not real supportive, I was glad at the time and in retrosepct even more so.

Since: Jan 10

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#80270 Feb 14, 2013
Jess in NJ wrote:
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We are not feeding into the commercialism of this day.
Let me know what you think of that movie. It looks like it could be really funny (my husband likes Jim Carrey and Will Ferrell movies) or a horrible waste of time that you will never get back.
The guys i know who love wresting didn't like it. Too bad -- I really like Kevin James.
PEllen

Chicago, IL

#80271 Feb 14, 2013
Jess in NJ wrote:
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Ok :) I wasn't gonna touch that other topic.
I think that as long as tattoos can be covered up by long sleeve shirts, there is no reason they should automatically exclude someone from joining the police force. Depending on the tattoos, that officer may not be right for a particular assignment, but that should be decided on a case by case basis.
I see alot of tattoos on the hands or neck, places that are not easy to cover. The ones on the hands tend to be gang ID signs I am told. I have a degre of discomfort when I encounter those kinds of tats and tend to look around warily dependding on where I encounter the hand/neck tats.

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Des Plaines, IL

#80272 Feb 14, 2013
I found out a couple of things at work today that got me into a really cynical, foul mood by the time i got home. but we fixed a nice dinner together - fresh scallops!- and now we have a 10th wedding anniversary trip planned! totally hadn't thought we'd do that now!

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#80273 Feb 14, 2013
PEllen wrote:
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The New York Times has an article on the genetic bases for some of the East Asian physical traits.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/15/science/stu...
Interesting. Thanks for the link. I sent it on to a couple other people.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#80274 Feb 14, 2013
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>I see alot of tattoos on the hands or neck, places that are not easy to cover. The ones on the hands tend to be gang ID signs I am told. I have a degre of discomfort when I encounter those kinds of tats and tend to look around warily dependding on where I encounter the hand/neck tats.
Part of a police officer's job is to liaise with the community. I agree that you can't effectively do that if you have hand and/or neck tattoos.

I also think that certain tattoos could show a lack of judgement on the candidates part and disqualify him/her on the psych eval. The mere existence of tattoos that can be hidden should not be an automatic disqualification, though.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#80275 Feb 14, 2013
Aisle Sitter wrote:
I found out a couple of things at work today that got me into a really cynical, foul mood by the time i got home. but we fixed a nice dinner together - fresh scallops!- and now we have a 10th wedding anniversary trip planned! totally hadn't thought we'd do that now!
Glad your day is ending on a happy note!

Since: Jan 10

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#80276 Feb 14, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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So glad Illinois doesn't have more important issues to deal with. Like 9 TRILLION in unfunded pension programs or the murder of black kids everyday. PRIORITIES!
So you are okay with delaying civil and human rights for money. Good to know.

Since: Jan 10

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#80277 Feb 14, 2013
Aisle Sitter wrote:
I found out a couple of things at work today that got me into a really cynical, foul mood by the time i got home. but we fixed a nice dinner together - fresh scallops!- and now we have a 10th wedding anniversary trip planned! totally hadn't thought we'd do that now!
YUM! I love scallops! A guy at work was going to prepare scallops for himself and his wife tonight, too!

Since: Mar 09

West Palm Beach, FL

#80278 Feb 14, 2013
Jess in NJ wrote:
<quoted text>We are not feeding into the commercialism of this day.

Let me know what you think of that movie. It looks like it could be really funny (my husband likes Jim Carrey and Will Ferrell movies) or a horrible waste of time that you will never get back.
I thought it was a cute movie. And I'm not into MMA at all - I think it's gross. But the movie was still pretty good.
PEllen

Chicago, IL

#80279 Feb 14, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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YUM! I love scallops! A guy at work was going to prepare scallops for himself and his wife tonight, too!
I do a sauteed scallops dish that we call "sand and rocks" that is really good. Both girls have called for the recipe- Mom's home cooking.

The sand is bread crumbs moistend with the scallop cooking liquor; teh rocks are teh scallops. I use chopped red sweet pepper , lemon and garlic and serve over spaghetti. I am hungry now.
PEllen

Chicago, IL

#80280 Feb 14, 2013
Aisle Sitter wrote:
I found out a couple of things at work today that got me into a really cynical, foul mood by the time i got home. but we fixed a nice dinner together - fresh scallops!- and now we have a 10th wedding anniversary trip planned! totally hadn't thought we'd do that now!
How is your grandmother doing?

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