She probably did -- most likely. I personally have no doubt. BUT, I think once he wanted proof that those were his children, that's when the kids dumped him.<quoted text>
Following the results, the children cut off all contact with him. He claims his ex-wife turned them against him.
I treated them both as if they were my own. I was there at their births, went to their Nativity plays and helped them with school homework.
I cant stop thinking about the children as they were my life.
The children were the most important people in my life, and now they have gone.
This does not sound like the words of someone who detached quickly. He says he does not have kids anymore because they have disowned him. Its the truth. Something he feels the mother caused. It could be argued that he caused it with the testing, but I don't buy for a second that the mother did not influence the children living under her roof. Cheated on him while married. Duped him into raising the children of 2 other me. Showed no remorse when confronted with the truth. So you have a pissed off decietful ex who now has to move out of their marital home and sell it to split the proceeds. She gets no more "maintenance". You bet your ass she bad moutheed him to the kids and killed the relationship.
Kids need unconditional love and once he questioned whether he was their father, I'm sure those kids took it as he wanted NOT to be the father. That's probably how it felt to them.
Not saying that was the reality, I'm saying that's how those kids probably felt.