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“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

United States

#79657 Feb 5, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>and i don't think anything about it is suspicious at all.
That's why you are my young padawon and I am the master.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#79658 Feb 5, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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That's why you are my young padawon and I am the master.
No. That's why you have a custom fitted tin foil hat.
Jldean

Watertown, NY

#79659 Feb 5, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
Anything is "possible," Tonka, you're not really saying much. And I never said it was the most likely scenario, just that it was a suspicious coincidence.
Go slam a revolving door and then say everything is possible :)

Since: Jan 10

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#79660 Feb 5, 2013
Good morning! Today is my 45th birthday! I'm wearing super cute new black shoes, a cute new top, a new leather jacket (Dress Barn for the win!), and my five boxes of thin mints (Girl Scouts!) just got delivered to my desk.

LIfe is good.

Carry on.

Since: Aug 08

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#79661 Feb 5, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
The guy sounded like a complete doormat.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#79662 Feb 5, 2013
Happy Birthday! May the coming year bring you happiness and may all of your wishes come true (even the ones you don't know you are wishing for)!

Since: Aug 08

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#79663 Feb 5, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Good morning! Today is my 45th birthday! I'm wearing super cute new black shoes, a cute new top, a new leather jacket (Dress Barn for the win!), and my five boxes of thin mints (Girl Scouts!) just got delivered to my desk.
LIfe is good.
Carry on.
HBD, Angela!

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#79664 Feb 5, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
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The guy sounded like a complete doormat.
Granted, I read the article last night and really don't recall the details, but what makes him seem like a doormat? He did not even have an inkling that they were not his kids till well after they were divorced. I don't recall the article saying they had any problems early in in their marriage or anything to make him question her fidelity. So what was it that you read that makes him seem like a door mat?

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#79665 Feb 5, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Good morning! Today is my 45th birthday! I'm wearing super cute new black shoes, a cute new top, a new leather jacket (Dress Barn for the win!), and my five boxes of thin mints (Girl Scouts!) just got delivered to my desk.
LIfe is good.
Carry on.
Happy birthday, Red! Hope it's a good one!

“Fort Kickass”

Since: Sep 09

Bloomington, IL

#79666 Feb 5, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
"I always wanted children and grandchildren and now it’s too late in life for me."

No it's not. Dump your old second wife and get some young tail.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#79667 Feb 5, 2013
Red
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Since: Jan 10

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#79668 Feb 5, 2013
Thanks, folks!

Re: the guy whose wife cheated: We don't know the gory details, really, but his 20yo daughter dumped him over the testing...

I guess I just don't think he ever should have done the DNA testing, and he should have just had the attitude, "These are my kids, I don't care what anyone else says." And the language he uses after this all has happened is like, "I don't have kids anymore."

I just think he detached from the kids he raised very quickly.

Since: Mar 09

Lake Worth, FL

#79669 Feb 5, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Good morning! Today is my 45th birthday! I'm wearing super cute new black shoes, a cute new top, a new leather jacket (Dress Barn for the win!), and my five boxes of thin mints (Girl Scouts!) just got delivered to my desk.

LIfe is good.

Carry on.
Happy Birthday!
:)

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#79670 Feb 5, 2013
Matilda77 wrote:
<quoted text>"I always wanted children and grandchildren and now itÂ’s too late in life for me."

No it's not. Dump your old second wife and get some young tail.
My response to him would be "You are an a$$. You have kids. They may not carry your genes, but you raised them and you are the only father they have ever known. Now, because you have bad taste in women, you have told them that those years mean nothing to you and furthermore you need to be compensated for the time and money that you spent on your children. F you. You had your chance to show people what a real father is and you blew it. Very few people get second chances in life and you haven't shown that you deserve any."

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

United States

#79671 Feb 5, 2013
Jess in NJ wrote:
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My response to him would be "You are an a$$. You have kids. They may not carry your genes, but you raised them and you are the only father they have ever known. Now, because you have bad taste in women, you have told them that those years mean nothing to you and furthermore you need to be compensated for the time and money that you spent on your children. F you. You had your chance to show people what a real father is and you blew it. Very few people get second chances in life and you haven't shown that you deserve any."
Unless I misread the article, I thought it was the kids who wanted nothing to do with *him*? That's why he feels abandoned and wanted his child support back? In which case I would agree with him. And Mattie has a good point, unlike you btches, men can have kids up untill the day they die (ha ha!)

And happy bday angela. It's my friend's birthday too.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

United States

#79672 Feb 5, 2013
Jldean wrote:
<quoted text>
Go slam a revolving door and then say everything is possible :)
It can happen. I was trapped in one of those once.

“The two baby belly, please!”

Since: Sep 09

Evanston IL

#79673 Feb 5, 2013
Happy Birthday Angela!

Since: Aug 08

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#79674 Feb 5, 2013
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>Granted, I read the article last night and really don't recall the details, but what makes him seem like a doormat? He did not even have an inkling that they were not his kids till well after they were divorced. I don't recall the article saying they had any problems early in in their marriage or anything to make him question her fidelity. So what was it that you read that makes him seem like a door mat?
This:

But by 2004 the marriage was struggling. Mr Rodwell explained:‘Helen was disappearing for several days without telling me where she was going. I only found out from used train and coach tickets I discovered.

‘I would collect the children from school as usual and walk into the house and it would be empty with no note or anything. Helen would go to places such as Newcastle or Manchester, and if I asked why she had gone there she would say,“Nothing to do with you.”&#8201;’

****

My wife wouldn't be making "multiple" trips to places like Newcastle or Manchester, without telling me why she was going to be gone from our family for several days. It would happen one time and one time, only. I wouldn't be looking at used train tickets either ... wouldn't matter to me where she went ... I wouldn't care if she disappeared to go meet the Pope for a few days. If my wife pulled that shyte, the door locks would be changed.

I firmly believe that most men (not all) who have this shyte happen to them, lost their man card a long time ago. There is probably a long history of her treating him like garbage to go along with having children with other men.

Since: Jan 10

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#79675 Feb 5, 2013
Thanks, folks!:)

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Right, Sub. My spouse disappears for days with no explanation? I'm going to a divorce attorney that week.

Since: Feb 08

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#79676 Feb 5, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Thanks, folks!
Re: the guy whose wife cheated: We don't know the gory details, really, but his 20yo daughter dumped him over the testing...
I guess I just don't think he ever should have done the DNA testing, and he should have just had the attitude, "These are my kids, I don't care what anyone else says." And the language he uses after this all has happened is like, "I don't have kids anymore."
I just think he detached from the kids he raised very quickly.
They cut off contact AFTER he got the testing done. You're right that he should have never done the testing.
I know guys who've been in this spot, but their attitude when people where spreading rumours about a couple of them not being theirs biologically were met with 'eff you, they're mine, I don't care how they got started'. They never got DNA tested, and that's why they still have loving relationships with the kids.

Have a great birthday, Red!

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