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“I Am Mine”

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#78733
Jan 17, 2013
 
And my comments. Thoughts anyone?

1) OK
2) OK
3)?? I understand "answer it if mom or dad calls", but why shouldn't he be allowed to screen his calls for other people?
4)?? How old is the kid? 7:30 on week nights is too late to call a friend? Not when I was a kid.
5)?? I'm cool with it not going to school, but it just seems like he will have extremely limited use. No access during the school bus ride? Or walking home from school or however he commutes? So basically, his window of opportunity is from when he gets home from school to 7:30pm. Does he take part in any extra curricular activites? How much homework does he have? Daily chores? That 7:30 shut down is the sticking point to me.
6) OK. The kid is responsible for it. But damn, nice confidence in your kid when you tell him, "it will happen". Is the kid a klutz with a history of losing/breaking things?
7) OK, but th iphone really has nothing to do with this advice
8) OK
9)??? So basically, don't have private conversations with your friends, cause there's lots of stuff kids will say amongst friends that they would not say in front of their parents.
10) Hah! Good luck withthat one mom. Hope you're a tech saavy mom if you want to catch him. Cause just like you know he's gonna drop the phone, he's gonna look for porn. It'll happen.
11) Cool. So when he's in public talking to his friends, and mom or dad call, he'll have an excuse to ignore the call. "But mom, you told me to put it on silent so I would not be rude. I didn't even know you called".
12) OK
13)??? This is just stupid
14) Again with the time without the phone. Starting to wonder why she even got him the phone
15) Nice suggestion, but silly rule.
16) Whatever mom
17) WTF? Go eat some granola
18) Are we supposed to hug now?

So he can't use the phone till he gets home from school. It goes without saying that some of that time will be occupied with chores, homework, dinner, bath, any extra curricular activies, time spent playing with friend, and then it goes off at 7:30. I know that I get most use out of my phone/tech after all those other things are done and I am winding down and relaxing.

She is suggesting he not take it out with him, thus lessening its usefulness.
Suggesting he "wonder without googling" thus lessening its usefulness.
Tells him to not take a bunch of videos/pictures, thus lessening its usefulness.
Tells him to always answer it but tells him to silence it while he's out in public and/or talking with people, which are contradictory.

She's given him an iphone and a set of rules geared towards him getting as little use out of the phone as possible.
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Jan 17, 2013
 
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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You people? But I and my liberal friends supports gun ownership and gun rights. There is no "you peopl." We.re not a monolithic party. Most people have beliefs from both sides.
So sorry, labeling doesn't allow for deviation.

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#78735
Jan 17, 2013
 
Sam I Am wrote:
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So sorry, labeling doesn't allow for deviation.
There you go labeling again.

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#78736
Jan 17, 2013
 
Mister Tonka wrote:
And my comments. Thoughts anyone?
1) OK
2) OK
3)?? I understand "answer it if mom or dad calls", but why shouldn't he be allowed to screen his calls for other people?
4)?? How old is the kid? 7:30 on week nights is too late to call a friend? Not when I was a kid.
5)?? I'm cool with it not going to school, but it just seems like he will have extremely limited use. No access during the school bus ride? Or walking home from school or however he commutes? So basically, his window of opportunity is from when he gets home from school to 7:30pm. Does he take part in any extra curricular activites? How much homework does he have? Daily chores? That 7:30 shut down is the sticking point to me.
6) OK. The kid is responsible for it. But damn, nice confidence in your kid when you tell him, "it will happen". Is the kid a klutz with a history of losing/breaking things?
7) OK, but th iphone really has nothing to do with this advice
8) OK
9)??? So basically, don't have private conversations with your friends, cause there's lots of stuff kids will say amongst friends that they would not say in front of their parents.
10) Hah! Good luck withthat one mom. Hope you're a tech saavy mom if you want to catch him. Cause just like you know he's gonna drop the phone, he's gonna look for porn. It'll happen.
11) Cool. So when he's in public talking to his friends, and mom or dad call, he'll have an excuse to ignore the call. "But mom, you told me to put it on silent so I would not be rude. I didn't even know you called".
12) OK
13)??? This is just stupid
14) Again with the time without the phone. Starting to wonder why she even got him the phone
15) Nice suggestion, but silly rule.
16) Whatever mom
17) WTF? Go eat some granola
18) Are we supposed to hug now?
So he can't use the phone till he gets home from school. It goes without saying that some of that time will be occupied with chores, homework, dinner, bath, any extra curricular activies, time spent playing with friend, and then it goes off at 7:30. I know that I get most use out of my phone/tech after all those other things are done and I am winding down and relaxing.
She is suggesting he not take it out with him, thus lessening its usefulness.
Suggesting he "wonder without googling" thus lessening its usefulness.
Tells him to not take a bunch of videos/pictures, thus lessening its usefulness.
Tells him to always answer it but tells him to silence it while he's out in public and/or talking with people, which are contradictory.
She's given him an iphone and a set of rules geared towards him getting as little use out of the phone as possible.
Yeah. She should have just gotten him a regular phone. Screw "wonder without googling". I love Google, Wikipedia, dictionary.com , imdb.com , reddit, etc. I think about stuff all day long, when I want to KNOW something new, I want to know it now. My female friends do this all the time "I wonder blah blah blah..." While they're debating, I've got the answer.

I get not taking nude pics of course, but why the crap does she care if he takes a ton of pictures? I take a ton of pictures with a couple different apps. Only a few see the light of day. That's the beauty of it. Maybe he'll get in to photography.

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#78737
Jan 17, 2013
 
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>I saw some stuff on line this morning, some investigative googling by some dude chasing the story, and its starting to sway me to the side of him being dumb, not complicit.
The sticking point for me is I while I can understand people having online only friends that they've never met or seen(hello imaginary friends), I cannot go the extra step to beleiving that anyone could consider someone they've never met to be their girlfriend. That does not compute.
I completely agree with that; I know we joke about being imaginary friends on here and there's no doubt that I've gotten very real support from you guys about different things, but I can't see calling someone my boyfriend if I'd never actually met him.

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#78738
Jan 17, 2013
 
Mister Tonka wrote:
And my comments. Thoughts anyone?

So he can't use the phone till he gets home from school. It goes without saying that some of that time will be occupied with chores, homework, dinner, bath, any extra curricular activies, time spent playing with friend, and then it goes off at 7:30. I know that I get most use out of my phone/tech after all those other things are done and I am winding down and relaxing.
She is suggesting he not take it out with him, thus lessening its usefulness.
Suggesting he "wonder without googling" thus lessening its usefulness.
Tells him to not take a bunch of videos/pictures, thus lessening its usefulness.
Tells him to always answer it but tells him to silence it while he's out in public and/or talking with people, which are contradictory.
She's given him an iphone and a set of rules geared towards him getting as little use out of the phone as possible.
I think I understand the intention behind the rules but yes, I agree with your point about the practicality.

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#78739
Jan 17, 2013
 
It almost makes it silly to have spent so much money on a phone that he can barely use.

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#78740
Jan 17, 2013
 
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
It almost makes it silly to have spent so much money on a phone that he can barely use.
I agree with Jam that she has good intent, but half the rulse just seem so silly. I forget how old the kid is, but forget the iphone, is he not allowed to call his friends after 7:30? That itself just seems so overbearingly limiting to me. Did I have more freedom than the average bear as a kid? As long as I did all the crap I was supposed to do, entertain myself however I wanted to. Video game, tv, phone, comic books, whatever. I was taught not to call people after 9:30 because people might actually be asleep at that hour, but before that, what's rude about calling someone when they are likely awake?
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Jan 17, 2013
 
edogxxx wrote:
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There you go labeling again.
TSTI.

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#78743
Jan 17, 2013
 
If you have to make that many rules re: phone usage, either your kid isn't ready, or you aren't.
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#78744
Jan 17, 2013
 
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
If you have to make that many rules re: phone usage, either your kid isn't ready, or you aren't.
Rules or no rules, a lot of people aren't ready to handle a cell phone.

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Jan 17, 2013
 

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Man outsources his own job to China and surfs the internet all day before getting busted:

http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2013/01/1...

That is so f'ing funny.

“It made sense at the time....”

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Jan 17, 2013
 
Sublime1 wrote:
Man outsources his own job to China and surfs the internet all day before getting busted:
http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2013/01/1...
That is so f'ing funny.
i like the comments too...

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Jan 17, 2013
 
Dear Abby, senior died at 94.Alzheimers.

“The two baby belly, please!”

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Jan 17, 2013
 

“The two baby belly, please!”

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#78749
Jan 17, 2013
 
For the dog people

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/loyal-do...

I so do not want to do what I have to do this afternoon: copying.

And I mean lots of copying, and I'm sure more that half the originals have staples in them. <eyeroll>

Boring boring boring boring boring

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#78750
Jan 17, 2013
 
PEllen wrote:
Dear Abby, senior died at 94.Alzheimers.
Like Jacob McCandles, I thought she was dead.

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Jan 17, 2013
 
Regarding the radio station I listen to in my office (I have very limited options due to poor reception, and yes, I know I could stream online but we're not supposed to because it hogs bandwidth)....

Con: I hear "Photograph" by Nickelback way too much.

Pro: I hear "I'll Be There For You" by Bon Jovi a lot, and other 80s hits.

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Jan 17, 2013
 

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j_m_w wrote:
Regarding the radio station I listen to in my office (I have very limited options due to poor reception, and yes, I know I could stream online but we're not supposed to because it hogs bandwidth)....
Con: I hear "Photograph" by Nickelback way too much.
Pro: I hear "I'll Be There For You" by Bon Jovi a lot, and other 80s hits.
That "pro" is a "con" to me!!~!:)

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#78753
Jan 17, 2013
 
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>Like Jacob McCandles, I thought she was dead.
She's been in seclusion with alzheimers for a long time. She hasn't written her column in a good 20 years.

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