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Since: Jan 10

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#76530 Nov 29, 2012
RACE wrote:
Isnt the definition of being a homosexual defined as engaging in sexual acts with a person of the same sex as yourself?
So, unless you are sporting both sets of equipment, your a lezbo.
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Didn't we have this argument/debate with edog a couple of years ago?

Since: Aug 08

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#76531 Nov 29, 2012
RACE wrote:
Isnt the definition of being a homosexual defined as engaging in sexual acts with a person of the same sex as yourself?
So, unless you are sporting both sets of equipment, your a lezbo.
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Man law says, that's only true for guys.

Don't be calling bi chicks lezbos. Then they will get all self-conscious. Bisexuality should be encouraged in women. Nothing beats chicks in twos, unless there are more than two. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
Sam I Am

Cedar Grove, TN

#76532 Nov 29, 2012
RACE wrote:
Isnt the definition of being a homosexual defined as engaging in sexual acts with a person of the same sex as yourself?
So, unless you are sporting both sets of equipment, your a lezbo.
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C'mon, dum dum, think. Turn off the TV, sit down, focus and think. If you are going to insist on categorizing everything, then at least be accurate. Lesbian and homosexual both involve an orientation to only the same sex. Bisexual means open to both sexes. I shouldn't have to spell that out, but apparently I do. I derive 99% of my enjoyment from men. I do so with consistent enthusiasm and vigor. The remaining 1% consists of an accasional kiss or a little petting. And threesomes (the "good kind" as most men refer to it) are a part of my fantasy repertoire. If you deem that sufficient to toss me in the bi bin, that don't make no never mind to me. Of course, most guys I know would spend less energy labeling and more conceptualizing....

Since: Mar 09

Miami, FL

#76533 Nov 29, 2012
Sublime1 wrote:
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Man law says, that's only true for guys.
Don't be calling bi chicks lezbos. Then they will get all self-conscious. Bisexuality should be encouraged in women. Nothing beats chicks in twos, unless there are more than two. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
The juxtaposition between this post and your homey Christmas scene avatar pic is amusing to me.
:)

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#76534 Nov 29, 2012
Sam I Am wrote:
I derive 99% of my enjoyment from men. I do so with consistent enthusiasm and vigor. The remaining 1% consists of an accasional kiss or a little petting. And threesomes (the "good kind" as most men refer to it) are a part of my fantasy repertoire. If you deem that sufficient to toss me in the bi bin, that don't make no never mind to me. Of course, most guys I know would spend less energy labeling and more conceptualizing....
Sounds good to me! Come on over and bring a friend!

Since: Jul 10

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#76535 Nov 29, 2012
Several years ago, I had a similar situation leading up to the shootings. My house in rural Minnesota (different town) had been broken into while I was gone, and several months later, there was evidence that someone had been back, but hadn't broken in yet. So I hid my car and stayed up all night a few nights. The fourth night, some maggot broke my sliding glass door, across the room from where I was waiting. I told him to stay very very still since my 9mm was nervous around strangers. Unlike this guy, I didn't shoot him...sadly. I called the cops. You know what happened? He paid a fine...again. He hadn't actually removed anything and we couldn't prove that he intented to, so he was charged with burglary 3rd degree, reduced to burglary 4th degree - a misdemeanor. My insurance company paid for a little less than half the cost of the door, with me paying for the rest. He never even made restitution for that.

But thank goodness he lived. Like all of them, he was a great kid, just getting his life turned around. At least, that's what all his family members said a few years later, when he moved to the Cities, broke into some woman's house, and raped and killed her before robbing the place.

Had I shot him when he first entered, I would not have walked over and shot him again, in the face. But then again, I wouldn't have had to. I am a very good shot. If there ever is a next time, I will dial AFTER I fire.

Since: Aug 08

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#76536 Nov 29, 2012
j_m_w wrote:
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The juxtaposition between this post and your homey Christmas scene avatar pic is amusing to me.
:)
Bambi and I are both officially on the naughty list.

Since: Aug 08

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#76537 Nov 29, 2012
Sgt__Smith wrote:
Several years ago, I had a similar situation leading up to the shootings. My house in rural Minnesota (different town) had been broken into while I was gone, and several months later, there was evidence that someone had been back, but hadn't broken in yet. So I hid my car and stayed up all night a few nights. The fourth night, some maggot broke my sliding glass door, across the room from where I was waiting. I told him to stay very very still since my 9mm was nervous around strangers. Unlike this guy, I didn't shoot him...sadly. I called the cops. You know what happened? He paid a fine...again. He hadn't actually removed anything and we couldn't prove that he intented to, so he was charged with burglary 3rd degree, reduced to burglary 4th degree - a misdemeanor. My insurance company paid for a little less than half the cost of the door, with me paying for the rest. He never even made restitution for that.
But thank goodness he lived. Like all of them, he was a great kid, just getting his life turned around. At least, that's what all his family members said a few years later, when he moved to the Cities, broke into some woman's house, and raped and killed her before robbing the place.
Had I shot him when he first entered, I would not have walked over and shot him again, in the face. But then again, I wouldn't have had to. I am a very good shot. If there ever is a next time, I will dial AFTER I fire.
Hear, hear.

Chances are those kids would have moved on to far worst things as well. That guy did the world a favor, IMO.

Since: Jan 10

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#76538 Nov 29, 2012
Sgt__Smith wrote:
Had I shot him when he first entered, I would not have walked over and shot him again, in the face. But then again, I wouldn't have had to. I am a very good shot. If there ever is a next time, I will dial AFTER I fire.
From waht I've read and been told, in gun classes (like to get your conceal-carry permit), you're told to empty the chamber. You don't shoot once, you shoot it all.

Since: Jan 10

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#76539 Nov 29, 2012
I feel this way:

You can say "what if they were big men with guns" or present other potential scenarios all you want. But they WEREN'T Big men with guns. They DIDN'T present a threat after he first took each one down. They DON'T deserve to die for being stupid teens looking for drugs and money to buy drugs. Yes, that's the riskt hey took for breaking in, and if he'd met them at the bedroom door in the room they broke into and blasted them away then and there, then called the cops, I'd e on his side.

He did something wrong, he knewit, and he proscratinated calling the cops because he knew his hours as a free man were severely shortened.

“On Deck”

Since: Aug 08

French Polynesia

#76540 Nov 29, 2012
That's right, Red.
That man is no hero and he will now have to pay the piper for what started out as a petty burglary.
His crimes are far worse than breaking and entering or even the theft of a few worthless trinkets.

I can be a pretty cold individual too sometimes, j/k, but it turned my stomache when I read what he did to them in cold blood.
I bet he's seething with hatred.
Sam I Am

Knoxville, TN

#76541 Nov 29, 2012
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
I feel this way:
You can say "what if they were big men with guns" or present other potential scenarios all you want. But they WEREN'T Big men with guns. They DIDN'T present a threat after he first took each one down. They DON'T deserve to die for being stupid teens looking for drugs and money to buy drugs. Yes, that's the riskt hey took for breaking in, and if he'd met them at the bedroom door in the room they broke into and blasted them away then and there, then called the cops, I'd e on his side.
He did something wrong, he knewit, and he proscratinated calling the cops because he knew his hours as a free man were severely shortened.
I can get on board with that.

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#76542 Nov 29, 2012
So let's focus on me for a while shall we?

I told you guys about my sister and her POS husband right? Ok, about a month ago she called me and told me that she's had him put in jail. Domestic violence, false imprisonment (wouldn't let her out of the house), and terrorist threats (to the cops). He ended up getting a year in the county jail...out in 6 months.

She now has an opportunity to get the hell away from him/that area, but she hooks up with some "ex" biker (think Hells Angels) and moves in with him with her 12 year old, while her 19 year old is hanging out with his little gang banger wannabe friends.

So now she calls me and says she wants to come up here, blah, blah, blah. Finally I said "so you want me to find you an apartment then right?" Like I don't have enough to do right now... She said "yes."

No money, no job, nothing and she thinks *I* can (or will expend the energy to) secure her an apartment. THEN she says "well is Shawna still staying with you, and I'm like yeah and Samantha (Shawna's daughter) too. I don't have room and my landlord is on my ass (he's not) about people living with me anyway, and I don't have room.

STILL she says "well maybe we can stay with you for a *couple* of days, just to get on our feet." Dude, did she not hear me say no like 5 times?

Here's the thing. She doesn't know my address (yay) on purpose because I am literally afraid of her uber violent, irrational POS husband and I do not trust her to not let him know it. I don't even want her here even one single time because if she comes up here, he will be up here as soon as he gets out. He has a history, he is easy to predict and while my life might not be exactly peaceful and un-stressful, it's a damn sight better than it is with them screwing up my Zen.

Oh and she was strung out while I was talking to her. Don't *think* she was tweeking, didn't sound like it, just strung out. Don't know if this is supposed to include the biker (and his kid).

Also two weeks ago she called and asked me to turn on the gas for them (I refused) because neither can get it in their name and CPS had been there and threatened them with taking the kids away if they didn't get heat.

Sooooo if you hear that I died, it's just me faking it.:D

Ok.../rant

Since: Feb 08

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#76543 Nov 29, 2012
Mimi Seattle wrote:
So let's focus on me for a while shall we?
I told you guys about my sister and her POS husband right? Ok, about a month ago she called me and told me that she's had him put in jail. Domestic violence, false imprisonment (wouldn't let her out of the house), and terrorist threats (to the cops). He ended up getting a year in the county jail...out in 6 months.
She now has an opportunity to get the hell away from him/that area, but she hooks up with some "ex" biker (think Hells Angels) and moves in with him with her 12 year old, while her 19 year old is hanging out with his little gang banger wannabe friends.
So now she calls me and says she wants to come up here, blah, blah, blah. Finally I said "so you want me to find you an apartment then right?" Like I don't have enough to do right now... She said "yes."
No money, no job, nothing and she thinks *I* can (or will expend the energy to) secure her an apartment. THEN she says "well is Shawna still staying with you, and I'm like yeah and Samantha (Shawna's daughter) too. I don't have room and my landlord is on my ass (he's not) about people living with me anyway, and I don't have room.
STILL she says "well maybe we can stay with you for a *couple* of days, just to get on our feet." Dude, did she not hear me say no like 5 times?
Here's the thing. She doesn't know my address (yay) on purpose because I am literally afraid of her uber violent, irrational POS husband and I do not trust her to not let him know it. I don't even want her here even one single time because if she comes up here, he will be up here as soon as he gets out. He has a history, he is easy to predict and while my life might not be exactly peaceful and un-stressful, it's a damn sight better than it is with them screwing up my Zen.
Oh and she was strung out while I was talking to her. Don't *think* she was tweeking, didn't sound like it, just strung out. Don't know if this is supposed to include the biker (and his kid).
Also two weeks ago she called and asked me to turn on the gas for them (I refused) because neither can get it in their name and CPS had been there and threatened them with taking the kids away if they didn't get heat.
Sooooo if you hear that I died, it's just me faking it.:D
Ok.../rant
I'm glad she doesn't know where to find you.

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#76544 Nov 29, 2012
NWmoon wrote:
<quoted text>I'm glad she doesn't know where to find you.
Me too. I mean she knows the city I live in, and it's not a BIG city, so if she was determined, if she like stalked Starbucks or something and followed me home... But, as she doesn't even have enough money for a bus ride right now, that's not a big issue just yet. <shrug>

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#76545 Nov 29, 2012
Oh and I know it goes without saying, I'm ranting here so she doesn't see me rant on FB, so yanno, shhhh :D

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#76546 Nov 29, 2012
Sorry Mimi.
Hang tough lady.

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Des Plaines, IL

#76547 Nov 29, 2012
oh, wow, mimi... that's a ton to deal with... good luck wiht it all. one step, one day at a time.

oddly, just a few minutes ago, i found an article written by a prosecutor about domestic violence:

http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-11-29/true-stor...

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#76548 Nov 29, 2012
Moon-
Santa came.
(And Mrs Santa wasn't even around).

They are heavier than I expected.

They are quite good for back and shoulder massages when no one else is available, which is what I suspected would be the case.

Cool.
Thanks

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#76549 Nov 29, 2012
Aisle Sitter wrote:
oh, wow, mimi... that's a ton to deal with... good luck wiht it all. one step, one day at a time.
oddly, just a few minutes ago, i found an article written by a prosecutor about domestic violence:
http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-11-29/true-stor...
Thanks. I'm not dealing with it actually. I sicced (is that a word?) on my nephew. I'm too busy to live her life for her and she's almost (in March) 45 goddamn years old. Enough. I am not her mother.

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