“bELieve”

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#76197 Nov 23, 2012
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
<quoted text>Nope. I've been using what time I do have to do it. But the place is still a mess. Kitchen is mostly put away though. I have *a lot* of kitchen stuff. Cupboards and cabinets are full, and there's no food at all in them (I have a walk-in pantry!).
So, what are you doing with the boys today?

“bELieve”

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#76198 Nov 23, 2012
squishymama wrote:
Happy Thanksgiving Regs!

We had a very excellent meal considering it was all store-bought, pre-made stuff from Publix or from a can. My mom is real good at doctoring. I barely had to do a thing; I took the kids to the pool for most of the day while she got the food prepped. Step-bro and his fam traveled a whole 3 floors up and we all squished around the table. It was surprisingly nice.

And Nunu discovered that she likes pumpkin pie.
We have a local ice cream shop that makes the best pumpkin ice cream. I wish you lived closer so we could get the kids together for dessert!

Sounds like a fun Thanksgiving that the family will look back on fondly for many years!

Since: Jan 10

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#76199 Nov 23, 2012
Jess in NJ wrote:
<quoted text>
So, what are you doing with the boys today?
Well, they both have colds, so if the youngest is up for it, I'll take him skating at 11 (open skate 11-1) then pick up culver's (Yummy Midwestern burger place) for the three of us. The 10yo doesn't want to go.

They're blowing their noses and coughing, so unless that slows down, I won't take the 5yo skating, because he won't be able to blow his nose with all his gear on!

So for now, they're watching Phineas & Ferb. In a bit, the 10yo will play xbox and I'll play war or Sorry with the youngest.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#76200 Nov 23, 2012
So, doing something totally legal is reason enough for her to be fired?

Dude, you talk about wanting to bang your cousins teenage friends, what kind of employee are you?

Teachers are not allowed to have a sex life? Their teachers, not nuns. What they do in their bedroom is non of my(or my kids) business. Bet you would have a different view if the teacher was a man. Aren't atheletes role models too? How about firemen or a cop? Should all of those peeps be fired if they make a porno?

You know, for someone who is supposedly for smaller govt, you sure seem to think that govt has every right to go into peoples bedrooms and dictate what is allowable.
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes it should. A person's personal life is a ponderous instrumentality of their character. And their character is a prominent acumen of what kind of employee they are. There's a reason some companies don't hire felons. There's a reason some companies have drug tests.
There's a story I heard a couple weeks ago about a teacher getting fired for making a porno. Was she wrong to be fired or is THAT the kind of role model you want for your children?
Is it wrong to fire your employee for screaming at and giving the finger to dead soldiers, or is THAT the woman you want propagandizing your company?

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#76201 Nov 23, 2012
Had a good Tday. Was just myself, so had a small 10lb bird deep fried, I actually used the gibletts and stuff to make gravy even though I only had stove top stuffing. Started drinking wine way too early, and was pretty toasted by 7. I soaked the wood in the peanut oil and had a kick ass fire. I took a picture on my phone and sent it to someone I did not know. They called me back and were like WFT??? That was funny.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#76202 Nov 23, 2012
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
<quoted text>
Well, they both have colds, so if the youngest is up for it, I'll take him skating at 11 (open skate 11-1) then pick up culver's (Yummy Midwestern burger place) for the three of us. The 10yo doesn't want to go.
They're blowing their noses and coughing, so unless that slows down, I won't take the 5yo skating, because he won't be able to blow his nose with all his gear on!
So for now, they're watching Phineas & Ferb. In a bit, the 10yo will play xbox and I'll play war or Sorry with the youngest.
I got a groupon notice about warcraft. check the chicago area listing locations

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#76203 Nov 23, 2012
RACE wrote:
So, doing something totally legal is reason enough for her to be fired?
Dude, you talk about wanting to bang your cousins teenage friends, what kind of employee are you?
Teachers are not allowed to have a sex life? Their teachers, not nuns. What they do in their bedroom is non of my(or my kids) business. Bet you would have a different view if the teacher was a man. Aren't atheletes role models too? How about firemen or a cop? Should all of those peeps be fired if they make a porno?
You know, for someone who is supposedly for smaller govt, you sure seem to think that govt has every right to go into peoples bedrooms and dictate what is allowable.
<quoted text>
Are you still on Lindsay Stone, the girl at Arlington Nat'l Cemetery? No one one poked into her bedroom or private life and the government was not involved.. She posted it on You Tube and it is her private employer who is ticked.

Public conduct, Race, public conduct has consequences different that private conduct and the government is not at all involved.

If you did not intrinsically agree with that, you would be posting here using your real name

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#76204 Nov 23, 2012
RACE wrote:
Had a good Tday. Was just myself, so had a small 10lb bird deep fried, I actually used the gibletts and stuff to make gravy even though I only had stove top stuffing. Started drinking wine way too early, and was pretty toasted by 7. I soaked the wood in the peanut oil and had a kick ass fire. I took a picture on my phone and sent it to someone I did not know. They called me back and were like WFT??? That was funny.
For the 1st 10 years we were in this house, our back fence neighbor lived with an adult son who did BBQ like that every weekend, all year. It was like having the Olympic torch over the back fence. When he died, his siblings had teh funeral lunch at teh house and lit the torch one last time.

Did you just pick a random number to send teh picture to? Did you just guess they could receive a photo?

Since: Jan 10

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#76205 Nov 23, 2012
And she or her coworker posted it on FB. Idiots.

My boss fired a young woman for inappropriate behavior in the building parking lot. The girl tried to argue about it. "But I wasn't on company property or on the clock!" My boss felt that it was more about poor judgment and choices being made.

(Her boyfriend met her after work and they LAID DOWN ON THE HOOD OF HIS CAR AND MADE OUT. At 5 p.m. when everyone could see as they want to work. People in the building watched from the windows, incredulous over the behavior.)
Mimmi

Providence, UT

#76206 Nov 23, 2012
Hi

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#76207 Nov 23, 2012
RACE wrote:
<quoted text>So, doing something totally legal is reason enough for her to be fired?

Dude, you talk about wanting to bang your cousins teenage friends, what kind of employee are you?

Teachers are not allowed to have a sex life? Their teachers, not nuns. What they do in their bedroom is non of my(or my kids) business. Bet you would have a different view if the teacher was a man. Aren't atheletes role models too? How about firemen or a cop? Should all of those peeps be fired if they make a porno?

You know, for someone who is supposedly for smaller govt, you sure seem to think that govt has every right to go into peoples bedrooms and dictate what is allowable.
I'm not saying I agree with everything edog wrote, but the difference that I see in the Lindsey Stone situation is that she was on a business trip with her company LIFE - Living Independently Forever. It is a company that helps adults with mental disabilities live as independently as possible. In breaking the rules as the site, she was breaking the code of conduct for her company.

If a teacher had sex with someone during the schoolday, I would expect repercussions. Cops and firefighters are monitored very closely now about what they do off the clock, online, who they associate with because it is recognized that their off duty activities can affect their ability to do their jobs effectively.

There are lots of legal things that you can do, but not on your employer's clock/dime.

BTW, Lindsey Stone has now been fired.

Since: Jan 10

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#76208 Nov 23, 2012
I think at this point, the company had to fire her, because she was an embarrassment and a liability. I think it's odd that considering what her job was, she could be so blatantly disrespectful like that.

I hope this was a huge learning experience for her.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#76209 Nov 23, 2012
RACE wrote:
So, doing something totally legal is reason enough for her to be fired?
Absolutely. Happens all the time.
RACE wrote:
Dude, you talk about wanting to bang your cousins teenage friends, what kind of employee are you?
I don't think I ever made that remark, but who I want to bang has no bearing on what kind of employee I am.
RACE wrote:
Teachers are not allowed to have a sex life?
I never made that claim so will not defend it.
RACE wrote:
Bet you would have a different view if the teacher was a man.
I wouldn't want John Holmes or Ron Jeremy teaching my children either.
RACE wrote:
Aren't atheletes role models too? How about firemen or a cop?
Ask Michael Vick. And many jurisdictions don't permit cops to be bouncers at strip clubs.
RACE wrote:
You know, for someone who is supposedly for smaller govt, you sure seem to think that govt has every right to go into peoples bedrooms and dictate what is allowable.
<quoted text>
I don't know why you think that as once again, I never made that claim.

Argument fail. Next!

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#76210 Nov 23, 2012
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>Public conduct, Race, public conduct has consequences different that private conduct and the government is not at all involved.
If you did not intrinsically agree with that, you would be posting here using your real name
Agreed. If you're a teacher, especially, you realize your public conduct does have consequences. If you don't realize that, you're in the wrong business.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

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#76211 Nov 23, 2012
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
I think at this point, the company had to fire her, because she was an embarrassment and a liability. I think it's odd that considering what her job was, she could be so blatantly disrespectful like that.
I hope this was a huge learning experience for her.
Unfortunately, people like that like to blame others for their problems, in a lot of instances.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#76212 Nov 23, 2012
Jess in NJ wrote:
company LIFE
Kind of ironic that someone who works for a company called "LIFE" would scream at people for being dead.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#76213 Nov 23, 2012
Toj wrote:
<quoted text>
Unfortunately, people like that like to blame others for their problems, in a lot of instances.
Sometimes when you work closely with people of disability you also encounter ones who milk the system 2hich can lead to frustartion.

She is a low level NGO worker who is out of a job. She paid her price. On to the next one.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

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#76214 Nov 23, 2012
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>Kind of ironic that someone who works for a company called "LIFE" would scream at people for being dead.
If you read her excuses, she wasn't thinking about where she was, but saw the sign and was poking fun at it - not the soldiers. I'm sure many people would have been tempted to do the same, but they took the sign in context and made their decisions accordingly.
drive by poster

Roselle, IL

#76215 Nov 23, 2012
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
Kind of ironic that someone who works for a company called "LIFE" would scream at people for being dead.
Not so ironic when you consider that death is the exact opposite of life! Life and death have been at odds, practically since the beginning of time. It's really quite a rivalry.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#76216 Nov 23, 2012
What are you babbling about? Did you even bother to read the post I replied to? Mutt was the one who brought the bedroom into the conversation.

Reading comprehension fail!
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>Are you still on Lindsay Stone, the girl at Arlington Nat'l Cemetery? No one one poked into her bedroom or private life and the government was not involved.. She posted it on You Tube and it is her private employer who is ticked.
Public conduct, Race, public conduct has consequences different that private conduct and the government is not at all involved.
If you did not intrinsically agree with that, you would be posting here using your real name

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