“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#75865 Nov 9, 2012
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
<quoted text>I'm in the majority here where I live. I can't imagine being a bully with it. If anything, that position of strength that comes with being in the majority should let someone lighten up and not feel threatened.
I didn't mean that all people in the majority are bullies. I meant that it's easier for the bullies to hide when they are in the majority.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#75866 Nov 9, 2012
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
If anything, that position of strength that comes with being in the majority should let someone lighten up and not feel threatened.
Then you end up being too smug. And you wake up one day and find yourself in the minority again.

Since: Mar 09

Brooklyn, NY

#75867 Nov 9, 2012
Chair massage at the airport!

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#75868 Nov 9, 2012
People who are not "big picture" people should not get to decide what is and is not "need to know" information.

My husband forgets to tell me details all the time. They may not be important to him, but they are usually pretty important to me. Argh!

Toj

“Equality”

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#75869 Nov 9, 2012
Jess, you never present yourself as an extreme right b/c you listen to what people say. It doesn't necessarily change your mind, but you're interested. Edog, you dismiss people too easily when they disagree with you and call them names. Of course people think of you more as a Tea Party person than anything else.

Edog, it's good to hear you pick and choose to what you believe. I wonder, though, why civil union for gays? What do you think it would take from marriage as it stands now? Is it a monetary issue or is it a moral issue with you?

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Des Plaines, IL

#75870 Nov 9, 2012
j_m_w wrote:
Chair massage at the airport!
sweet!

Since: Mar 09

Boynton Beach, FL

#75871 Nov 10, 2012
Aisle Sitter wrote:
<quoted text>
sweet!
It was the best $25 I spent all week. Certainly better than the $256 I'm about to spend on the speeding ticket.:(

Which is a good segue to explain what I meant yesterday about the plans with A falling through and how it's costing me money indirectly. She originally brought it up the weekend before last about her boyfriend coming up here this weekend to meet her friends (not just me) and we'd all go out to dinner. So a few days later, Jasper offered to come down here and stay with the dogs while I was out of town. I told him no thanks for a few reasons: if he's going to come down for three nights, I'd rather be home the whole time instead of just the last one (I got home at midnight last night); I had plans with A on Saturday night to finally meet her boyfriend; and ironically, I didn't want to rearrange my schedule around Jasper and be "that girl" - after all, he did move away. By not changing my plans to accommodate him, I was trying to move on.

So he ended up coming down last Sunday & Monday nights instead. On Monday morning, I emailed A to firm up our plans and at that point she wasn't sure and told me not to plan around her. I told her I already had and I didn't think it was fair to ask Jasper to come back down again in a few days (he couldn't have just stayed here the whole time, he had to teach up there on Thursday night).

So by not taking Jasper up on the offer to watch the dogs, I spent $175 on the kennel and $256 on a speeding ticket I wouldn't have gotten had I not been dropping the dogs off at the kennel.

Jasper called right before I landed and turned my phone on last night and I tried to call him back twice and didn't reach him. My brain is in overdrive and if anything happened to him, I'll regret this whole fucked up weekend for the rest of my life.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#75872 Nov 10, 2012
"But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of god; holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth."

Amy

http://www.topix.com/forum/chicago/T69ON4GG72...

Abby

http://www.topix.com/forum/chicago/TPPC5R0KTN...

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#75873 Nov 10, 2012
j_m_w wrote:
Jasper called right before I landed and turned my phone on last night and I tried to call him back twice and didn't reach him. My brain is in overdrive and if anything happened to him, I'll regret this whole fucked up weekend for the rest of my life.
Relax, honey, I'm sure he's fine.

$256 for a speeding ticket!!?

Anyway, I'm a little stoked! Going to a welcome home party today for my friend who's been living abroad. Excited to see her again! Even though she's a hard-core liberal :(

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#75874 Nov 10, 2012
edogxxx wrote:
"But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of god; holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth."
Amy
http://www.topix.com/forum/chicago/T69ON4GG72...
Abby
http://www.topix.com/forum/chicago/TPPC5R0KTN...
Thanks for posting Dog, and by the way as long as you aren't going to need it (after the last days and all),can I have your car next month?

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#75875 Nov 10, 2012

Since: Mar 09

Hollywood, FL

#75876 Nov 10, 2012
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
Relax, honey, I'm sure he's fine.
$256 for a speeding ticket!!?
Anyway, I'm a little stoked! Going to a welcome home party today for my friend who's been living abroad. Excited to see her again! Even though she's a hard-core liberal :(
15mph over.:(

Jasper is fine. He didn't hear the phone last night.

Enjoy the party, edog!
dahgts

Chicago, IL

#75877 Nov 10, 2012
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
Relax, honey, I'm sure he's fine.
$256 for a speeding ticket!!?
Anyway, I'm a little stoked! Going to a welcome home party today for my friend who's been living abroad. Excited to see her again! Even though she's a hard-core liberal :(
That's because she was abroad and saw how good socialism is.

Toj

“Equality”

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#75878 Nov 10, 2012
Mister Tonka wrote:
http://www.theatlantic.com/hea lth/archive/2012/09/not-wantin g-kids-is-entirely-normal/2623 67/#.UFu1AYdRXbk.tumblr
Wow on some of these ages
That was an incredible article. I never felt like I lost myself when I had my child (who is an adult now), I felt more like I was experiencing a different side of life. I can understand someone who doesn't want a child would feel trapped if they had a child.

Very sad.

Since: Mar 09

Boynton Beach, FL

#75879 Nov 10, 2012
I decided to get the place that I wasn't THAT excited about last week. I took another look at it today and had a friend with me for a second opinion and I like it much better now. Whew... decision made.

“bELieve”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#75880 Nov 10, 2012
j_m_w wrote:
I decided to get the place that I wasn't THAT excited about last week. I took another look at it today and had a friend with me for a second opinion and I like it much better now. Whew... decision made.
Yay! Glad you are comfortable with your decision.

Is today only Saturday? It feels like Sunday. We are going to a wedding tomorrow that starts at 6 pm. Federal employees who figure that everyone has Veterans' Day off.

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Des Plaines, IL

#75881 Nov 10, 2012
Pelly, those cranberry muffins you made ladt year, they're basically like blueberry muffins but with cranberries instead? I just found a bag of cranberries in the spare freezer and thought maybe i'll make them this weekend....

Since: Mar 09

Boynton Beach, FL

#75882 Nov 10, 2012
Jess in NJ wrote:
<quoted text>
Yay! Glad you are comfortable with your decision.
Is today only Saturday? It feels like Sunday. We are going to a wedding tomorrow that starts at 6 pm. Federal employees who figure that everyone has Veterans' Day off.
Thanks! I feel a thousand times better.

If it wasn't for college football, I'd have no idea what day it is. Election day feels like it was weeks ago. Halloween feels like it was last summer.
;)

Shout out to my friend L who was so helpful to me in the apartment hunt and in making the final decision!

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#75883 Nov 10, 2012
Aisle Sitter wrote:
Pelly, those cranberry muffins you made ladt year, they're basically like blueberry muffins but with cranberries instead? I just found a bag of cranberries in the spare freezer and thought maybe i'll make them this weekend....
I start with teh Pillsbury Cranberry quick bread mix. I add extra cranberries. Because I make the mini muffins,run them through the food processor a bit first. I substitute OJ for part of the liquid. I grate fresh orange rind into the batter- that gives an intense orange flavor without adding sweetness. Nuts are optional, but if I use them, I toast them briefly in a dry frying pan before putting them in the batter. I add a touch of cinnamon. If we have any orange liqueur in teh house, I may sub some of that for the liquid but that is not teh usual way I do it.

I can't remember if I shared the spread. The grocery sometimes has a sweet cinnamon butter spread. that is very good. Other wise I mix softened butter with lingonberry jam to serve with them. You could use red currant jam if lingonberry is not available. It is the tartness which is important

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Des Plaines, IL

#75884 Nov 10, 2012
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>I start with teh Pillsbury Cranberry quick bread mix. I add extra cranberries. Because I make the mini muffins,run them through the food processor a bit first. I substitute OJ for part of the liquid. I grate fresh orange rind into the batter- that gives an intense orange flavor without adding sweetness. Nuts are optional, but if I use them, I toast them briefly in a dry frying pan before putting them in the batter. I add a touch of cinnamon. If we have any orange liqueur in teh house, I may sub some of that for the liquid but that is not teh usual way I do it.
I can't remember if I shared the spread. The grocery sometimes has a sweet cinnamon butter spread. that is very good. Other wise I mix softened butter with lingonberry jam to serve with them. You could use red currant jam if lingonberry is not available. It is the tartness which is important
sounds good... i'll look for pillbury recipe then... i usually take stuff like this to work, so i don't know how adding a spread may work, could be too messy to have "just 'cause"...

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