I was asking everyone :)Jess:
With my ex, he loves cooking so he normally made dinner but I cleaned up. With Jasper, we took turns making the phone calls for takeout.
No kids in either scenario though so this probably doesn't help much.
When my husband and I first got married, he assumed that I would cook every night because I was the wife. I hate cooking.
Like I said, around here lots of relationships still fall into very traditional gender roles in the house (at least when we get to talking). I have learned not to assume that the rest of the country is like central Jersey, though :)