Not disagreeing with anyone, but its just interesting that since I have really not been around any violent people in my life, I don't automatically jump to the conclusion that he is violent. My initial reaction to all that's been said about him is that he is just an asshole. But you all are probably head on with your assessment that the situation could be scary.<quoted text>
She's GOT to get away from him. Pretty soon she'll just disappear. Can you talk some sense into her? Have an "intervention" with family or something. This is VERY scary.
In my entire life, I can think of only one person I knew that had a violent spouse/gf/bf. It was an aunt, and since I was never really exposed to it, its just not something that I easily consider.