I suppose the difficulty involved in the 'resolution' of 'not-so-real-rape' thus obviates the necessity to ignore it, and only prosecute if the victim is covered in contusions, and semen is present for DNA testing.<quoted text>
"Rape" is forcible sexual intercourse.
The rest of the actions now classified as "rape" are forms of sexual assault.
"Date rape" is the worst, a he-said, she-said dispute that is very difficult to resolve.
Every incident has at least two perspectives.
PLEASE don't pretend this isn't what you advocate, or that you've ever had a sexual encounter you didn't specifically encourage. I'm betting you wouldn't even know rape if you were the perpetrator, and that's the biggest part of the problem.