Causing undo and unnecessary duress on grieving parents and families is harmful.<quoted text>
Who decides what is "harmful speech"?
Get a grip on yourself, woman. Go to church and pray if that makes you feel better.
Yell fire in a crowded theater and see what happens. That, too, creates undo and unnecessary duress. It, too, is harmful.
It is also illegal.
Common sense dictates "harmful speech". Complacency allows it.