Aren't you sweet. But no, my beliefs in what marriage is had no bearing on my divorce except that I probably stayed in it too long to be sure I did everything to make it work. Some things can't be fixed.<quoted text>
Did you think this before or after you got divorced?
Because I think THIS attitude is exactly the reason we have an over 50% divorce rate.
What part of partnership do you feel is bad? There are two people in a marriage that each brings their thoughts and feelings, differences and their similarities. In order to have a successful partnership you need to take the other's thoughts, feelings, etc. in serious consideration.
Now your turn. Tell me how that one person thing works in big decisions.