sex with older man
who

United States

#1 Aug 1, 2013
I'm 25 and want to have sex with single coworker that is 20 years older than me. He is looking for relationship from anyone available and I'm not. I just want the sex. He has no idea that I feel this way about him. He hasn't got laid in a long time. How should I bring this up to him that I want to sleep with him?
who

United States

#2 Aug 1, 2013
Also the main reason I am attracted to him is his age because i have never been with an older man before. I also like the fact that he is my coworker and it will be fun to sneak around others. Im not desperate or unattractive or anything like that. I could go use someone my own age for sex but am just so intrigued about being with someone 20 years older than me and trying something new. This will have to be kept totally secret though because no one can find out we will be sleeping together. If its good i would like to continue having sex with him without the strings attached. So please if anyone has any advice of how I should tell him I'm interested in this way please let me know. Thanks.
who

United States

#3 Aug 1, 2013
Should I just say hey if u ever need a good lay call me? But then if he says no then I will feel somewhat rejected then I'm afraid everytime we work together he will know that I really want to do him. All he ever talks about to me is how lonely he is. He wants a girlfriend though, but sex would be better than nothing right.? Damn I want him bad please help
beenthere

United States

#4 Aug 2, 2013
i dont blame you for trying something new.but you will probably be disappointed.most guys as they get older,lose stamina.and lets face it,if your friends saw you with him,they would probably think hes your dad.but putting all that aside,sex in the work place is never a good idea. PEOPLE WILL FIND OUT. and if hes your boss,you both could lose your job. also if the sex is terrible..you will have to look at him daily.but if i was you, i would just sex him up and dont mention the friends with benifits just yet. but it sounds like hes going to be the type that falls in love easily. and those types are always trouble. but maybe he will be a good lay and actually be some good sex for you. i know most 20 year old guy couldnt find a clit with a map.keep us informed on how its working out.

Since: Jan 10

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#5 Aug 2, 2013
What beenthere said. And what if this guy ends up falling for you? Can you say "awkward"? Don't crap where you eat. Translation: Find someone else to boink.
attic doll

Sacramento, KY

#6 Aug 2, 2013
little is ever said about the importance of celibacy. don't just give yourself up so easily. so many expect us to just let them have their way with us...no wonder there is no respect. be classy, be a lady and wait til your wedding night. demanding respect doesn't include spreading your legs for every tom, dick and harry.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#7 Aug 2, 2013
Oh grow up and join the real world, attic doll. Just because you're a prude who doesnt' like sex doesn't mean everyone else can't have fun.

Idiot.
go to the woods

United States

#8 Aug 2, 2013
in steger ido all the old men you want
attic doll

Morganfield, KY

#9 Aug 3, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Oh grow up and join the real world, attic doll. Just because you're a prude who doesnt' like sex doesn't mean everyone else can't have fun.
Idiot.
me, a prude? no. but why a woman would just hand over to a man, something so valuable, for free? i mean come on ladies, sex isn't to be taken so lightly. it isn't a walk in the park or a game of hopscotch...

we live in a world of anything and everything goes. absolutely no morals. feel free to live in what you call the real world. i hope you don't catch anything.

slut.
diner

United States

#11 Aug 4, 2013
so did you get any yet? was it any good?

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#12 Aug 5, 2013
attic doll wrote:
<quoted text>
me, a prude? no. but why a woman would just hand over to a man, something so valuable, for free? i mean come on ladies, sex isn't to be taken so lightly. it isn't a walk in the park or a game of hopscotch...
we live in a world of anything and everything goes. absolutely no morals. feel free to live in what you call the real world. i hope you don't catch anything.
slut.
Ha! Your backwards, inbred attitude about sex won't get a rise out of me! Slut shaming has zero effect on someone who is confident and who knows what's going on.

You are an idiot. I"m so sorry if you have already bred and created stupid children to match your low-level intellect. Best of luck to you in this world, idiot!
attic doll

Morganfield, KY

#13 Aug 5, 2013
ah...i'm an idiot for telling the young lady not to lay down withe her coworker? i suppose in your world aids doesn't exist, fatherless children doesn't exist and the men worth having don't lose respect for women that allow anyone to have their way.

you are a sad person.
spreadslikebutte r

United States

#14 Aug 5, 2013
i dont think she was looking for respect. i think she is tired of screwing boys that dont know nothing and she is wanting a fling with an older man cause she thinks he might be better in bed. shes just searching for the big "o".
attic doll

Morganfield, KY

#15 Aug 6, 2013
i suppose. i was just trying to give the young woman the right advice. sadly, if she does go through with it, he will tell their coworkers and before you you know it, she'll be the one talked about in the break room.
who

United States

#16 Aug 20, 2013
Update! Still no sex, but working with him is horrible and I am horny the whole shift. I can just think about him and masterbate and orgasm within a minute. Still working on how to bring it up but I want to bang him now more than ever just waiting in the right time. Sometimes I feel like im going to jump him in the break room when no ones around. I want him BAD. Still just must find the right time and way.
Dr Please

Garden City, MI

#17 Aug 21, 2013
who wrote:
Update! Still no sex, but working with him is horrible and I am horny the whole shift. I can just think about him and masterbate and orgasm within a minute. Still working on how to bring it up but I want to bang him now more than ever just waiting in the right time. Sometimes I feel like im going to jump him in the break room when no ones around. I want him BAD. Still just must find the right time and way.
Ok heres what I think you should do. You must start being friendly to him, I mean very friendly. When you around him and the two of you are talking you should be very touchy feely with him. If you have never sone this be for he will notice and start to think, "Wow I think she might have a thing for me". Next is the all imoortant eye contact. When you are talking with him and touching his arms or however you are being touch feely with him ALWAYS look him in his eyes. I mean look DEEP into his eyes. Again if this is new he will start to think "man she definitely has a thing for me". Last but certainly not least is the hand squeeze. You are talking to him, you are looking DEEP into his eyes, you touch him arm, but this time while touching him arm you continue to move your hand down until it touches his hand and when it does you lock hands with him while looking DEEP into his eye with the most sexy look and you squeeze his hand. You may also bite your bottom lip as you squeeze to give more effect. He will respond. Whether he moves away in rejection or looks right back at you with his own sexy look is to be determined. If he resoonds in the way you want him to you can whisper " I want you". Of course this must all happen while the two of you are alone but it can be done quickly in a break room. But remember when the opportunity does arrive you must take the opportunity and do not get to caught up in your emotion that you drag it out to long and you get caught in the break room holding hands. This is what I would do and this is what would work on me (I am a 31 year old man). I wish you the best of luck Who.
who

Blytheville, AR

#18 Aug 31, 2013
I have fallen in LOVE with him!!!!
tiffany

Dublin, PA

#20 Mar 14, 2017
I love them. They are good at sex.
actorvet

Los Angeles, CA

#21 Mar 15, 2017
In sap older man will give you the best you ever had.

Willie Wanker

Bedford, OH

#22 Mar 16, 2017
who wrote:
I'm 25 and want to have sex with single coworker that is 20 years older than me. He is looking for relationship from anyone available and I'm not. I just want the sex. He has no idea that I feel this way about him. He hasn't got laid in a long time. How should I bring this up to him that I want to sleep with him?
Just tell him that you're a slut-assed pig and he'll be all over you like flies on shit!:-)

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