I'm not trying to get into the rancorous fight you all are having but I still feel you have not explained away the seeming contradiction. The differentiation is certainly not apparent, so I will ask once again.<quoted text>
That's your problem, sir. You need every single little bit of information spelled out directly.
I don't have time for that so you're not going to get that from me. If you cannot infer some common things skip over.
I have more things going than Topix. Perhaps you can juggle better than me, so be it.
I believe you're trying to get a rise out of me and it's not going to work. It is not important to me what you believe or think.
LW2: You maintain that the poor table manners DO affect you because they gross you out(although the LW did not cite anything gross that his gf does). Fair enough. You are grossed out. But that is just a psychological affect. Nothing tangible.
LW3: Bothered by people calling back with no message or some such thing. Isn't that also just a psychological thing?
I can understand that YOU are bothered by one scenario and not the other, but to me, neither has any tangible material affect on the person bothered by it.