Amy 12-23 I think

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#1 Dec 23, 2012
(I could swear I saw this column about a week ago. I think different outlets may be posting different columns on the same day)

Dear Amy: We were asked to be godparents to a friend's son when he was born. We accepted and have sent money and cards to him all his life. Now he is 30 and an attorney, and we are now on a fixed income. Should we continue to send him gifts?

He never sends us a card for our birthdays, Christmas or our anniversary. What is expected of us? If we don't continue, his mother will have hard feelings toward us. Can you give us some advice?

-- Confused

Dear Confused: You have been very kind to this man throughout his life, and now you can rest easy knowing that you have done your very best to honor this special relationship with him. Being named godparents does not obligate you to a lifetime of gift giving.

You have my permission to stop. You don't need to declare it or state reasons. Just ... stop. If his mother harbors hard feelings toward you because of this, then she is not really a friend.

Dear Amy: I recently went on a vacation with my girlfriend. We agreed to split expenses equally. She chose the length of the trip and destination.

The trip was a couple days longer than I wanted, but the longer stay saved her many frequent-flier miles. I was fine with that. She used the miles for our flights.

She assigned a value to the frequent-flier miles, which just about equaled the cost of the hotel, which I paid for.

A few days before the trip, she asked if I would mind if she shortened her stay by one day due to a last-minute family commitment. I said of course, no problem. She switched her flight, which cost her some money.

The trip did not go so well, and we "broke up" during the vacation. Upon my return, she asked me to reimburse her the cost of the last night of the hotel. She claimed it was unfair of her to have to pay for a night when she wasn't staying there.

A few items I bought on the trip ended up in her luggage, and she won't return them to me until I "pay her back." I don't feel I need to reimburse her for the last night of the hotel. She chose to leave early, and I couldn't switch my flight or cancel the last night of the room without it costing me more money.

Who is right?

-- Frustrated former

Dear Former: You are. Your former girlfriend should return your possessions.

Since: Dec 09

Smalltown, Colorado

#2 Dec 23, 2012
Pellen - I know I read this last week, too. What the heck?

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#3 Dec 23, 2012
Shari23 wrote:
Pellen - I know I read this last week, too. What the heck?
Oh No. It's the Mayan Calendar reset. We are stuck in a loop with repeating Amby columns in perpetuity. Oh Noooooo!!!!

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#4 Dec 23, 2012
PE- Yeah it's a repeat, but I didn't think it was originally Amy. Maybe Miss Manners? <shrug>
Kuuipo

Salinas, CA

#5 Dec 23, 2012
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>
Oh No. It's the Mayan Calendar reset. We are stuck in a loop with repeating Amby columns in perpetuity. Oh Noooooo!!!!
This morning, my cell phone started time stamping my text messages from yesterday. Maybe the end of the world really happened and we are stuck in a time warp somewhere.
Kuuipo

Salinas, CA

#6 Dec 23, 2012
Not only that, but I can seem to type. I meant to say that my cell phone started time stamping my text messages with yesterday's date.

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