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Since: Mar 09

West Palm Beach, FL

#21 Apr 25, 2014
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>Wow, has it been a year? Seeing as how I gave Jasper his fake name, I find it only fitting I do the same for....DANTE!
Haha! Okay. I'll try to remember that. Although I find that I have much less complaining to do with Dante than I did with Jasper, so the moniker issue will probably come up a lot less frequently.
;)

Since: Mar 09

West Palm Beach, FL

#22 Apr 25, 2014
Oh, and Tonka: I'm surprised you didn't go with Dixon.
;)

Since: Aug 08

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#23 Apr 25, 2014
edogxxx wrote:
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Once again, you think everyone is focused on you.
Not everyone, edog ... just you. 90% of your posts the past two days have been to me and about a subject you claim not to care about.
Kuuipo

Seaside, CA

#24 Apr 25, 2014
j_m_w wrote:
<quoted text>
That would devastate her.
She's not married and doesn't have kids, but wants both in the most painfully desperate way. Guys (Jasper, D, male friends) all agree that she's very attractive and has a fun personality, but has self-esteem issues. The guy she's been dating for almost a year is "emotionally unavailable" and while he's a catch on paper, she has spent so much time and energy trying to be there for him (his mom was terminally ill and passed away in February) without it being reciprocated... she's exhausted.
I'll shut her down if she really starts asking me on a regular basis, but in the meantime, I know she'd be genuinely happy for me, so... <shrug>. First world problems, right?
Ugh, your poor friend. This behavior is called "over-functioning" and it will never get her the result that she desires. Guys just do not like it when their women do all of the work in a relationship. She needs to be more Scarlett O'Hara. Fiddle-dee-dee!

Since: Mar 09

West Palm Beach, FL

#25 Apr 25, 2014
Kuuipo wrote:
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Ugh, your poor friend. This behavior is called "over-functioning" and it will never get her the result that she desires. Guys just do not like it when their women do all of the work in a relationship. She needs to be more Scarlett O'Hara. Fiddle-dee-dee!
She needs to be less "Mission: Husband & Kids" also. The saying goes you find love when you stop trying.
Kuuipo

Seaside, CA

#26 Apr 25, 2014
LW1: She had a meltdown over 20-year-old cufflinks given to you by one of your ex-wives? Really? I'm with Toj - she is wacko, and stop telling her where you got stuff. And I don't know why you need to ask Amy's permission to tell her that she's stepping way over the line and she needs to chill out.

LW2: Team edog. The answer depends on whether you are closer to 25 or closer to 35. Closer to 25, don't be in a big hurry to get married. Have fun for now. Enjoy your carefree youth. Closer to 35, maybe you two do not want the same things in life. Maybe you need to move on.

LW3: I'm glad it worked out for your son, but not every environment is quite as safe and comforting. Good luck to original LW.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#27 Apr 25, 2014
Sublime1 wrote:
Not everyone, edog ... just you. 90% of your posts the past two days have been to me and about a subject you claim not to care about.
And 98.7% of YOUR posts have been about some transgression done against you that none of US care about by some poster only YOU care about. I'm trying to make you understand that, but apparently it's gonna take some more work....

You admitted you're willing to destroy a thread over it, a thread everyone else enjoys, but because you were "followed" there, you're willing to destroy it for all of us, even though no one else there gives a ratsass about the wrong done to YOU.

Think about that for a minute, son. The simplest solution to make it all go away is to ignore, but you refuse to. Adamantly.

You've met some of us IRL. As have I. And got to meet some really great people. And that was only made possible through this forum. You really want to destroy it? Really? Do YOU really want to be the reason everyone else throws up their hands and go elsewhere, or just give it up at all? Would that make you proud of yourself? Would that make you feel like a man?

Since: Aug 08

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#28 Apr 25, 2014
Edog, I didn't even read your post.

You complain that I'm disrupting the Chicago thread, but here you are going on and on about it on the advice column threads.

I don't care about what you want me to do or if you don't like how I act. Deal with it and accept it.

Since: Aug 08

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#29 Apr 25, 2014
I actually will not be posting on this forum anymore. Problem solved for everyone.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#30 Apr 25, 2014
j_m_w wrote:
Oh, and Tonka: I'm surprised you didn't go with Dixon.
;)
Hah. I forgot that's where Jasper came from. Trying to come up with a fringe D name. Be happy I didn't go with the first one that popped into my head: Daequan .

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#31 Apr 25, 2014
j_m_w wrote:
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Haha! Okay. I'll try to remember that. Although I find that I have much less complaining to do with Dante than I did with Jasper, so the moniker issue will probably come up a lot less frequently.
;)
Hmmm. Memory must ail me, cause I don't have the image in my head that you only mentioned him while complaining. Just tellin stories.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#32 Apr 25, 2014
ail = fail

Since: Jan 14

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#33 Apr 25, 2014
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
And 98.7% of YOUR posts have been about some transgression done against you that none of US care about by some poster only YOU care about. I'm trying to make you understand that, but apparently it's gonna take some more work....
You admitted you're willing to destroy a thread over it, a thread everyone else enjoys, but because you were "followed" there, you're willing to destroy it for all of us, even though no one else there gives a ratsass about the wrong done to YOU.
Think about that for a minute, son. The simplest solution to make it all go away is to ignore, but you refuse to. Adamantly.
You've met some of us IRL. As have I. And got to meet some really great people. And that was only made possible through this forum. You really want to destroy it? Really? Do YOU really want to be the reason everyone else throws up their hands and go elsewhere, or just give it up at all? Would that make you proud of yourself? Would that make you feel like a man?
I usually disagree with you but this time I do agree. It seems like he's becoming a bit like below.....

nar·cis·sist
[nahr-suh-sist]
noun
1.
a person who is overly self-involved, and often vain and selfish.
2.
Psychoanalysis . a person who suffers from narcissism, deriving erotic gratification from admiration of his or her own physical or mental attributes.

“On Deck”

Since: Aug 08

French Polynesia

#34 Apr 25, 2014
L2. I was talking with a friend if mine today and she told me that if she had to do it all over again she would not get married.
She has four kids, three at high school age and another just a few years younger.
I was surprised because of all my friends she always seemed to have everything together better than anyone else.
Julie

Chicago, IL

#35 Apr 25, 2014
LW1: Your "girl"friend is a neurotic-as-hell, insecure nutjob. LOSE her.

LW2: Your boyfriend does want to move forward and experience life...just not with YOU. Jebus---how dumb *are* you?
I'll bet he's married to someone else within 6 months.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#36 Apr 25, 2014
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>Wow, has it been a year? Seeing as how I gave Jasper his fake name, I find it only fitting I do the same for....DANTE!
That was my thought too, Has it been a year?.

I prefer Danilo

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#37 Apr 25, 2014
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text> That was my thought too, Has it been a year?.
I prefer Danilo
Is anyone else freaked out by the name Damien because of the movie The Omen?

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