I Hate my life and mom

[RACE]

Yes, I do agree that not every post here reads as a person who's being abused, but thats not the point. The point is that there ARE teens who's lives are a living hell, and here is the only place they have to unload. Those are the people who are hurt the most by your words. You invalidate their pain, you trivialize their life by lumping them in with the ones you scorn.

I can say the same thing as you, and tell all the self centered little brats who post here to grow up and count their blessings, but instead I just ignore them. I dont reply to them because they dont need a reply, and to engage them is to diminish the entire thread. Instead of bashing the ones who are indeed just acting out, reply to the posters who are truly "reaching out". You'll feel better.

OrangeLion wrote:

Not every post, but perhaps you are right about a few. But can we trust too much of the users here when they say it when the situations of it don't sound at all the case that their moms hate them?

[Person]

OrangeLion wrote:

It is insulting and rebellious for so many teenagers to go on and insult their mom, a proper narcissistic bullying parent wanting to prove power is usually very good at it, leaving you no way of actually having a computer for you to complain on.

Have you ever considered that it isn't their computer? You are one of life's biggest dumbasses around. Stop trying to justifying our actions, huh?

[I know what you feel]

I know that she is mean but you would not want her to die cause she is your mom you have to deal with it

[Mary]

I just got a bare spanking from my mom for stealing. It hurts to sit down and my butt feels like it's on fire.

[hank hill]

You only get one mother, when shes gone you will miss her. I don't care what kind of mother she is. You WILL be lost, because you will have noone that you can call for any stupid little question you have, or call just to shoot the shit while you're bored, sad, lonely or just whatever. I hope none of you ever call your house to talk to your mom only to find she cannot talk because she has had a stroke and thrown a blood clot and is being put in an ambulance to never speak to you again, then comes the call that shes coded in the er and they got her back, put her on life support and you have to come home to say your goodbyes and bury her, while she leaves behind her 5 kids from 20-38 and a 3 year old grand daughter, and a husband. You are not guaranteed a certain amount of time with people. 55 is too young to be put in a box and be covered with dirt. Ever think that at 20 years of age youd be picking out a coffin and headstone? Me either.

I wouldn't wish this on any of these little punks on here talking shit about their mother because they didn't get their way. Grow up! Treasure what you have, she wont be there forever!(same goes for your fathers!)

[RACE]

You are stating that all mothers are like yours was. That is totally inaccurate. Sorry for your loss, but physical/mental/emotional abuse of children happens every single day, and mothers are some of those inflicting that abuse on their own children.
I think it very arrogant for you to dismiss that pain simply because you have had the good fortune to never have experienced it.

Go count your blessing, and quit preaching.

hank hill wrote:

You only get one mother, when shes gone you will miss her. I don't care what kind of mother she is. You WILL be lost, because you will have noone that you can call for any stupid little question you have, or call just to shoot the shit while you're bored, sad, lonely or just whatever. I hope none of you ever call your house to talk to your mom only to find she cannot talk because she has had a stroke and thrown a blood clot and is being put in an ambulance to never speak to you again, then comes the call that shes coded in the er and they got her back, put her on life support and you have to come home to say your goodbyes and bury her, while she leaves behind her 5 kids from 20-38 and a 3 year old grand daughter, and a husband. You are not guaranteed a certain amount of time with people. 55 is too young to be put in a box and be covered with dirt. Ever think that at 20 years of age youd be picking out a coffin and headstone? Me either.
I wouldn't wish this on any of these little punks on here talking shit about their mother because they didn't get their way. Grow up! Treasure what you have, she wont be there forever!(same goes for your fathers!)

[hank hill]

Actually no I'm not just talking about my mother. I have a friend who had a terrible mother, nwglect, beatings, cut her with razor blades, etc...and her mother is gone too, and she misses her terribly. Her mother was raped when she was young and didn't want a girl so when she had one this was her response to her. Despite all the terrible things her mother did to her she still misses her every day of her life. My mother didn't get along great with her own mother, when she no longer had a mother she missed her. Theres many other cases I know of I could point out but I don't feel its necessary.

No matter if you try to mend the relationship or not while you have the chance, once they're gone you no longer have that opportunity. I know there are terrible mothers and people who never should have been blessed with the gift of kids but even these kids who have these awful experiences still do miss their mothers. It's understandable to me, everybody longs for and deserves one person who loves them no matter what, that person is supoosed to be their mother. Its really a shame shitty people are so fertile.

[RACE]

If you say your friend who was physically abused by her mother misses her now that she is dead, I will accept your word on it. However I would suggest that you encourage your friend to get some counseling because I believe she misses the chance to have the relationship she wanted with her mother, and not the person who was her mother.

[hank hill]

RACE wrote:

If you say your friend who was physically abused by her mother misses her now that she is dead, I will accept your word on it. However I would suggest that you encourage your friend to get some counseling because I believe she misses the chance to have the relationship she wanted with her mother, and not the person who was her mother.

I'll have to agree with you on that. Nonetheless she still misses her. She had a few good days with her right before it happened which I guess is what makes her miss her. And by a few I literally mean just short of 3 full days. Its sad but it has helped her be a better mother to her own kids so at least some good has come from it.

[Jodie12]

My mother is a sociopath.

If you have a parent who is a sociopath or a narcissist you cannot have relationship with them and expect to live a long, healthy life and be successful -- it will never, ever happen.

Sociopaths and narcissists are very destructive -- even if they are your parent. You can google these two above disorders and if they have most of the 7 traits -- RUN!!!

If not, then they're just being a mom and you are confusing abuse with discipline and discipline with abuse ... two very different things with very different intentions.

I wished my mom dead when I was 5. I knew if she didn't die I was in for a miserable childhood and that's exactly what happened. Some women should not have children. Some moms are not good moms. My mother did horrible, unthinkable things to me and my brother and sister. I have Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome because of her ... and my brother and sister both died very young -- sister was 45 and brother was 34. Now, I have no one. Had we all abandoned her when we were 18, we would be happy and we'd all be together.

She stole my childhood and my younger brother and younger sister died because she literally drove them insane. They took drugs to escape the pain - the drugs killed them. But, I blame her.

She tore apart an entire family. My father died young, age 59 because she aggravated him to death. Now I have no family. I no longer speak to her. She is 75 and I am 50. It was the best decision I ever made.

[Jew]

My mom is very annoying
, but luckily I have bros to help me through it. My dad is not much of a help though.

[Samantha]

I hate my mom because her and my dad have been together since I was 7 and she slept with other guys In front of me and was never home after work she would go to the bar and wouldn't come back till 6 in the morning now she's married with some guy and she buys and does everything for his kids .she realy makes me mad and I love her and want to spend time with her.what should I do?

[Samantha]

P.s I'm 11 now

[Anonymous]

I hate my mom so much she says that she prays that I change when I don't do anything.

[Anonymous]

If I ever get famous with rap I'm gonna release a song about how much I hate her.It is going to be like 20 minutes long.I already wrote it down on my notebook.

[Blaze Nick]

I hate my mom so much for kicking my dad out.he actually cared for me and bought me most the stuff.now i cant get paid anymore and wont be able to leave the house for fun occansions.she dont even care if its my birthday i just celebrate it myself.now i cant buy things myself not even a new pair of shoes.such a jerk for yelling at my dad and for not letting me play a sport anymore now im just lifeless just like she is.

[de Chicago]

sounds like it's time to contact your therapist / mental health provider update your medications to help you deal with reality in a more responsible adult fashion.

then turn off the computer, get out meet some new people go to a library, GET A LIFE

[Jodie12]

If your mom is a drug-addict or alcoholic OR meets the traits of NPD 'Narcissistic Personality Disorder'- Narcissism or Sociopath they are the ... Worst. Mothers. Ever.

Look up ACON - Adult-Children (meaning those over age 18) of Narcissists.

These toxic people may seem normal to some people, and may hold down a good job (or not), but they despise their children, they play favorites, play head games, and they hate others whom they view as competition or who confront them about their ugly behaviors. They also have intense jealousy issues.

They abuse their children and emotionally torment them because the 'emotion center' of their brains never fully developed. So, they have no empathy or ability to feel compassion for others, unless they are pretending and putting on an act to impress someone. It is not real.

When they are alone with their child they emotionally torment them. But, they rarely do this in front of others so that their child looks like a liar. Usually there are no witnesses.

Narcissists (and Sociopaths) are all about image - very, very superficial. These selfish, awful people destroy their children and get away with it ... and they (secretly and very slowly) over the years turn their grandchildren against the parents behind their backs.

Narcissism and Sociopathy are very serious, but very downplayed emotional disorders. Children raised by these horrid, toxic, self-absorbed, mean, spiteful, selfish people have the absolute worst childhoods ever.

These people should NEVER EVER have children (or be around them) but they do anyway.

Don't pay attention to the Trollers here. Child abuse dished out by these nasty people is real ... and it hurts bad.

If your parent(s) really do meet all (or most) of the criteria for either of these two insidious emotional disorders (Narcissism or Sociopathy) get away as soon as you're old enough to get out ... and never look back. In the meantime, talk to an adult whom you can trust, NOT someone who will betray your trust and tell your parent behind your back.

Don't tell people who cannot OR who will not help you.

If you reunite with them later on, the anger and pain will start all over again ... and the anger and pain will be worse the second time around.

[Jodie12]

Anonymous wrote:

If I ever get famous with rap I'm gonna release a song about how much I hate her.It is going to be like 20 minutes long.I already wrote it down on my notebook.

I know the hurt and pain abusive moms can cause.

But, remember ... "Honor Thy Mother and Father.

This does not mean you have to put up with abuse. You also do not want to confuse discipline with abuse AND remember everyone is just trying to do the best that they can. It's the parents job to discipline their children.

If it's really, really that bad, then leave when you are of age and when you are also ready to leave. This way you can honor them by remembering the good and appreciating what they did do for you.

Trashing them is breaking a Commandment.

The way to get even with highly abuse parents/people is to remain loving and kind and to be very successful in whatever you chose to do, all while being distant, emotionally and physically, separating and distancing yourself from them, so that you can be successful while remembering the good.

Not by hanging around them. Not by trashing them.

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