I Hate my life and mom

[the sadness]

I am just 15 but really I suffered for 8 years at both school and home with hell and doom!!! I really wanted to die sometimes. Now I am year 11 and i am trying my best to study and my dream is to be applied into the top university in the world. THerefore, i always try my best to organize everything and study hard. However, my mom always complain with me abt my studying behaviour!! She even swears at me, call me a bitch, dog, asshole,... I cannot describe with u guys how horrible I have suffered through years!!! My dad also supports my mom when she yelling at me, literally, both of them just throw shits to my face. I try to explain everything but they dont mind!! More and more and more and more. So I just want to call both of them are " Son of Bitch ", I love them but they dont love me! Especially my F**king father he just follows my mom to throw shits to my face!!! They destroy my childhood, step on it and leave wrinkles on it! And this life, with me, IT IS A PIECE OF SHIT!!!!

[OrangeLion]

Your wouldn't have landed in collefe if it weren't for your mom. Your very aragont. Perhaps thats what you are, a piece of shit!

[RACE]

Or, you could say she landed in college IN SPITE OF her mom.

Its obvious you did not go to college, is that your fault or your mom's?

OrangeLion wrote:

Your wouldn't have landed in collefe if it weren't for your mom. Your very aragont. Perhaps thats what you are, a piece of shit!

[OrangeLion]

Her mom could have easily stopped her, it is ridiculous to assume that so many moms hate their children.

[OrangeLion]

Every teenager tells a story that their moms hate them, no one over 30 has ever mentioned that their moms are like that. Plenty of teenagers misunderstand their parents motives, they don't understand their parents reasons with their limited knowledge of life and of how children think why the parents act that way. It is naive to think otherwise.

[RACE]

6 BILLION People on this planet, each one of them has a mother. a few thousand post here, and your calling that an outrageous percentage? I think you are ridiculous.

OrangeLion wrote:

Her mom could have easily stopped her, it is ridiculous to assume that so many moms hate their children.

[RACE]

How many people have you polled? Is it a topic of conversation among your friends?
Would it not be more logical to say that adults have probably buried these memories. Not forgotten, just left them in the past and moved on. You want to claim that all mothers love their kids, but we read of children murdered by their parents everyday, so if murder is indeed a fact, then abuse must also.

Not all scars are visible, not all hurts spoken of, and not all pain disappears.

OrangeLion wrote:

Every teenager tells a story that their moms hate them, no one over 30 has ever mentioned that their moms are like that. Plenty of teenagers misunderstand their parents motives, they don't understand their parents reasons with their limited knowledge of life and of how children think why the parents act that way. It is naive to think otherwise.

[OrangeLion]

You should be able to tell the difference between someone giving their experience and leaving it in the past, and someone not leaving it where it belongs and complaining.

[OrangeLion]

It is insulting and rebellious for so many teenagers to go on and insult their mom, a proper narcissistic bullying parent wanting to prove power is usually very good at it, leaving you no way of actually having a computer for you to complain on.

[RACE]

Duh! Thats because for an adult it IS in the past, and for a teen it is still the present. Think man!

OrangeLion wrote:

You should be able to tell the difference between someone giving their experience and leaving it in the past, and someone not leaving it where it belongs and complaining.

[RACE]

So you say that mean parents exist, but are clever enough to prevent their child from posting online about it? And only the spoiled whiny brats have access to the computers at the library and in school in which to post their rants?

Your whacked.
(yeah, improper use of the word, so sue me)

OrangeLion wrote:

It is insulting and rebellious for so many teenagers to go on and insult their mom, a proper narcissistic bullying parent wanting to prove power is usually very good at it, leaving you no way of actually having a computer for you to complain on.

[animaniactoo]

Interesting thread.

My parents were trying to do the right thing, but even they will acknowledge that they did a good chunk of it badly.

When I was a teen, I hated them at points. It was entirely valid. That didn't mean they were horrible people, but they did screw up. Looking back over some of my few writings from that period, I am now surprised by the intensity of my emotions then.

However, I also know that some of the things I hated them for was what I thought was their misunderstanding. They didn't misunderstand. They understood completely and ALSO understood they couldn't let me get away with the way I was thinking if I was going to turn into a semi-mature, responsible adult that it was safe to let loose on the general public.

That's the point at which I decided I was going to have to let my kids hate me sometimes in order to be a good parent.

And I don't expect to be perfect. I hope to achieve what my parents did. To try hard enough and keep trying, to be forgiven for my mistakes.

Yeah, some people have it worse off, but shutting down and shaming people who are dealing with crap is arrogant and rude in my book. The younger generation has a right to their feelings and for them to be exactly what they are at this moment in time. They might be wrong about em, but the still have a right to have em and go through the same process of growing up that most of the shamers and shutdowners have. On, and don't tell me you never said you hate your life and your mom (or dad). I don't know a single person who hasn't been through that stage, even if it was only for a couple of hours.

[OrangeLion]

RACE wrote:

Duh! Thats because for an adult it IS in the past, and for a teen it is still the present. Think man!
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Do you share your experiences in life when you have a conversion to just have a comment on something? Of course they would. Their is an obvious difference between complaining, and just explaining what happened if it catches your eyes, and yes, why the hell do these kids have laptops to comment on? Hate?

[RACE]

commenting that I fell out of a tree when I was a kid is one thing, saying my mother verbally degraded me every day, and had no clue how to be a mother because she was too drunk to even cook a dinner is something else. Saying my mother was quick to smack me when I got mouthy, could come up in conversation, but saying that my moms boyfriend would smack me for no reason probably would not.

You just dont realize how bad some kids have it. You weigh their words against your experience, and that is wrong.

Walk a mile in their shoes, then climb on your soapbox.

OrangeLion wrote:

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Do you share your experiences in life when you have a conversion to just have a comment on something? Of course they would. Their is an obvious difference between complaining, and just explaining what happened if it catches your eyes, and yes, why the hell do these kids have laptops to comment on? Hate?

[OrangeLion]

I was talking about on here, only a kid on here has made those comments.

[OrangeLion]

An adult has no mentioned that is has happened to them when if this thread catches their eyes, they never shared their views or discussed anything.

[OrangeLion]

animaniactoo wrote:

Interesting thread.
My parents were trying to do the right thing, but even they will acknowledge that they did a good chunk of it badly.
When I was a teen, I hated them at points. It was entirely valid. That didn't mean they were horrible people, but they did screw up. Looking back over some of my few writings from that period, I am now surprised by the intensity of my emotions then.
However, I also know that some of the things I hated them for was what I thought was their misunderstanding. They didn't misunderstand. They understood completely and ALSO understood they couldn't let me get away with the way I was thinking if I was going to turn into a semi-mature, responsible adult that it was safe to let loose on the general public.
That's the point at which I decided I was going to have to let my kids hate me sometimes in order to be a good parent.
And I don't expect to be perfect. I hope to achieve what my parents did. To try hard enough and keep trying, to be forgiven for my mistakes.
Yeah, some people have it worse off, but shutting down and shaming people who are dealing with crap is arrogant and rude in my book. The younger generation has a right to their feelings and for them to be exactly what they are at this moment in time. They might be wrong about em, but the still have a right to have em and go through the same process of growing up that most of the shamers and shutdowners have. On, and don't tell me you never said you hate your life and your mom (or dad). I don't know a single person who hasn't been through that stage, even if it was only for a couple of hours.

Your comment said everything I needed to say. Every bit of it was true, if you disagree with this post, its too obvious that your very young.

[RACE]

You have read every post? I am almost certain I have read posts from adults on here.

OrangeLion wrote:

An adult has no mentioned that is has happened to them when if this thread catches their eyes, they never shared their views or discussed anything.

[OrangeLion]

Not every post, but perhaps you are right about a few. But can we trust too much of the users here when they say it when the situations of it don't sound at all the case that their moms hate them?

[OrangeLion]

And I don't know if you have read them all either, as I have agreed with some of them who sound convincing.