2. Barry is being lazy and using you as a surrogate for a real relationship with a female.
"even his GIRLFRIEND says hes becoming very overbearing"<quoted text>
Certainly. But does this guy have a girlfriend? Has he ever had one? Does he date? If the answer to these questions is generally a 'no', then I think its even more likely that I'm spot on and he's pining for her.
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