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Feb 22, 2013
 

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LW2 does not sound affectionate. He sounds like he pays very close attention to whether an agreement has been literally complied with. Almost a martinet. Can't you just hear him telling her to sit up straight and cover her tatts when she goes outside?
He also abdicated his parent role and is perpetuating the discord that lead to the divorce by labeling his ex as her enabling mother instead of taking any responsibility for the girl's upbringing.
I don't condone the girl's life choices but I wouldn't want to hang with LW either.
You and SUb b oth hit on that, I think: He's not taking any responsibility for how his daughter has turned out.
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#22
Feb 22, 2013
 
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1- Sounds like you want out of this marriage and looking for justification. So you married a fraud. At least she didn't turn out to be a man.
2- Stop sending her money. Try to actually get together and do stuff with her.
3- Craaaazy loooove! Anyway, what's the big deal? I frequently tell people I met my gf in the psych ward. Usually good for a laugh.
Dog is 3 for 3 today.

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#23
Feb 22, 2013
 
Toj wrote:
L3: We met at a local discussion group years ago...
A discussin group? I've never heard of that. What did you discuss?

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Feb 22, 2013
 
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<quoted text> A discussin group? I've never heard of that. What did you discuss?
The issues of the day. It was very intriguing and interesting. I learned a lot from it.

So, how are the wife and kids?

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Feb 22, 2013
 
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The issues of the day. It was very intriguing and interesting. I learned a lot from it.
So, how are the wife and kids?
they're good. So was this a singles group or do you still attend? It sound like fun. I wouldn't checking it out. All ralpgh ever wants to talk about are the Bears

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#26
Feb 22, 2013
 
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text> A discussin group? I've never heard of that. What did you discuss?
The book club at the Waubonsee Junior College Library.

Really funny. We were sitting in Dr Philips waiting room and he had a surgical emergency . We we bored and started talking and...

A girl I used to work with at McDonalds and I ran into each other and she fixed us up

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#27
Feb 22, 2013
 
1. You were already on the rocks. Would this not be a suitable straw? GTFO.

2. She is 18. If you push, she is going to push back. She is going to have to find her own way.

3. We met at Starbucks and we ordered the same thing and yeah we know it's corny but watcha gonna do?

No one wants to hear any follow-up to that.

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#28
Feb 22, 2013
 
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>they're good. So was this a singles group or do you still attend? It sound like fun. I wouldn't checking it out. All ralpgh ever wants to talk about are the Bears
It was open to anyone. It was a few years ago. I don't even know if it's still going on.

Guys -- I know what you're sayin'. I like football -- but pull-eeze! There's more to life.

You watching the Oscars? There's so many movies I've yet to see. How about you?
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#29
Feb 22, 2013
 
PEllen wrote:
LW2 does not sound affectionate. He sounds like he pays very close attention to whether an agreement has been literally complied with. Almost a martinet. Can't you just hear him telling her to sit up straight and cover her tatts when she goes outside?
He also abdicated his parent role and is perpetuating the discord that lead to the divorce by labeling his ex as her enabling mother instead of taking any responsibility for the girl's upbringing.
I don't condone the girl's life choices but I wouldn't want to hang with LW either.
I spent years listening to how this guy had a total fup of a teenaged son, his ex-wife kept enabling the son to be a total fup, etc, etc, etc. The son and the guy did not get along, obviously.

The son is currently a sophomore at an Ivy League college in engineering and doing well, and somehow he's still an fup and his ex-wife ruined him. I do not grok this. I've decided its likely the son does have his head on relatively straight.

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#30
Feb 22, 2013
 
pde wrote:
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I spent years listening to how this guy had a total fup of a teenaged son, his ex-wife kept enabling the son to be a total fup, etc, etc, etc. The son and the guy did not get along, obviously.
The son is currently a sophomore at an Ivy League college in engineering and doing well, and somehow he's still an fup and his ex-wife ruined him. I do not grok this. I've decided its likely the son does have his head on relatively straight.
I don't grock fup, either!

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#31
Feb 22, 2013
 
Yes there is. There's boating and guns of course!

Now about that meeting, can you give up the name and place, I would like to google it. Crazy! I know, but thats how im wired.
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Guys -- I know what you're sayin'. I like football -- but pull-eeze! There's more to life.

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Feb 22, 2013
 

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I dont grok that either!
pde wrote:
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I spent years listening to how this guy had a total fup of a teenaged son, his ex-wife kept enabling the son to be a total fup, etc, etc, etc. The son and the guy did not get along, obviously.
The son is currently a sophomore at an Ivy League college in engineering and doing well, and somehow he's still an fup and his ex-wife ruined him. I do not grok this. I've decided its likely the son does have his head on relatively straight.

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#33
Feb 22, 2013
 
How about "we met on topix?" No, they'll think you're crazy ... go with the psyche ward over that, lol.

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#34
Feb 22, 2013
 
RACE wrote:
Yes there is. There's boating and guns of course!
Now about that meeting, can you give up the name and place, I would like to google it. Crazy! I know, but thats how im wired.
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Let's see -- I THINK it's called The Round Table and it was in Itasca. Good luck. Like I said, I don't know if it's even still around.

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Feb 22, 2013
 

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Only crazies do that stuff, you sure you did not meet in the loony bin?
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Let's see -- I THINK it's called The Round Table and it was in Itasca. Good luck. Like I said, I don't know if it's even still around.

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