Christie, hopefully this will be my last post...I have not tried to minimize the situation. My heart does go out to your family, friends and the innocent bystanders that were caught in the middle of this tragedy. I have never once said she deserved to be shot at. My only desire is to have people not pass judgement on someone without knowing the whole story. Fact is people do go crazy when they think they have no way out. Is it right? Well of course its not, but it does happen.Look at the headlines around our great country and you will see this situation again and again...this time it just happened to hit close to home as we know the parties involved. Sanity gives us the clarity of mind to reason through situations, insanity causes what occured. I have nothing against Tricia, marriage is hard and takes a lot of work. My heart is broken for all involved as things didnt have to turn out this way. Is your sister a bad person? I never said she was. Were all of her actions innocent? I think she has already answerd that herself. Irregardless of what I think or you think or Tricia thinks the courts will have the final say. Tricia has my sympathy regardless of whether she wants it or not. I cannot imagine the range of emotions she is going through. I am thankful that she is still alive and sincerly hope she and E and the rest of your family are able to move on without hate in your hearts for the individual you once called family. I am not naive enough to believe that will happen this week or month ot even this year, but it is my hope that someday it will occur. My comments about Ramon are based on my experiences with him, which by the way spans 10+ years. I do not wish to continue the debate of right and wrong, just know that all parties have my heart felt sympathy.