Raymond

Kansas City, MO

#1 Jan 14, 2013
Please don't judge me. I am 39 years old, married for almost twenty years and looking to have an affair.

This has to be kept secret. I need a site that is very discreet with their members' information and won't divulge my name or any other information about me anywhere.

What sites would you recommend for finding affairs online?

Please no flaming and no bashing. It's my life and my decision whether or not to stay faithful. And I doubt I am the first person looking to have an affair in this day and age.
Vince

Houston, TX

#3 Jan 14, 2013
There are usually clubs like this in all major cities. Filled with married people looking for extramarital relations.

Do a simple search and I'm sure you will find tons of these clubs near you. Works great! Usually a charge to get in but it's well worth it. Just make sure no one sees you going in ;)
Teddy

Atlanta, GA

#4 Jan 14, 2013
I am not saying I condone this type of activity but have you tried making profiles on dating sites? I don't know if most women online are okay with dating married men. I think you're going to have to lie about that. Maybe say you are single and looking for a little fun without commitment. Don't need to tell them everything. Do your thing and go away. Never give out any personal information (name, phone number). Keep that private.
James J

Providence, UT

#5 Jan 14, 2013
Teddy wrote:
I am not saying I condone this type of activity but have you tried making profiles on dating sites? I don't know if most women online are okay with dating married men. I think you're going to have to lie about that. Maybe say you are single and looking for a little fun without commitment. Don't need to tell them everything. Do your thing and go away. Never give out any personal information (name, phone number). Keep that private.
That statement is completely false. I think the women that are seeking casual partners are more or less okay with married men. If there are millions of men cheating they are obviously finding women to do it with. I think it's a very bad idea to lie. Better to be honest from the beginning. I know I would!
Gloria

Kansas City, MO

#6 Jan 14, 2013
Let me chime in here! You are going to be glad I did! Whatever you do, don't fib about being married. It will most likely come back and bite you in the you know what! If a woman finds out she's been lied to and is feeling vulnerable, nothing can stop her from getting you in trouble with the mrs.. I know a lot of women that have done something like this out of spite.

Be 100% honest about what you are looking for and about your marital status. There are plenty of gals that are okay with seeing a married man for casual fun.
Jessy

San Jose, CA

#8 Jan 15, 2013
Also give match.com a try. They have millions of members. I'm sure there are thousands of women that would be interested in meeting a married man for an affair.
Bobby

San Jose, CA

#9 Jan 15, 2013
Jessy wrote:
Also give match.com a try. They have millions of members. I'm sure there are thousands of women that would be interested in meeting a married man for an affair.
Is not a good site for affairs. I try something else in your place friend. This one is more girls for weddings. I got told off my many women on there. Joined when I was visiting Chicago and tried to find someone for sex while I am there. Girls there were very mean to me and not looking for sexual fun.
OceansOfPeople

Philippines

#10 Jan 16, 2013
Maybe you just want another excitement in life. You just made the right choice to get busy with.
Dean

Kansas City, MO

#12 Jan 19, 2013
OceansOfPeople wrote:
Maybe you just want another excitement in life. You just made the right choice to get busy with.
I think a lot of people face this at some point in their marriage. It just gets stale at some point and having an affair can actually help the marriage in some cases. I knew a guy, was married for 20 years and was in love with his wife. I asked him what his secret was to keeping a happy marriage and he told me that sleeping with other women helps him not feel tied down and doesn't make him feel like he has to sacrifice anything. Weird way of thinking but he had a point somewhere..
Raymond

Kansas City, MO

#13 Jan 23, 2013
OceansOfPeople wrote:
Maybe you just want another excitement in life. You just made the right choice to get busy with.
Yes that was the whole point. I need a little excitement in my life.I actually met someone a couple of days ago.. starting to feel bad. Haven't actually done anything with her but I plan to. It's just that I am starting to feel some guilt. But why should I? Shouldn't I be happy too in life? I am not happy. And at the same time I don't want to end it.. confusing. Some great sites by the way, thanks to everyone that came through with suggestions.
Alexander

Athens, Greece

#14 Feb 2, 2013
How's the hunt? Have you had any success meeting anyone for an affair? And if so what site did you choose?
having affairs

Hastings, UK

#16 Mar 2, 2013
having affairs all the time and here is the contact list http://adultfinder.blogspot.com

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