I can totally understand your concern .. deja vu!I've just started dating and Indian guy and I am Puerto Rican... that's a whole difference ballgame. Hes' really super scared about his parents finding out about us. He's from south india and apparently his parents will completely disown him if they find out about me... it really sucks :( He broke it down to me like this... I'd have to be Malu AND Kna for it to br okay. Even if i was indian but not from south india it would be a disaster, or if i was south indian but not Kna it would be a disaster...
So being an Agnotic Puerto Rican with African and Indigenous roots that are VERY obvious in my appearance pretty much puts me in the End of the World category... any words of encouragement?
Let me tell you that when I was back in India, I did end up loving two wonderful women (not at the same time!) and none of them happened to be from my part of the country and well as you must have guessed by now - none of them worked out either. It was not that we did not love each other enough, its just that we had to sacrifice for our parents and in my case it was primarily the resistance from my ex-girlfriends' side - I know it might sound a bit weird here but well these things make a lot of sense back in India.
So as I said before, I can understand the guy's perspective and check if he is willing to take you to meet his parents. You guys can then take it from there.
Hope it works out!