Indian guys in interracial relationships are rare, so have you seen exceptions?

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Since: Jun 10

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#1 Jun 27, 2010
They say that most Indian guys in the US usually marry Indian women due to pressure from their families to marry not only within their own race but their own caste.
In my lifetime I have seen Indian men with White women and Latinas. I am an Indian guy (just finished high school) dating a Latina who looks sort of Italian (pale skin, green eyes and really dark hair). I was wondering, have you ever seen the following interracial pairings involving Indian guys before? If so then which ones?
Indian guy - Latina
Indian guy - White girl
Indian guy - Black girl
Indian guy - East Asian girl (Chinese, Japanese and Korean for example)
Indian guy - Middle Eastern girl
and Indian guy - Native American girl.
I have seen Indian guy - Latina before and Indian guy - White girl before. Usually I see Latinas going for the light skin Indian guys (Dev Patel skin tone) which is odd.
sweetcupcake537

Seattle, WA

#3 Jul 3, 2010
i am an southeast asian girl and im dating a guy who is east Indian punjabi. he and i have so much in common but a big difference is our religion. he is Sikh and i am christian. he was born in the US so i guess you can say he is americanized.
before, i've heard indian guys were very disrespectful towards women and dont see them as equals. is that how most indian guys really are? i heard they beat their wives and dont allow them to talk to other males in public.
of coarse my boyfriend doesnt harm me but i sometimes feel as if he doesnt see me as equal to him being a male.
hes told me before, that he wont let any girl meet his family unless he is being serious with her..and i'd have to say i met his fam :)
i've never seen another indian and asian couple before. and its my first time dating an indian guy, and i just think indian guys are sooo gorgeous, and sexy...well not all of them.. but most :)
does sex mean a lot to indian guys?
sinjy

Riverside, CA

#4 Jul 3, 2010
i have seen plently of indian with persian women, it seems among middlesastern they donot have any problem mixing with indian and pakistani.
Kov

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Jul 11, 2010
Protag wrote:
They say that most Indian guys in the US usually marry Indian women due to pressure from their families to marry not only within their own race but their own caste.
In my lifetime I have seen Indian men with White women and Latinas. I am an Indian guy (just finished high school) dating a Latina who looks sort of Italian (pale skin, green eyes and really dark hair). I was wondering, have you ever seen the following interracial pairings involving Indian guys before? If so then which ones?
Indian guy - Latina
Indian guy - White girl
Indian guy - Black girl
Indian guy - East Asian girl (Chinese, Japanese and Korean for example)
Indian guy - Middle Eastern girl
and Indian guy - Native American girl.
I have seen Indian guy - Latina before and Indian guy - White girl before. Usually I see Latinas going for the light skin Indian guys (Dev Patel skin tone) which is odd.
I am white German, used to play soccer when I was younger, I can tell you that American women are screwed up, they are fed too much BS. If you want to meet nice girls...get out of the US, the US sucks for women. European girls are more open minded than American women by a large margin.

Since: Jun 10

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#6 Jul 15, 2010
uh huh,

Italians are hot but generally I am just not that much into Germans.
Kat

Toronto, Canada

#7 Aug 2, 2010
I've been going out with my indian boyfriend for a few months now. We're not the typical indian couple... I'm very white, blond hair, blue eyes and he's... well indian :) We get a lot of strange looks from older brown folks but we don't really mind. We are learning to adjust to our backgrounds and he's planning on telling his parents soon since we are serious about this relationship. Poor him, he's really stressed about it... apparently this is gonna be huge for his parents (mostly his mom). But being in this interracial relationship just makes me look out for more couples like us and here in Toronto there's plenty! WE'RE NOT ALONE :D
john

Fareham, UK

#8 Aug 3, 2010
Kat wrote:
I've been going out with my indian boyfriend for a few months now. We're not the typical indian couple... I'm very white, blond hair, blue eyes and he's... well indian :) We get a lot of strange looks from older brown folks but we don't really mind. We are learning to adjust to our backgrounds and he's planning on telling his parents soon since we are serious about this relationship. Poor him, he's really stressed about it... apparently this is gonna be huge for his parents (mostly his mom). But being in this interracial relationship just makes me look out for more couples like us and here in Toronto there's plenty! WE'RE NOT ALONE :D
i always thoughht canadians didnt like indians are canadian women open to getting to know indian guys ..and be friends with with them ?
john

Fareham, UK

#9 Aug 3, 2010
Kat wrote:
I've been going out with my indian boyfriend for a few months now. We're not the typical indian couple... I'm very white, blond hair, blue eyes and he's... well indian :) We get a lot of strange looks from older brown folks but we don't really mind. We are learning to adjust to our backgrounds and he's planning on telling his parents soon since we are serious about this relationship. Poor him, he's really stressed about it... apparently this is gonna be huge for his parents (mostly his mom). But being in this interracial relationship just makes me look out for more couples like us and here in Toronto there's plenty! WE'RE NOT ALONE :D
canada is a very beautiful country very nice looking women and very friendly people god bless canada

Since: Jun 10

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#11 Aug 4, 2010
nice to see no one answered my question, Kat I hope all goes well for you though

Since: Feb 09

Bellevue, WA

#12 Aug 17, 2010
One of my Indian friends is married to a white lady and the only reason the relationship works is because she is a stay at home mother. That said, he still admits that the cultural differences are a headache at times.

I'm an American and I'll freely admit that our culture lacks history, tradition and discipline. Most Indians that I know (rightfully so) want to hang onto their Indian ways and this is why you see so many Indians marrying Indians.
soothsayer

United States

#13 Aug 17, 2010
It's better if each race sticks to their own kind, I would rather prefer marrying a poor ugly Indian girl rather than marrying a hotshot White or Black supermodel
laksh

Koyambedu, India

#14 Aug 31, 2010
sweetcupcake537 wrote:
i am an southeast asian girl and im dating a guy who is east Indian punjabi. he and i have so much in common but a big difference is our religion. he is Sikh and i am christian. he was born in the US so i guess you can say he is americanized.
before, i've heard indian guys were very disrespectful towards women and dont see them as equals. is that how most indian guys really are? i heard they beat their wives and dont allow them to talk to other males in public.
of coarse my boyfriend doesnt harm me but i sometimes feel as if he doesnt see me as equal to him being a male.
hes told me before, that he wont let any girl meet his family unless he is being serious with her..and i'd have to say i met his fam :)
i've never seen another indian and asian couple before. and its my first time dating an indian guy, and i just think indian guys are sooo gorgeous, and sexy...well not all of them.. but most :)
does sex mean a lot to indian guys?
well You are not alone..I am an Indian Sikh boy living in India and from the North East region of the country and i have a South Eastern Girlfriend who is also a Tribal by community and Christian by religion. Its been Four and half years since we have started dating and we still are goin strong. About meeting the families we both have met each others family and are very close with them and often hang out in each other house without our parents having any problems. Infact they are most understanding and awesomely cool..!! Though our families havent met my siblings and hers meet up every now and then for dinner in anyone of our house, go out for drives together and do almost everything together. I am stating these facts just to show the closeness of the families.

I dont think religious differences play an important roles when two people match completely in evry other way be it thinking, music, n etc etc. My girl is so understnding and so comfortable with my family that my family themselves say that they doubt i would get such an awesome girl if I would have an arrange marriage in my own community.
bostonia

Newton Lower Falls, MA

#15 Aug 31, 2010
In Boston , race doesn't exist. Chinese and white girls date all the time. Indians also. Get out of the other backward states and live in boston. Expensive, but definitely worth the lifestyle
sid

Toronto, Canada

#16 Sep 19, 2010
sweetcupcake537 wrote:
i am an southeast asian girl and im dating a guy who is east Indian punjabi. he and i have so much in common but a big difference is our religion. he is Sikh and i am christian. he was born in the US so i guess you can say he is americanized.
before, i've heard indian guys were very disrespectful towards women and dont see them as equals. is that how most indian guys really are? i heard they beat their wives and dont allow them to talk to other males in public.
of coarse my boyfriend doesnt harm me but i sometimes feel as if he doesnt see me as equal to him being a male.
hes told me before, that he wont let any girl meet his family unless he is being serious with her..and i'd have to say i met his fam :)
i've never seen another indian and asian couple before. and its my first time dating an indian guy, and i just think indian guys are sooo gorgeous, and sexy...well not all of them.. but most :)
does sex mean a lot to indian guys?
You got it all wrong Indian guys are very respectful when it comes to women, remember Indian men are called mammas boys and are well trained by their mother to follow the women's order, sp they will never be disrespectful towards women and ya to some extent you are right that they wont treat you as eqaul but they definitely will not beat their wife as the guy who beats a women is not considered a man in Indian culture

And ya it's true until and unless he is not serious he wont let a girl meet his family so in your case he is being serious

And well Indian are not the most horney guys but hey at the end of the day all men are horney and they are the same no matter what races they belong to, but the problem with Indian guys is they never had a girlfriend before or never got laid with any girl so it new for them but it seems you will sure have problems getting use to his culture so ya get to know a bit more about his culture
Colada

United States

#17 Sep 20, 2010
I have dated Indian men and I am from the Orient. I don't judge men by their race/ethnicity, however, I do admit about the cultural difference. I am rather open-minded but I do know that most Asian girls are narrow-minded and would not date a person because of his race.

Indian men are fine, however, the ones that I dated were born in India and they have the tendency to want to marry someone from their home country. I've got myself heart-broken because of that. I am sure not all Indian men are like that, but can anyone of you tell me how to "spot" if a man is interested in marriage or just want to have some fun in the meantime. I am not even talking about sex, because we did nothing more than kissing. I would date Indian men again, but back in my mind, I am always thinking if he is going to have arranged marriage eventually. I want to spend my time dating men that are interested in marriage with me. If a man doesn't have the same intention to begin with, I don't want to get hurt.
Rivera

Miami, FL

#18 Sep 23, 2010
I've just started dating and Indian guy and I am Puerto Rican... that's a whole difference ballgame. Hes' really super scared about his parents finding out about us. He's from south india and apparently his parents will completely disown him if they find out about me... it really sucks :( He broke it down to me like this... I'd have to be Malu AND Kna for it to br okay. Even if i was indian but not from south india it would be a disaster, or if i was south indian but not Kna it would be a disaster...
So being an Agnotic Puerto Rican with African and Indigenous roots that are VERY obvious in my appearance pretty much puts me in the End of the World category... any words of encouragement?

Since: Sep 10

United States

#19 Sep 24, 2010
I am looking for a white and i do respect my Indian girls.For me girls have there own inner beauty which we all should accept. Doesn't matter whether she is white/Indian/Latina/blk.Women have great powers which all the emotions rolls around.understand those emotions and we all be able to understand women.Love doesn't show any race or religion,b/c of this religion issues love has never been formed.Accept love as it comes,Which is pure like a water as water never see any colors and distances,it keeps on flowing,so u cant hold water ,even love shouldn't have any boundaries .

Since: Sep 10

United States

#20 Sep 24, 2010
Colada wrote:
I have dated Indian men and I am from the Orient. I don't judge men by their race/ethnicity, however, I do admit about the cultural difference. I am rather open-minded but I do know that most Asian girls are narrow-minded and would not date a person because of his race.
Indian men are fine, however, the ones that I dated were born in India and they have the tendency to want to marry someone from their home country. I've got myself heart-broken because of that. I am sure not all Indian men are like that, but can anyone of you tell me how to "spot" if a man is interested in marriage or just want to have some fun in the meantime. I am not even talking about sex, because we did nothing more than kissing. I would date Indian men again, but back in my mind, I am always thinking if he is going to have arranged marriage eventually. I want to spend my time dating men that are interested in marriage with me. If a man doesn't have the same intention to begin with, I don't want to get hurt.
Wow ,i am happy to have a Guinean person like you,Hi I am sunny from Louisiana.let me tell u something, i am Indian and i was born in India but with a freedom to do whatever i want, i never misused my freedom,i dont mind dating girls from other part of the 1 , but i believe she should be the 1.love is beautiful and should be respect with a touch of feelings and emotions.So wanna be my friend and we will chat more email me your email address.
Thanks
Sunny

Since: Sep 10

United States

#21 Sep 24, 2010
sunnyindian wrote:
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Wow ,i am happy to have a Guinean person like you,Hi I am sunny from Louisiana.let me tell u something, i am Indian and i was born in India but with a freedom to do whatever i want, i never misused my freedom,i dont mind dating girls from other part of the 1 , but i believe she should be the 1.love is beautiful and should be respect with a touch of feelings and emotions.So wanna be my friend and we will chat more email me your email address.
Thanks
Sunny
Hey i understand and appreciate your concern, i am kinda person who believes in relationship to the level to get married,love is not bull shit it should be treated with respect and honor.It should reach to a level where 2 hearts meet not the mind.Sends me your email. i will add u and we can chat.

Since: Aug 10

Richmond, VA

#22 Sep 24, 2010
Colada wrote:
I have dated Indian men and I am from the Orient. I don't judge men by their race/ethnicity, however, I do admit about the cultural difference. I am rather open-minded but I do know that most Asian girls are narrow-minded and would not date a person because of his race.
Indian men are fine, however, the ones that I dated were born in India and they have the tendency to want to marry someone from their home country. I've got myself heart-broken because of that. I am sure not all Indian men are like that, but can anyone of you tell me how to "spot" if a man is interested in marriage or just want to have some fun in the meantime. I am not even talking about sex, because we did nothing more than kissing. I would date Indian men again, but back in my mind, I am always thinking if he is going to have arranged marriage eventually. I want to spend my time dating men that are interested in marriage with me. If a man doesn't have the same intention to begin with, I don't want to get hurt.
A lot of us Indians (especially the ones who grew up in India), when it comes to marriage do go the traditional route and it for sure involves parents.
So once you know that an Indian guy is interested and of course you're interested in him too try to get to meet/talk to his parents/family. If he is a traditional Indian ,for the most part, he would involve his family when it comes to such decisions.

Finally - Good Luck!

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