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Human Revolution

Middletown, OH

#360 Dec 11, 2012
just an allusion wrote:
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Human IS Human, period!
How can you argue against that irrefutable fact of Life?
You think I don't know this!? Why are you giving me such a hard time?

Since: Oct 11

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#361 Dec 11, 2012
Human Revolution wrote:
<quoted text> You think I don't know this!? Why are you giving me such a hard time?
Well, let's revisit the evolution of this conversation...

You brought up the topic of 'color blindness'( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ), apparently as an attempted explanation for the largely ignorant derogatory perceptions of interracial relations in our society, though I should caution that I'm not 100% sure about this interpretation of your comment as you never really offered up ANY explanation when asked (we'll circle back to this in a moment) other than to say that it 'wasn't your intent to promote racism'( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ), only to then turn around and accuse ME of having brought it up ( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ), though you DID apologize for doing it ( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ) while asserting that you 'made a valid point', prompting me to AGAIN ask that you EXPLAIN your "point" ( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ) which, BTW, you STILL haven't.

So you see, it is not that I'm 'giving you a hard time', it's that I'm just trying to understand you by first listening to what you have to say and then questioning you on aspects of your comments that I didn't quite understand to ensure that we're on the same page.

I think it's called intelligible discourse and is a part of communication, but what do I know?!
Human Revolution

Middletown, OH

#362 Dec 12, 2012
just an allusion wrote:
<quoted text>
Well, let's revisit the evolution of this conversation...
You brought up the topic of 'color blindness'( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ), apparently as an attempted explanation for the largely ignorant derogatory perceptions of interracial relations in our society, though I should caution that I'm not 100% sure about this interpretation of your comment as you never really offered up ANY explanation when asked (we'll circle back to this in a moment) other than to say that it 'wasn't your intent to promote racism'( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ), only to then turn around and accuse ME of having brought it up ( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ), though you DID apologize for doing it ( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ) while asserting that you 'made a valid point', prompting me to AGAIN ask that you EXPLAIN your "point" ( http://www.topix.com/forum/life/TLRR8J5IEGLAF... ) which, BTW, you STILL haven't.
So you see, it is not that I'm 'giving you a hard time', it's that I'm just trying to understand you by first listening to what you have to say and then questioning you on aspects of your comments that I didn't quite understand to ensure that we're on the same page.
I think it's called intelligible discourse and is a part of communication, but what do I know?!
I was using the IDEA of "color blindness" for why the majority of people don't date IR. I'm ready for your response, Mr., Miss, or Mrs. Pseudo-Intellectual.

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#363 Dec 12, 2012
Human Revolution wrote:
<quoted text> I was using the IDEA of "color blindness" for why the majority of people don't date IR. I'm ready for your response, Mr., Miss, or Mrs. Pseudo-Intellectual.
Define "IR".
Human Revolution

Middletown, OH

#366 Dec 12, 2012
just an allusion wrote:
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Define "IR".
It seems to be the catch-all "shorter abbreviation for "interracial". I just roll with it.

Since: Oct 11

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#367 Dec 12, 2012
Human Revolution wrote:
<quoted text> I was using the IDEA of "color blindness" for why the majority of people don't date IR. I'm ready for your response, Mr., Miss, or Mrs. Pseudo-Intellectual.
But surely you realize that, if people WERE color blind, there wouldn't be any issue/racism and we wouldn't be having this conversation as everyone, whether they were or were not, would APPEAR to be the same color...?
Human Revolution wrote:
<quoted text> It seems to be the catch-all "shorter abbreviation for "interracial". I just roll with it.
Gotcha!

Oh, and BTW, it's 'Mr.', but I typically settle for 'allusion' on site.

Waht about yourself? Mr., Miss, or Mrs.?

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#369 Dec 13, 2012
'Racism' itself isn't actually a real sociological convention of Human culture or nature, but only a neuro-linguistically conditioned construct nefariously devised by some subversive, sub-culture adherents intent upon encouraging and generating divisiveness amongst the people of the World through the artifice of triviality by exploiting our inherent differences, i.e., what makes us individuals, what makes us us, as a means of implying that we are, somehow, lesser beings merely because we don't all look alike.

It is only individuals who enact this belief by externalizing their own inner self-loathing, which was similarly manufactured by others who fabricated some fault or inadequancy in themselves and projected it onto others, by manifesting it in the form of some type of physical expression that lends it any degree of legitimacy because only then does it become something tangible that can be experienced by others.

Long story short, if you haven't anything nice to say to someone, the best policy is to say nothing at all...That and seriously consider spending some time with a therapist to sort your inner shit out before you manage to stink up someone elses' life because you can't manage to wipe your own arse, lol.
Human Revolution

Middletown, OH

#370 Dec 13, 2012
just an allusion wrote:
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But surely you realize that, if people WERE color blind, there wouldn't be any issue/racism and we wouldn't be having this conversation as everyone, whether they were or were not, would APPEAR to be the same color...?
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Gotcha!
Oh, and BTW, it's 'Mr.', but I typically settle for 'allusion' on site.
Waht about yourself? Mr., Miss, or Mrs.?
You do make a good point. Btw I am a Mr.

Since: Oct 11

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#371 Dec 13, 2012
Human Revolution wrote:
<quoted text> You do make a good point. Btw I am a Mr.
Thank you for the recognition of my rationality, it is appreciated.

Since: May 08

Highland, CA

#373 Dec 13, 2012
wild bee wrote:
ya you idiot if we were color blind ( thank god we are not )
there would still be racism even if we were same color
people would still be racist towards
short people
fat people
skinny
attractie
unattractive
being color blind would have been only 1 little gap
when people race mix they dont do it for the kids NO ONE DOES IT FOR THE KIS
they do it to shock and make themselves center of attention
think about it i am tan skin dude and i walk in with a black women ( that would attract so much attention that my ego would explode)
^ but unlike white skum women i dont go around broadcasting my preference LOL
Well I think my Kids have turned out good so far.
And as for shocking people, I dont think anyone is shocked when they see us or even pays all that much attention nowadays to a Middle age white/Asian couple
Human Revolution

Middletown, OH

#375 Dec 13, 2012
wild bee wrote:
i met this one really pretty biracial girl once
she was half black half white
she was the biggest feminist, self hating, miserable,
gold digging, excuse of a women to society girl i have ever
met
she was beautiful to
there was something wrong with her i dont no if it was
abuse from the past or just trauma
she was really really pretty she just had so much issues
and she would rain it upon everyone who didnt give her money
Weird, feminism and gold digging usually don't go hand in hand.
Human Revolution

Middletown, OH

#377 Dec 13, 2012
wild bee wrote:
haha human revo
that is the most stupid thing i have heard
it goes completely hand in hand
its like saying you no u have to quit smoking
you no the harms but you keep on doing it
anyway if you cant quit
women are very manipulative and will do
anything for money even lesbians fk men
for money
Sounds like you hate women. Maybe you watch too much Sex and the City. Or you are just a chauvinist.
Human Revolution

Middletown, OH

#379 Dec 13, 2012
wild bee wrote:
i love women to death i hate skum
chauvnist are yawns just like feminists
but you must uderstand
women are born 2 days before the devil
Well I see nothing wrong with feminism as long as it doesn't alienate men, or favor a particular group of women based on race, ethnicity, nationality, religion, sexual orientation, or social class.

Since: Oct 11

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#380 Dec 14, 2012
Human Revolution wrote:
<quoted text> Sounds like you hate women. Maybe you watch too much Sex and the City. Or you are just a chauvinist.
Yeah, I was thinking misogynistic, that, or they only have experience in dating strippers.
Human Revolution

Newark, OH

#381 Dec 14, 2012
just an allusion wrote:
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Yeah, I was thinking misogynistic, that, or they only have experience in dating strippers.
Like I said, too much Sex and the City.

Since: Jul 12

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#382 Dec 15, 2012
Aye Palumba wrote:
Look at all these stupid black people so happy to be bred out of existence and mix with white people. I'm a black man, but I gotta say, something is seriously wrong with blacks...We are the most wretched, self-hating people in the world. Any other race wants to PRESERVE themselves and their identity. Black people will happily give up themselves to other races and celebrate race-mixing like fking idiots. part of the reason is that we're brainwashed. We don't think for ourselves. The white man is the one who enslaved us, oppressed us and even today continues to shit on us...and we still believe it when they tell us "so what if the black race ceases to exist. What does it matter?"...I mean we have blacks who ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS SH*T AND HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY IT OUT LOUD...Why can't we figure out from basic commonsense that race mixing is BAD for the BLACK RACE? What we need to do is END race mixing once and for all. I have nothing against mixed race people...they're not responsible for the fact that some misguided black fool lay down with a white person and made a baby...I have a problem with black people who lack any sense of self-worth and who lack love of self. When I see a bm or a bw who marries a whitey then their kid is half white and that kid marries a white person, now that bm or bw has white grandkids, what I see is a bm or bw who has been defeated by the whiteys who have tried all kinds of ways to destroy us in the past and finally figured out that the way to do it.
great post and very true,blacks are pathetic in that area Big Time......

Since: Oct 11

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#383 Dec 16, 2012
Aye Palumba wrote:
Look at all these stupid black people so happy to be bred out of existence and mix with white people. I'm a black man, but I gotta say, something is seriously wrong with blacks...We are the most wretched, self-hating people in the world. Any other race wants to PRESERVE themselves and their identity. Black people will happily give up themselves to other races and celebrate race-mixing like fking idiots. part of the reason is that we're brainwashed. We don't think for ourselves. The white man is the one who enslaved us, oppressed us and even today continues to shit on us...and we still believe it when they tell us "so what if the black race ceases to exist. What does it matter?"...I mean we have blacks who ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS SH*T AND HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY IT OUT LOUD...Why can't we figure out from basic commonsense that race mixing is BAD for the BLACK RACE? What we need to do is END race mixing once and for all. I have nothing against mixed race people...they're not responsible for the fact that some misguided black fool lay down with a white person and made a baby...I have a problem with black people who lack any sense of self-worth and who lack love of self. When I see a bm or a bw who marries a whitey then their kid is half white and that kid marries a white person, now that bm or bw has white grandkids, what I see is a bm or bw who has been defeated by the whiteys who have tried all kinds of ways to destroy us in the past and finally figured out that the way to do it.
You sir, are what the non-too-closeted racist talking head political pundit,'Rush Limbaugh', refers to as a "reverse racist".

Tell me something, do you feel that in the expression of such a culturally AND sociologically adverse ideology, you are actually progressing the effort of racial integration and sociological acceptance of the black community, or only contributing to the continued animosity and practiced sociological segregation of minorities by promoting (in your terms) "whitey's" agenda of suppression and marginalization in YOUR emphasizing the 'color' of your skin over the person you actually are/the Africam American people are as a whole?

Since: Oct 11

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#384 Dec 16, 2012
Proud african american wrote:
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great post and very true,blacks are pathetic in that area Big Time......
And you're NOT helping either!
Aussie Bob

Adelaide, Australia

#385 Dec 17, 2012
Black people seem to be desperate to "race-mix". It is easier for them to do that, as opposed to actually building up their own race for a change.
Human Revolution

Bearden, AR

#386 Dec 17, 2012
Aussie Bob wrote:
Black people seem to be desperate to "race-mix". It is easier for them to do that, as opposed to actually building up their own race for a change.
I see what point you are trying to make, and I like how you are trying to remain civil, so please remain so.

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