how am I supposed to find a girl?

how am I supposed to find a girl?

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desperate guy

Albuquerque, NM

#1 Nov 24, 2012
I'm having a hard time finding a girl. I honestly don't know what to do.

Some people tell me to find a woman on a dating site. But I tried that. The women on those sites have no interest in dating. They just want to talk online.

Some people tell me to date a woman I already know. But every woman I know has either friend zoned me or already has a boyfriend.

Some people tell me to date a woman though work. But some workplaces have a policy against dating coworkers. And even if they don't have a policy against it, it's frowned upon. Besides, all my coworkers are 10+ years older than me.

Manila, Philippines

#2 Nov 24, 2012
I just came across your post here while finding some answers to my own questions about "dating." I couldn't believe that there are also men who have problems in finding a woman to date with. I thought it's always women who chase men.

I admire you for posting this and being true to your feelings. Not all men would spill their guts to let the world know what they truly feel inside. What you have is a gift and more than enough to be liked or loved from a woman.

Women are everywhere, but the question is, who among us is sensible? That's a hard question to answer.

I'm a woman who have been having this illusion to find that Man, but I failed all the time because it appears that no matter what I do to prove my sincerity, that's not enough for them to take me seriously. I've tried to date some men in my place and have tried to date online too, believe me, it all failed.

But this isn't to give you the impression that your searching for a woman is doom to fail. My case is different because I was chasing a man to take me for real.

You might want to take this sincere advice: look for a woman who talks sense, someone who's mind is balance. It is best to date a woman who doesn't go after material things ( you can evaluate this by communicating), a woman who doesn't have the tendency to flirt or play games like men. One who doesn't post sexy or alluring pics on dating sites. One who talks in depth or appears to regard life and love in a deeper manner. One who knows how to really care and she shows it. Women are very expressive, you can read us on face value.

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