Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?
spy

Mumbai, India

#8968 Feb 28, 2014
latina women wrote:
I LOVE INDIAN MEN. And I am trying to date more and maybe have a long term relationship. i adore the accent, I can live with their culture, as long as they expect my culture. We should share ideas.
hey Latina lady I love the way u think about us(Indians) thanks sweetheart... Hope to get in contact...
that brown guy

Coimbatore, India

#8969 Mar 1, 2014
roger wrote:
hi sweetie,
i find latin girls amazing...
i would love to get to know u babe....
<quoted text>
Dude! Seriously?!! This is the exact kindof shit that factors our bad name
asshole369

Singapore, Singapore

#8970 Mar 2, 2014
sweetguy wrote:
Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (East Indian) living in the US...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one American girl....she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me. That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most American girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.
What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behavior? cleanliness? manners? height? color? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.
Thanks.
hmmm... maybe cultural influences and representations of your race that leads to this stereotyping. Let me tell you why I used to like them. They are honest, polite and hard working. Let me tell you why I don't like Indians now.. They rape women, molest women and basically have no respect for society whatsoever. I don't say every Indian men is like that. But what I hear from you guys lately is all animalistic news... So this media presentation imprinted in many minds that when you see an indian guy looking at you.. he'll probably wanting to rape you rather than being a gentleman. I live in the country where a lot of them immigrants here. I can see why people hate them including myself. Their fucking behaviours man.. Fucking low... I hear my friends (mostly not Indians girls but Chinese, Vietnam and others) got molested or flirted by strangers out of no where in train or even through phone.. I asked, everytime, no wonder Indians.. I don't know tell me, what the fuck is wrong with you guys? you're probably don't know since you're already US.

But again everything is subjective. I work with a lot of Indians and basically, they are fine, good colleagues.. so for me, rather than just hate with blind eye, I give people first chance. I try to get to know them before judging them. But I cannot ignore the statistics side as well. Hope everything gets better and everyone gets happy and live in harmony more in the future with much more respect to one another. For you... well.. nothing to be sad. In the end, it's all individuality.
uzii

Deer Park, NY

#8972 Mar 3, 2014
latina women wrote:
I LOVE INDIAN MEN. And I am trying to date more and maybe have a long term relationship. i adore the accent, I can live with their culture, as long as they expect my culture. We should share ideas.
oh word wanna meet up

Since: Mar 14

Location hidden

#8973 Mar 3, 2014
I don't think that race should be a concern, what matters most is that if you find that one who truly appreciates you as a person, appreciate your past, your shortcomings and your culture, then there should be no problem being together, both should have high regards and respect to each others belief so you can heads up into a good relationship.
Mouse

Olmsted Falls, OH

#8975 Mar 4, 2014
An Indian girl was found dead in her SUV. Her last name was Patel and guess what? Her husband is in prison along with his mother. I heard that the police were called to their home in Twinsburg, Ohio so many times for domestic violence. Now, a man in Solon, Ohio is in jail for the disappearance of his 22 yr old girlfriend. His name was Singh and he was on probation. Te missing girl was named Nadia and I am sure he killed her.
SAM

Astoria, NY

#8976 Mar 4, 2014
Mouse wrote:
An Indian girl was found dead in her SUV. Her last name was Patel and guess what? Her husband is in prison along with his mother. I heard that the police were called to their home in Twinsburg, Ohio so many times for domestic violence. Now, a man in Solon, Ohio is in jail for the disappearance of his 22 yr old girlfriend. His name was Singh and he was on probation. Te missing girl was named Nadia and I am sure he killed her.
Don't know the purpose of above cited incidents/posting nor I know what the poster is trying to imply here. First of all, Indians are also human beings like every other national and people of other ethnicities. So obviously, you don't and can't expect Indians to be saints or perfectly good and gentlemen kinda people. Bad and good people are in every race and in people of all ethnicities. If you don't see ANY bad people in your own race and ethnicity and in your country's people then by all means you have the right to put fingers on Indian people about their bad acts; otherwise I think you guys to shut the hell up.

As I have been saying all along that bad and good people are everywhere in all races and nationals. Thus, its all about the individuality of the person that matters that a race, nationality and ethnicity of any particular one. We can not and should not generalize things based on a race, ethnicity and nationality; rather it should be based on a person's own behavior and actions. Otherwise, millions of bad things could have been spilled out about people of different countries, races and ethnicities as well based on different people's experiences with them.

That being said, if there have been bad Indians then there are good Indians too. I have myself dated all kinds of girls you name it, from all ethnicities, races and nationalities, and I have also dated at least 700 white girls as well. I can write a book as well about them too if I want, but Im not going to do that because I know its all about the individuality of the person that matters than their race, ethnicity and nationality.

However, I do agree that most Indian men don't pay much attention to their hygiene and demeanors along with their manners, which is why Indians are well known around the world for their those bad things which I have noticed myself while being seen by my own eyes around the world. And since it has always been very tough for Indian guys to get laid in India then obviously when they see a girl even a foreigner then their mouth gets watery. Indian men do need to change all this which would be impossible for them to change in my opinion; otherwise they will be considered as such as its been described in this thread, which is same to the fact that white girls are always considered as a slut and whore around the world which they would never be able to change because no matter how someone gets disagree with this but its true that most white girls are easy and they behave like a slut. They could sleep with anyone, including their dad, grandpa, father-in-law, uncle, aunties, and with all nine yards...They are all over on porno movies etc...Thus, their image would never be changed in the eyes of non-white people even though we know that not all white girls are like this but most of them are like this....which is why Indian parents don't accept them along with girls of other races too. The girls of other races pay the price of the image imprinted by white girls. Its not only Indian parents but parents of people of most countries also don't approve white girls because their slutty image...let alone to be conservative society and parents from India.

That's why its better to stick to individuality of the person than a race, ethnicity and nationality; otherwise beans could be spilled about other people of all races too...
Hhh

Pune, India

#8979 Mar 6, 2014
Indian and indian are shit, they talk about dubai so greatly shome on u coz u are treat like beger in dubai and all middle east
Zakiya

Paterson, NJ

#8980 Mar 8, 2014
From late september til the 21 of October, I "dated" an indian guy named syed farhan on facebook. I dated him cuz I thought his profile pic was cute (like a dummy). He had big eyes and long black hair looking all innocent and shit. I thought he was 18 or 19 somewhere in my age range. We just sexted and shit for a while. We dated also. But then on october 21 a guy of my own race (black) asked me out. I think hes cuter than syed farhan WAY cuter! Indian guys are ugly
kuli

Hounslow, UK

#8982 Mar 8, 2014
jenny wrote:
Im a white woman, born in NYC with very light skin blonde hair and green eyes. My current boyfriend is an Indian man born in Pune. May I say he is the love of my life. I find him so amazingly attractive, even at his 5 foot seven stature. I catch myself staring at him non stop when he isn't looking. He told me about the fears Indian men have about white women. Many of us are actually veru very bored with white men and find Eastern men exotic and wonderful.
Some of what was stated above I did have issues with in the beginning. Having came here to attend college, he was into staring at girls, dressing a bit 'greasebally' and just trying too hard. I had to kind of call him out on it. Since then he came back down to earth. I also had to tell him to quit shaving his chest. I like my men to look, well, like men.
Many of the great things I find about Eastern men is that they are very loving and very passionate. Something pretty much extinct with White men.
The only challenge I find that we have right now is his mother. A lot of talk goes into racism from white women towards these guys, but they forget that his mother will most likely be the racist one and force the couple to break up because the girl is not indian. hopefully this doesn't happen. that when i think I would have something begative to feel about the indian race. the fact mommy is usually very racist towards her kids marrying outside of the race.
Goodluck Jenny
You sound like a level headed woman.
Just find a lot of posts here very racist towards indian men.
kuli

Hounslow, UK

#8983 Mar 8, 2014
Zakiya wrote:
From late september til the 21 of October, I "dated" an indian guy named syed farhan on facebook. I dated him cuz I thought his profile pic was cute (like a dummy). He had big eyes and long black hair looking all innocent and shit. I thought he was 18 or 19 somewhere in my age range. We just sexted and shit for a while. We dated also. But then on october 21 a guy of my own race (black) asked me out. I think hes cuter than syed farhan WAY cuter! Indian guys are ugly
you sure he was from india?
Syed is a muslim name.
Why did you date him even though you thought he was ugly :)
kuli

Hounslow, UK

#8984 Mar 8, 2014
Armaan Mehta wrote:
I was in miami there I met the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. She was from chile .. Oh wow latinas mmmh.. I approached her and dated for 3 months and now she is pregnant with my child..
My parents are not accepting her and neither her parents accepting me
Please help ..advice me how do I go ahead now?
Sorry to hear your boyfriend mistreated you.
But not all men (indian or otherwise are like this)
I live in UK and am indian.
At the moment there are many case of paedophilia and child abuse by white men .
Now it would be wrong for me to assume that this is a white only problem which it isn't

So we have to be very careful how we comment about races here.

I am indian and have grown up with a lot guys from other races and many of them always just want to screw an indian woman because it satisfied some image of eastern promise in their minds :). Men are men all over the world..some good, some bad , some both :)

I hope you find a nice guy. Indian or otherwise.

good luck
Zakiya

Paterson, NJ

#8985 Mar 8, 2014
kuli wrote:
<quoted text>
you sure he was from india?
Syed is a muslim name.
Why did you date him even though you thought he was ugly :)
While I was "dating" him I never went on his fb page to look at his pics cuz I was too shy. But when the guy of my own race asked me out I got the courage to check out his fb page and WOW!! I was shocked! He didn't look anything like the profile pic! He was UGLY AS HELL!!! Fucked up looking! His eyebrows were fucked up and ugly, his facial features were very unattractive and he didn't look young! He looked between 45-50 yrs old! Man I was shocked but not too shocked cuz I fell in love with the black guy. A lot of other ppl posted on his page callin him ugly and stuff callin him a disgusting pervert and wishin that he dies. I joined in with them cuz I didn't find him attractive. Maybe he used a random pic of a cute guy of his profile pic. In my opinion black guys are way cuter and way more attractive than indian guys. I think I'll date black guys for now on cuz once u go black u never go back
I love black guys

Newark, NJ

#8986 Mar 9, 2014
Indian guys are very ugly and unattractive and they smell! There's this indian guy who's 19 at my high school. He's very ugly his face, his eyes, his voice and everything he says and does annoys the fuck outta me! He smells like dirty ass gym socks! I'm black and I prefer black guys WAY over indian guys! Black guys are more beautiful, they have good hygiene and are less annoying
The innocent

Crosby, TX

#8987 Mar 14, 2014
I am an American girl and I love Indian guys (well any race really) but all I'm going to say is most American girls are stuck up so don't take it harshly.
The innocent

Crosby, TX

#8988 Mar 14, 2014
I love black guys wrote:
Indian guys are very ugly and unattractive and they smell! There's this indian guy who's 19 at my high school. He's very ugly his face, his eyes, his voice and everything he says and does annoys the fuck outta me! He smells like dirty ass gym socks! I'm black and I prefer black guys WAY over indian guys! Black guys are more beautiful, they have good hygiene and are less annoying
Indian guys are the sweetest guys ever, they treat their girls like princesses. And just because one Indian guy looks bad and smells bad doesn't mean they all do.
SFPrincess

Sunnyvale, CA

#8989 Mar 14, 2014
I have to say, yes I agree. Russian women love strong and smart men. Indian men tend to be very strong in nature.... their strength is shown by their work ethic and how well they can move to a new country and be ridiculously successful...If we sent a white man, or black or mexican man to india, how successful would he be.... He would end up homeless mostly likely and be killed. Indian men are the most successful men in America. They come here from nothing and own a piece of this country...
- Smart... Most of them are very smart. Either they are very well educated or very street smart and cunning in business, very similar to russian men.
- The most successful people in America are Hindu's from India and Jew - mostly from Ukraine and Russia area. It only makes sense that they date within their own social status.
-Most of them come from educated families in America, Doctors, Lawyer and Engineers and still own multiple businesses on the side, just like russian family.
-There were a lot friendship between both countries during cold war till now, best allies of each other. When I was little in Russia I saw bollywood movies with russian subs.

I MIGHT DATE ONLY AMERICANS, BUT THE ONLY TYPE OF AMERICANS I DATE ARE INDIAN AND RUSSIAN MEN. I would never date a white person from America or black or mexican... they are too stupid and easily fooled. They also act tough with their friend but are totally pussy men in relationship. Sorry boys.... but your culture have not taught you to be men.
girl

Saint-laurent, Canada

#8990 Mar 15, 2014
i would never date an indian guy in my life for their appearance and the fact that they don't have any personality.
i have known one: he is really sticky even if I told him like 3 times that I do not like him!!!!
They are so annoying...
kuli

Hounslow, UK

#8991 Mar 17, 2014
I think we should rename the heading of this to

"what wrong with girls who dislike indian men"

LOL!
Rachel

Stamford, CT

#8993 Mar 22, 2014
Godsownman wrote:
American women are the biggest sluts in this world. God save American men from their freaking bitchy women.
Woaaahhhhh
Im American and Im still a virgin. Im 18 years old mind you

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