Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?
Some guy

Centreville, VA

#7368 Apr 1, 2012
Alina wrote:
SAM:
Until you started talking about your experience with slutty women, I was impressed with your last post. Nicely done.
Too bad about Indian men not assimilating with American hygiene. A toothbrush, stick deodorant, closed toe shoes, altoids, and pepto-bismol,.... All purchased together, like a CRAZY shopping spree, might cost...$25.
Everyone farts. I fart. But I never, EVER fart in public. Silent, or loud. Never! I guess it was just the way I was raised.
Alina, your statement may sound odd to some people but don't worry. As an Indian guy, I personally think whoever reads it may be able to improve their social life. I admire your lifestyle completely. People who don't have manners are thinking its cool or they are not aware of it. You are always welcome as long as you are not trying to put anyone down. Take care and sleep well.
singh

UK

#7369 Apr 1, 2012
I'm south african born, indian ethnicity, 25 good job live away from my parents, have my own place and car and things are ok. I would concider myself well groomed and hygenic. White women here are friendly, would be your best friend but that's how it goes. I think it has a lot to do with having a guy that they can bring home and not feel awkward with infront of her parents who might be old school. The other thing I wonder about it, if a girl from another race dates an indian guy, is it because she loves him or has a thing for indians like a fetish or something. Just go with the flow man, whatever is meant to be, will be.
SAM

Astoria, NY

#7370 Apr 1, 2012
Alina wrote:
Until you started talking about your experience with slutty women, I was impressed with your last post.
First of all, I don't really know which name I should use here to call you because you do have/use so many IDs. Don't know why you need so many IDs but it's my personal belief that only a person of split-personality likes to use multiple IDs to express their opinions; otherwise why to be afraid or not having guts in posting in one ID?

Secondly, you have now yourself admitted that whenever a woman acts/behaves like the ways I have described about those white women I have been with by calling them slut then it seems almost every White American woman is slut if we follow your terminology based on their traits because most White women do act the ways I have described. Just because you being a woman yourself haven't seen that side of them then it doesn't mean they don't behave that way in a closed door or with their man.

Thirdly, I have told you a numerous times that I have NEVER gone out with "slut" no matter how desperate I could have been. It's just out of my character and personality. So, you can call those women as slut if you want because it doesn't wipe out the fact that those women are from every walk of life, like models, cops, students, working in corporate world and in every walk of life.

Fourth, experiences are experiences, whether it were with sluts or goody women. We are here to express our experiences regardless of those experiences with good people or bad people. I mean, you have stated your experiences with those bad-mannered Indian guys even though those experiences with those kinds of Indians, so what's wrong if I have described my experiences with dealing with White American women?

See, no one is perfect. You are raised differently, so do other people. You can not expect whole world to act like you. You have to either accept the life-style of other people or leave them alone. Vice-versa from other people towards your kinds of people. If they find White women to be slut and white- trash then you can not compel them to accept you.

Nevertheless, I do agree that most Indians do lack manners and don't pay much attention to their demeanors and hygiene which is sad. But I bet they will be very much be accepted like most Indian girls if Indian guys would try to take care of themselves like I have. I used to get rejection by White girls all the time because of stigma of me being an Indian. Most other countries' people have pre-concieved notion about Indian men and I paid the price for that. But I also looked into myself and found that I do need to change a lots of things inside me, not because of getting attention by White girls but for myself. I didn't realize those shortcomings of myself because I was living in India and I was alright by the Indian standards. So I changed myself.

After making changes in myself, I have been the luckiest person in this world when it comes to dating with all kinds of women especially with White Women. Nobody thinks of me being Indian. They all think of me either Italian or Latino. I'm proud of ethnicity nor I'm ashamed of my ethnicity. Thus, I tell them that I'm an Indian which I've done here. The biggest change that I made in myself that I think has helped me a lot in getting the attention from girls is keeping smile on my face always, being humorous and most importantly being flirty. Of course, looking sharp is must if a guy wants to get attention from any girl in any part of the world. I worked on that one too. Not macho or body-builder kinda makeover; rather a sharper/cleaner look and change in personality.

Many people might find all of my these efforts as crazy or desperate or useless, but its ok. I can not speak for others but for me, thinking of girls 24/7 is all matter as they remain in my mind all the time and I can not imagine my life without them. Thus, I had to do whatever it takes to improve my chances in this arena, which I did.
Nike

London, UK

#7371 Apr 1, 2012
[whould u lik to date with me . im from london..........fb simer mo..........
ron

Scarborough, Canada

#7372 Apr 2, 2012
Jake you snake !

you just made that BS stuff right up didn't you ? the very fact that you say 'thru' the grapewine' keeps your conscience clear doesn't it ?!

It's ok man, you're not the only racist around !

AFTER THIS WHEN YOU LIE, TRY TO MAKE IT MORE BELEIVABLE !
scdv

Ahmedabad, India

#7373 Apr 3, 2012
gfsfg
indian hunk

Secunderabad, India

#7374 Apr 3, 2012
bro.. i too dont understand why white girls hate indian guys.its better not to waste time on white girls knowing about what they think.its better to find a indian girl.there are many indian beauties available who will love us for what we are
pookie

Phoenix, AZ

#7375 Apr 3, 2012
I've given up on all you loosers/nuts, I'm moving on with my curry fetish!!
Some guy

Centreville, VA

#7376 Apr 3, 2012
why do people worry about not being liked? When it comes to social life, there is no point of pulling the race card. It is understandable to pull the race card when you are looking for a job if necessary.
hothead_100

India

#7377 Apr 3, 2012
sweetguy wrote:
Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (East Indian) living in the US...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one American girl....she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me. That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most American girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.
What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behavior? cleanliness? manners? height? color? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.
Thanks.
This loser don't know how to impress a girl. PERIOD.
Monica

Manchester, UK

#7379 Apr 4, 2012
I would say it's related to the smell. I think most Indians don't use deodorant and that's annoying in the gym.
pookie

Phoenix, AZ

#7380 Apr 4, 2012
Monica wrote:
I would say it's related to the smell. I think most Indians don't use deodorant and that's annoying in the gym.
Pee uszez!!!

Since: Apr 12

Scarborough, Canada

#7382 Apr 5, 2012
Hi,

As someone who dates a lot on Plenty of Fish I can tell you that most Indian guys have very badly done profiles.

It also doesn't help if your accent is Indian, that is a major turn off.

However, if you are a westernized Indian then you you won't have any problems. Its just the FOBs(Fresh of the Boats) that most girls and other people have problems with.

White Ranger

http://pofdomination.com

Since: Apr 12

Scarborough, Canada

#7383 Apr 5, 2012
indian hunk wrote:
bro.. i too dont understand why white girls hate indian guys.its better not to waste time on white girls knowing about what they think.its better to find a indian girl.there are many indian beauties available who will love us for what we are
You're from Hyderabad, India. How will you have any exposure to any kind of women other than Indian women.
Also, calling them "white girls" is the same as calling Latina and Indian girls "brown girls", there are massive differences in culture. American women, Scandinavian and Eastern European women are completely different because of the different cultures they come from.
If you actually want to date out of your race, check out speech accent therapy if you have an accent. I'm giving the harsh truth here, which is that fresh off the boat Indian guys are going to struggle. However, if you are cleaned up, have a minimal accent, have a great sense of style, and are funny and non-needy you'll do very well with all kinds of women. This appplies to all kind of men.
WhiteRanger, POF Expert
http://pofdomination.com
Cheyenne

United States

#7384 Apr 5, 2012
sweetguy wrote:
Hello ladies...I am an Indian guy (East Indian) living in the US...I get a feeling that most girls here do not like Indian guys. For example, I was in the gym the other day for a group fitness class and we needed a partner to exercise with, so I was randomly paired up with one American girl....she did not even smile back at me and it seemed she didn't want to even look at me. That's just one example, but in daily life too, me and my Indian friends have experienced that most American girls put on a very contemptuous and unfriendly expression when an Indian guy happens to make a casual eye contact (not leering) with them.
What is it about most Indian guys that girls hate? looks? accent? behavior? cleanliness? manners? height? color? culture? I would really like to know what repels most girls from Indian guys and maybe try to improve if its possible.
Thanks.
Seriously? Thats messed up! I am an american girl and honestly i adore indian men! I love the accent the culture pretty much everything! haha don't worry hun i'm sure they are not all like that that girl was probably just a you-know-what.:)
pookie

Phoenix, AZ

#7385 Apr 6, 2012
I like curry
im so lost in his love

Cape Town, South Africa

#7386 Apr 7, 2012
im an 18 yr old blk gal and im in love wit a 25 yr old indian guy. I realy love him and i'can c dat he trully loves me too, he is my partner and mostly my best friend but da stories dat i hear about indian guys i jst dont c dat in our love, we have a grt conection and we talk about everythng could it be real or am i jst foolin myself.... Pls help
pookie

Phoenix, AZ

#7389 Apr 9, 2012
Curry, kery, kiry anyway you spell it it boils down to a fantastic herb, hurb erb.
Matt

Singapore, Singapore

#7390 Apr 10, 2012
Screw White girls...East Asian girls ftw :)
beautiful

Gordon, UK

#7391 Apr 10, 2012
ahh...what a romantic Indian song:

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