nina

Basildon, UK

#470 Jun 30, 2009
OMG!!!- I have been reading some of this comments - it is shameful - on all of you. So much racial prejudice - it is really shameful.
When are people gonna learn that it does not matter what race you are? What country you were born? It is not like any of us had much choice where we are going to be born or what colour we are going to be. We are what we are - but we are all people, all members of the planet Earth and none of us is anything more or less from the other- doesn't matter how beautiful one is, how smart one is, how wealthy one is - we are all people! The only difference is character - the heart - whether you are a good person or not - whether you have compassion for your fellow human and other beings or not.. No religion should matter, no race should matter, no status should matter as much as the character! There is only one race - race of humanity.
No wonder this planet is constantly at war and so much horrible things are still happening, when we have such narrow minds - educate yourself- read educational books rather than stupid magazines that write about which celeb is thiner than the other.. and try to respect your fellow man, no matter what colour he/she might be.
Philip

Moorabbin, Australia

#471 Jun 30, 2009
Hi abbie,
I am an indian, where ever i go people look me like a jerk, i dont know whny, may be i look ugly and not a handsome guy. but i feel most of the girls like to date only handsome and white guys.Even if i like a girl and have the confidence to say it, if i see their way of looking my face and my appearence, i drop my opinion and stepback. while chatting in yahoo, girls reject me when i say i am from india, i dont know why.
abbie wrote:
Hey, I agree with shygurl- I find Indian guys very attractive! I really like the accent.. And by the way, neither I nor any of my friends have ever discussed that men from that part of the world are "less endowed".. Come on, grow up!
So, sweetguy, if you come across women that regard you that way, then they aren't worth it! I think the key to getting women to notice you is having confidence.. So get out there and show us white girls what you're made of!
sun

United States

#472 Jun 30, 2009
hey this is all bullshit.....m an indian n i have never felt that i am being left over. believe me or not but girls here really like me.i work at a grocery store and there are many girls who have asked me out. currently i am dating a white american.the catch is...just be neat and clean,smell good and treat everybody nicely....n never ever talk in your native language in front of americans...they hate it n it sounds mean.americans are not fools,they are humanbeings just like everybody else in this world and if they dont like you,its not because of your being indian..its because of YOU as an individual..so take it easy...life's good..
bigboi

United States

#473 Jul 1, 2009
ay I'm an indian guy I'm 15 yrs old and I get ladies by da flock...
American Born Indian

Mission, TX

#474 Jul 2, 2009
Honestly,
It is true that Indians that come straight from India should take a lesson in personal hygiene, but remember they are coming to a different culture, where appearances are everything basically, American's worship youth, looking (smelling) good and making lots of money is virtually the revised American dream. Just look at how fast the plastic surgery industry grew these past few years, everyone's trying to look like the celebrities.
I am an Indian guy who was born and raised in California my whole life, and i have dated all types of girls from white to black. Men like women, and women like men period, there is no objecting to that, in mix marriages i have to admit it is hard, but adjustment and understanding are key on both sides. But people many people don't look at the benefit's, as a team you have more power, my girlfriend currently for 4 year's is Brazilian. She grew up speaking Portuguese and Spanish, and I grew up speaking English, Hindi, and some Arabic (understand Punjabi, and Gujarati). Whenever we travel to South American she handles everything and when we travel to the middle-east or India I cover everything, we make a great team. And when it comes to having kid's if we ever do get married, she has agreed that many people speak Spanish, and she would like to teach our children a unique language like Hindi, so that made me happy. Imagine the cultural eduction our children can have, if we ever do get married, there are many benefit's, people just do not see them clearly Anything can be done as long as you work on it.
Personally i have never had trouble dating in the past, because many people don't know about the Indian culture, since it's so complex, and because it is so complex a first date for me never got boring, talking about Bollywood movies etc...
You Indian guy's, well make that all guy's out there if you really want some tip's on how to get girl's to like you just follow some of my advise:

1) Make sure before you leave your house you do not forget your confidence because that is what catches many girl's eye's, but not too much or they might think you stuck up.

2)Also before leaving your house, make sure you do not smell funky, buy some good cloth's and throw away those cloths from India, because trust be bro's, they look funny here. Buy some Cologne for when you go out.

3) Personally I have been taking classes in Salsa, Flamingo, Merengue and many other dancing styles, and girl's like a guy that knows how to bring it at the club. Learn to dance, and have a good time.

4)Always show that you are nice and polite even if she's not, for example once when leaving the movie theater I opened the door for my date, and the girl in the car next to me said,"That was so sweet, I wish my bf did that for me." You will be surprised on how many guy's actually are not gentlemen these day's.

5)Finally when you get a girl to go out with you, remember girl's like a guy that listens well, periodically ask her question's about what she is telling you, so that way she knows you are listening not just hearing, because there is a difference.

6)Personally I never kiss on a first date, unless she just kisses me. A peck on the cheek is good for a first date. Never let a date end badly, a date is a guy showing a girl a good time in my opinion, so don't let her Friday/Saturday night be a waste.

7)Be yourself, and never try to be anything your not, girl's do not like a complicated guy, there complication's are enough for one relationships...lol

8)Make her feel special, even if it is a first date.

I think of it like this, there are not many Indian people here in American compared to other races, so we should be on our best behavior to leave a good impression. I hope at least one of my tip's help my fellow men out there
lucky rawat

Chandigarh, India

#476 Jul 4, 2009
its typical indian mentality which run for white colour..let me tell u 1 thing...rather then putting up this question..u should try to impress indian girls..n whole world praise indian beauty..look upon bollywood..indian garls far more sexy n attractive then white...more to it..we hve culuture..tht we shuld always proud off..and millionf of english pplz comes to india just to expirience this culture only.be proud who u r.n go attract indian sexy girls rather then wasting time to glaring upon whites..white girls hve beuty but no culture..
Viking Gal

Norway

#477 Jul 4, 2009
lucky rawat wrote:
its typical indian mentality which run for white colour..let me tell u 1 thing...rather then putting up this question..u should try to impress indian girls..n whole world praise indian beauty..look upon bollywood..indian garls far more sexy n attractive then white...more to it..we hve culuture..tht we shuld always proud off..and millionf of english pplz comes to india just to expirience this culture only.be proud who u r.n go attract indian sexy girls rather then wasting time to glaring upon whites..white girls hve beuty but no culture..
Comments like that from ignorant people make people dislike indians. Every place has a culture of its own. Get outside India to experience it.
keeping it real

Waterlooville, UK

#480 Jul 4, 2009
white women are disgusting low class bitches they are the lowest of all society they not even attractive
mario lopez

Waterlooville, UK

#481 Jul 4, 2009
white women are just not open minded to dating brown skinned guys they see brown skin and automatically judge you based on appearance deal with it and grow up
Viking Gal

Norway

#482 Jul 4, 2009
keeping it real wrote:
white women are disgusting low class bitches they are the lowest of all society they not even attractive
You seem to be frustrated. Looks like you have been rejected a lot in your life.Get a life and stop making immature hate statements.
keeping it real

Waterlooville, UK

#483 Jul 4, 2009
viking gal ....listen im sorry for my aggression all i know is i was just hurt severly by a white girl who i thought i could trust we were really close and she dumps me after a year and a half and says her family didnt except brown folk in their family so i just went mad for a second and took it out on everyone, so im sorry i shouldn't have said all that i apologise to you and to everyone i offended i really do love white women and think the world of you ,you are the most fun loving and down to earth women; so im really sorry i really do love swedish women too i always viewed white women as gods greatest creation.....on a lighter note do swedish women like fair brown skinned guys cause i always liked yall
Viking Gal

Norway

#484 Jul 4, 2009
keeping it real wrote:
viking gal ....listen im sorry for my aggression all i know is i was just hurt severly by a white girl who i thought i could trust we were really close and she dumps me after a year and a half and says her family didnt except brown folk in their family so i just went mad for a second and took it out on everyone, so im sorry i shouldn't have said all that i apologise to you and to everyone i offended i really do love white women and think the world of you ,you are the most fun loving and down to earth women; so im really sorry i really do love swedish women too i always viewed white women as gods greatest creation.....on a lighter note do swedish women like fair brown skinned guys cause i always liked yall
What kind of a post was that? Was it meant to be sarcastic?
I'm sorry if you had a bad experience. But the bad deeds of one person doesn't even reflect the mentality of his/her family, leave alone the nationality or in your case the race.
"Fair brown"? What do you mean?
Well, anyway the reason why I was on this forum was because my fiancee is from India. We are dating since 3 years and getting married in August.
keeping it real

Waterlooville, UK

#485 Jul 4, 2009
viking gal....no it was not meant to be sarcastic at all ,i was just apologising to you for being rude i was out of order i was just upset about my break up.i am really quite a fun person ,that rude outburst is not normally me i was just hurt cause i thought that no white woman could ever truely love a brown skinned guy (indian)

all i meant was do women in sweden like indian guys that are brown skinned and can you really love them , im originally from u.k. and christian and love swedish women i think you are all really beautiful

i am sorry for my bad words earlier pls forgive me lol
Lovita Singapore

Singapore, Singapore

#489 Jul 5, 2009
Its only south east asian think that and also trying to look-down indian guys and indian people, its because they hate indian its true..........
1) Indians are great is sense people, they can help anyone.... if u ever visited India
2) Indians culture is really great and sweet most Americans and UK people like to visit India....
3) American and some European get married in Indian culture wedding.....
4) Thats y they called INCREDIBLE India
5) Those who never taste Indian guys they will never know.....
I know as i am Rusian i had Indian Boyfriend......
THOSE WHO BRING UP THIS ISSUE SHOULD BE FEEL SHAME......
Coz they are not guntle man or women..........
Raj

Arlington, VA

#490 Jul 8, 2009
Indiangirlie wrote:
I'm an Indian girl and kinda faced the same prejudice you do, except it's with Caucasian males. I live in an area where there are very few Indians, so all my friends were Caucasians. I always got the feeling Caucasian guys do not want to be seen as "that guy dating that Indian girl". Eventually I decided if Caucasian guys don't like me for me - then I'm not going to any lengths to change who I am, nor am I going to dwell on their disinterest in me. When I started uni, more Caucasian guys in my course started taking an interest in me. But the hurt and segregation I experienced during high school prevents me from getting romantically involved with them. It doesn't bother me anymore because I date asian, indian and latinos nowadays - we share same cultural values - so we get along better anyways.
Having been in Australia five times over the past decade I agree. Aussie Caucasian men date either East Asian or white women. However, most white Aussie women are racists...particularly the immigration officers. Frequently they look at me instead of looking at my US passport and enter my citizenship as Indian causing a lot of problems when I exit the country. So I avoid white female immigration officers in Australia.
sweetgal

Saint Paul, MN

#491 Jul 10, 2009
I'm a white American, but was born in Europe. I find Indian guys EXTREMELY attractive. MMMM...I think it's personal preference. I'm dating an Indian guy now, and he's amazing. one of the best lovers I've had, so that's obviously not it! Hahaha!:-)
indian bf

Pretoria, South Africa

#496 Jul 13, 2009
i think alot of white girls like indian guys i live in jhb and i only have indian friends ive went out with lots of indian guys but one thing you cant change indian gyus like being players but they can be i mean come on girls they are beautifull. by the way im white
girl8767

Cambridge, MA

#497 Jul 15, 2009
hi,

i am a lebanese girl and my bf of 2 years is east indian. we live in US. i love him SO much and we are getting married eventually.

from my experience, indian men can be quite different. some are big nerds who can't say a complete sentence without some reference to science (i am an MIT student, and even I get turned off by that)... they are quite nice, but to be attractive to women they need to cut down the math. Other indian guys are party animals! they drink a lot and like to flirt and play around with girls without getting serious with any and can have attractive personalities that help them get preys!lol... and some are pretty "NORMAL".(Just like all guys, some are assholes, some are good guys, some are geeks, some are etc)...
My boyfriend was born and raised in east india. he is very smart but he has a lot of interests outside academics... he is good looking, fashionable in a non-gay way, and confident. what i like most about him is his sincerity, kind heart and devotion. he really is my family in US and the one person i trust most besides my parents. he never "smells bad" and all this bullshit stereotypes. he had an accent when i first met him (i have my own accent too) and both our accents are getting better with time. No problem there. He is darker than the average indian, but it looks good on him and he knows how to carry himself and be attractive.

By the way, I am considered "white" according to indian standards.
girl8767

Cambridge, MA

#498 Jul 15, 2009
Advice for you:

1- be confident. Girls like guys with character and maturity.

2- be well rounded. Do your work well, go out with friends and have fun, have hobbies, take care of your health first and then also your appearance, try to understand the culture around you and life in general, be well spoken and know how to carry out interesting conversations, and above all develop your SPIRIT (be kind, honest, truthful, wise,..)... etc.

For me, a guy who has what i just mentioned is super attractive no matter what origin he has. In fact a different heritage can be a plus since it makes things more spicy!
scott

Germany

#499 Jul 15, 2009
what kind of gifts do you think ladies will appreciate?

I have not being much of a caring guy, but I want to begin to show how much I love her. So to the ladies and more experienced guys, what kind of gifts do you think ladies appreciate?
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