I have an interesting question. First and foremost a bit of background. Myself and this guy have been friends for going on 3 years now. He's a bit of a "dog" so to speak and we are internet friends only at this point. We'll see what happens further on.
Anyway, he tends to see women and dump them fairly quickly. He's evidently seeing someone now, though he mostly keeps it to himself. All he'll tell me if he's not online that "he is getting his freak on". Well today during our all day conversations (yes all day), he mentioned he was downloading a bunch of songs for this (excuse my language)b****. She tried to call him twice while we were talking and he blew her off both times. And if he called her a b**** once, he called her that every single solitary time. Finally the last call, he said he was going to talk to her and he'd talk to me later.
Why does a guy do that? Why would he call someone he is "seeing" a b**** to me? I just don't get it and I can't ask him...he has "privacy issues". I'm serious. I'm his best friend, we talk at least 4 times a week but he won't tell me anything at all and I've learned over the years not to ask too many questions. I'm private as well and volunteer almost nothing about anything personal I have going on so really that doesn't bother me. I just quite simply don't get why he would keep calling her that to me. And he didn't even stumble over the word. It came out totally naturally. Anyway, we are just friends and nothing more, so that's why I don't get this?