I'm a 56 y.o. white male.I've been living alone for 12 years.I've tried the dating sites online and I don't like them.There are to many crazy people on them.I don't care for all the sex and nastiness.I like sex just as much as the next man.But i have to know and like the person first.Maybe I'm old fashion and lost in time,but i need to have feeling for you first.The women get so many offers from men on the sites that i just get lost in the mix.I know i can't compete with these younger guys or the good looking men.But i have a beautiful heart.Is there anyone out there for me?When I was in my twenties and thrities I had no problems with the ladies.But now that I'm in my fifties its a whole new ball game.What happened???