Why is it so hard to find good men no...

Why is it so hard to find good men nowadays?

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“.RADIANT.”

Since: Nov 13

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#1 Nov 25, 2013
Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Guy Nowadays?
I am trying my best not to hate them but its hard. The type of man I like is vegan, dresses "eclectic", has a wonderful personality, intelligent and simply adores me, we're just compatible....or am I asking for to much? I am a woman and most women have list that goes out the front door, hell mine is short, sweet and to the point.
I am not even asking that you be movie star gorgeous (actually I'm not attracted to the flashiness), have a 6 figure salary or have an unrealistic amount of muscles.

Yes, of course I'm not perfect, I'm always working on myself and progressing to make my life easier, better and helper. I am 26, in shape, I love/accept everyone (until you **** me over, lol), I take really good care of myself (I'm not vain but I do like to "vain" things).
I just don't understand what you all want?! Even when I do meet what I think is a nice guy, they just want sex. I mean yea, I look great, I have a nice body, etc. but gesh, I mean there are women for pleasure in that manner, I just want something deeper.

I want love, I wanted it in return, sincere and mentally without you thinking about your hormones.

I'm confused...and I'm really struggling NOT to hate men. Its not healthy to hate you all but what else can I do?

Honestly?

I even stare, smile and kindly acknowledge you, but you're always ignoring me or focused elsewhere...
Indian guy

Ashburn, VA

#3 Dec 3, 2013
_icey_ wrote:
Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Guy Nowadays?
I am trying my best not to hate them but its hard. The type of man I like is vegan, dresses "eclectic", has a wonderful personality, intelligent and simply adores me, we're just compatible....or am I asking for to much? I am a woman and most women have list that goes out the front door, hell mine is short, sweet and to the point.
I am not even asking that you be movie star gorgeous (actually I'm not attracted to the flashiness), have a 6 figure salary or have an unrealistic amount of muscles.
Yes, of course I'm not perfect, I'm always working on myself and progressing to make my life easier, better and helper. I am 26, in shape, I love/accept everyone (until you **** me over, lol), I take really good care of myself (I'm not vain but I do like to "vain" things).
I just don't understand what you all want?! Even when I do meet what I think is a nice guy, they just want sex. I mean yea, I look great, I have a nice body, etc. but gesh, I mean there are women for pleasure in that manner, I just want something deeper.
I want love, I wanted it in return, sincere and mentally without you thinking about your hormones.
I'm confused...and I'm really struggling NOT to hate men. Its not healthy to hate you all but what else can I do?
Honestly?
I even stare, smile and kindly acknowledge you, but you're always ignoring me or focused elsewhere...
The guys you've ignored are probably nice guys.

“.RADIANT.”

Since: Nov 13

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#4 Dec 4, 2013
Indian guy wrote:
<quoted text>The guys you've ignored are probably nice guys.
I don't ignore anyone, I full aware of my surroundings at all times.

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