Is actual dating/courting going out o...

Is actual dating/courting going out of style?

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JustCurious

Richmond Hill, NY

#1 Jul 8, 2011
And this is for both men and women.

I really feel like people do not take the time out to date anymore. It just seems a man and woman meets and then they're already hooking up.

Since: Oct 07

Miami, FL

#2 Jul 8, 2011
Lots of people have turned their back on dating because it's simply not enjoyable. Lots of guys don't like to approach women in person. A lot of women do not like being approached by strangers. And then there are women who don't want to wait to be approached in order to date.

Let's face it, if rejection hurts, the fear of rejection hurts even more so.

Thus, online dating that may lead to hooking up appeals to these: those who don't like to approach a woman for dating,those women who don't like being approached, and those women who don't want to wait to be approached in order to date. It's safe for the ego of the otherwise would be approachers, both men and women.
George

Lake Alfred, FL

#3 Jul 9, 2011
I think people are realizing that dating should be fun, not some zombie-ritual where you're matched on 9 planes of existence just to maybe find someone you're half-way interested in. Its easier just to keep it casual and see where things go. I'd suggest http://amatuermatch.net for looking for something casual.
howiej52

Gig Harbor, WA

#5 Jul 9, 2011
Hi Boys and Girls
Lets put some fun in our lives. Do you want to chat? Do you want a friend? Do you want to hook-up? Why not explore the adult world and find what makes you happy. There is a whole world of adult thrills waiting to be enjoyed. It is a lot of fun chatting with other adults about what thrills they enjoy. Join some programs and see what there is out there. There are a lot of reasons why millions of people are enjoying the adult community. All ages, sizes, shapes, and colors want to find like minded people to enjoy what makes them happy. Check out xprofiles and see if you can find what you like.

http://adultsocialnetwork.blogspot.com/
dave

Exton, PA

#6 Aug 21, 2012
George and Rob48Fl really got it right! The rules
of the "dating game" are not much fun. It looks like men have stopped approaching because the entire process is do ugly. Maybe the rules are changing and it will be better for everybody.
Is it really necessary to go overseas?

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