Dating European women over American women

[Nellie]

First of all, its unfair to compare women from other countries for the simple fact that social idioms, politics, and culture has more relevance to this discussion than anything else. By simply sweeping American women with such a broad brush, it presupposes to negate all that we are.

Second, as someone else suggested. Why would a man who is happily married to a fabulous European even care about what single American women are doing? I think you are being a bit disingenuous in that regard.

I think the reality here is that for whatever reason (from what I can gather your negative attitude and spirit) you were never successful with American women and instead of chalking it up to life experience and meeting the right person at the right time you had to find an answer.

You couldn't internalize it and say there was something wrong with you, so it had to be something wrong with American women, right?

A mature man searches the world for his true love and doesn't criticize, down, or belittle his own race, ethnicity nor country for his choices. Somehow you have, and for your sake I hope that you can hold on to your European prize. Since she seems to love American men so much, she may find your insecurities daunting and move on to someone more mature and secure.

[Scott]

This is my first experience dating a European woman. I love learning about her culture, the sweet words she whispers into my ear that I do not understand, and the accent is a major bonus. I can say that from my own experience that this European woman is more direct and was easier to approach than any other American women that I have met. There is no taboo about sex and she has no problem giving me any feedback. Women I've dated here tend to keep you guessing instead of telling you exactly what they want. I have never met a girl as independant as this euro girl. She won't even let me give her gas money to come visit. I feel like I should be insulted, but admire her at the same time. She makes me feel materialistic lol.
Outside of that I think woman are not so different. They basically are emotional creatures and they generally love you with every fiber of their being. This Euro gal is just as jealous as any American girl can be. I think they have the same desires... kids, a good man, and a house of her own... but she could care less about having a diamond. Well, she gives me a hard time about buying her a diamond after I told her that many American women like diamonds.
It's still too early for me to judge one way or the other and I can only speak from my own experience. I do wish I had dated European women sooner... I am a sucker for an accent. It is a great opportunity to learn about another culture and possibly a new language. I see no downsides other than if they need to go back to their own country and you cannot follow.

[Robert]

I could not agree more! I was married to a German woman for three years and she was amazing... American woman think the man owes them a dinner, a gift and an attitude of entitlement. My German woman was beautiful beyond belief, independent, a hard worker, sexy and on and on.

Also, being with a European woman opens up doors of opportunity for travel, family from another culture and gives you an opportunity to literally get out of America and be "part" European...its worth it.

I totally advise men to look for European woman and only have Ameircans for the "hokey-pokey"... if you want someone for something lasting and deep, go abroad to Europe... in particular, Germans and Dutch woman.

[European in US]

American women are never treated like a women. They simply are not familiar with romantic love.

[Choiseul]

Alyssa ... very nice comment chere. I have been to france and their food... amazing (most of it). I drank nearly every day (was in college) and I was still healthy and losing weight .. due to to closeness of the town and the quality of the food. As in I walked everywhere almost.

You could spot a foreigner a mile away there. They were bigger than the rest of the crowd... it was odd.

[Choiseul]

European in US... that is a confusing way to put it, or its what I am drinking. Women here what I have noticed is if you are mean and a pric (when they are young and very very attractive) then you get the girl. If you are rich .. you get what gal you want practically.

It doesn't matter how nice you are to an american girl... they will walk all over you... and if you (at worst circumstances) talk back or get into a fight... they will win.. either with their ego or the law (unless they like being dominated vs independent). USA is too politically correct and therefore.. the american man suffers (if he is any majority... I am. heh) ok blogging more than agreeing.. so I will stop.--- I prefer any woman outside of the usa... because they are more kind, interesting, and understanding. They appreciate (in general, not all) others and have fun... but I have met some snotty people from germany and france. So, its sort of a demographic thing, but overall, it depends on the age and social niche a person is in or wants to be like.

[from here to there]

What's ironic here are how many European men I have met recently that are extremely interested and quick toward winning this American girl....

[homo sepian]

I have lived in the US for almost 5 years now.. I am neither american nor european (not a white guy).. here is my 2 cents of observation based on interaction with american and european women (except brits)..

In general, I find european women are more friendly, open minded and down to earth. American women are more reserved, most are cocky and hard to talk to. I used to think that american women are racist, but from this discussion it seems that its got to do with the more conservative american upbringing and/or the society and media which feeds stereotypes into americans.

I dont want to create any stereotypes here and not all american/european girls have the respective qualities I have mentioned... but majority of them do. Just an observation.