Asian Women Dating White Men

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Since: Jun 12

Boston, MA

#1 Jun 10, 2012
Why are so many beautiful, like super gorgeous beautiful, Chinese-American woman (2nd generation or more) dating ugly white guys? What's that, you say I'm mistaken? OK, let's do a scavenger hunt. My task, find 50 couples in which the C-A is an 8 or better on a 10 point scale and the W guy is 5 or below. Your task, find just 5 couples with a C-A woman 8 or better and a Black or Hispanic (or some other "non-white") guy 5 or below. Start anywhere in Boston, Cambridge or Brookline. Loser pays the winner one year's pay - whatever their income. Maybe you can think of a better prize, but you get my point. Odds of 10:1 and most would choose the first task - find 50 C-A/WM couples than 5 C-A/NW couples, right? A third alternative? How about 50 C-A/50 WM couples vs. 50 WF/50WM, woman is always 8 or better, guy 5 or lower?

The point is that it appears that very attractive C-A woman or more likely to date less attractive WM. Just to be clear we're talk about young regular single people, not 60 y/o billionaires with Asian trophy wives or any kind of trophy wife. A theory - Asian women like ugly nerdy white guys because….because…they might be the next Mark Zuckerberg. Yeah, right. Asian women are happy to do something nice for ugly white guys.

White guy's are not chasing Asian women because of the so-called "yellow fever," it is actually the reverse, the Asian woman are chasing the white guys. Why? I have my own theory but I'm interested to know what others think. Please note that anecdotal evidence may be interesting, but it is only anecdotal and doesn't prove anything. Let's find a theory the explains the behavior in general, realizing that there will be many exceptions.

Hoping to have a serious discussion. Please be respectful if you choose to respond. We can analyze and seek to understand behavior without pathologizing it or demonizing the individual participants.

What's your explanation?
Truth Be Told

Woburn, MA

#2 Jun 12, 2012
Perhaps they are attracted to each other's personalities?
bangladeshi saracen

Mitcham, UK

#3 Jun 14, 2012
all i know is asian women in america have the highest std rate then any other group what the hell are these dirty asian girls doing in america to get these disgusting disease ,you chinese girls are dragons you will survive it .
retread

Grove City, OH

#4 Jul 6, 2012
For what it is worth, not much: First Chinese women like all Asian women are very smart, I am married to a Filipina, probably considerd at the the bottom of the Asian intelligence scale, but she is smarter than I am with an MBA, own two businesse's and am quite comfortably retired. So I think they are smart enough to pick men who are going to be good to them regardless of physical appearance. Many good looking guys, say above a 5 are self centered and find little reason to go out of their way to show a woman they love them or are even not capable of it. Your chinese women sense this and do not find this in the macho man who sees himself picking fruit from a vine.I know my wife could have done much better than me but her Asian intuition guided her to me?
Lays Classic Potato Chips

Netherlands

#5 Sep 19, 2012
Typing something doesn't make it true. You probably jerk off to Playboys full of white chicks. See?
JAG

Alexandria, VA

#6 Oct 24, 2012
Every post on here is complete BS. Do you guys just wake up in the morning and post random stupid sh|t cause mommy made you eat your veggies.

Asian female and White male couples ARE THE WEALTHIEST COUPLES OF ANY MIX OR NON-MIX ON THE PLANET. They dwarf you little p|ssant monkey's in success. And they have mixed kids that look better than you ever will- hence no STD.

I don't know what you are all smoking, but it sounds like the ranting of some ticked off white chicks and their hairless little brothers.
rambo9

Apache Junction, AZ

#8 Oct 7, 2013
to doggiedoo?? maybe it's because the good looking women get tired of ignorant self important buttholes and decide to find a man that will treat them like they feel they should be treated instead of a disposable trophy.
rambo9

Apache Junction, AZ

#9 Oct 31, 2013
to bangladeshi; and you would know this how, considering that you live in the U.K and all.
Bobski

Covina, CA

#10 Jul 1, 2014
Your assumptions are that relationships are based on looks and ethnicity (which really reveals more about yourself than anyone else). WHY make a bold statement about the amount of beautiful girls dating "ugly" guys and then leave it to others to research the validity of your claim? YOU made the claim; YOU bear the burden of proof.
Also, Why not just let people be happy? Who are YOU that people in this world have to make dating decisions that YOU approve of? Get over yourself.
Lastly, given enough time...we will ALL be considered "unattractive". That shallow attribute doesn't last long. It's better to find someone who is your best friend and whose company you enjoy. Once You are content with the person you love--you won't worry so much about what others are doing.:) Cheers!
Tom

Brookline, MA

#11 Jul 1, 2014
Size Matters :)
Fine

Worcester, MA

#12 Jul 2, 2014
By me

“Groooovin'”

Since: Feb 14

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#13 Jul 4, 2014
REALLY???

What is the BIG DEAL Here??

Ya Know..All this does is Get Folks RILED up and Think Angry thoughts!!

If Folks WOULD just Let LOVE find it's Match..THE Earth Would be at PEACE!!

Seriously!!

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